excited to see me and our time together is always on par if not better than our first visit. Even so much that I'm venturing into the dinner date and day encounter territories with one of them. I only repeat with ladies I feel a strong connection with and who project the same vibe.
I have seen a few providers multiple times. For one things are still getting better each time. For another the other direction. Trying to figure out if it’s the thrill if meeting a new person is the thing this one provider is into or if she is just going through paces with me and would rather see someone new ... Perhaps she just takes my request because I am a nice guy she knows already.
So ladies do though find yourself pulling out all the stops for a new client and putting less effort into repeats or the other way around ?
I think most would back down after getting to know you. It's a job....they aren't going to go overboard once they know you. I'm not in to BJ, the girls I see often know that, and don't even bother. Why should they? It's less work for them, and they know it's unnecessary. And its quite possible that a provider who truly loves her job may very well feel that 1st time excitement. They are human.... and many prefer the mystery to the reality. Don't worry about it... if it gets stale, find a new provider. I keep a few in rotation... prevents boredom, keeps me from getting too attached. I find once I run the rotation, lady number 1 is like a new experience all over again.
Like Showing Off , Being My Best each time and Beyond..
And most repeats keep going...like the Energizer Bunny...until they retire.
The non-repeats are still fun. I have no complaints.
If a provider puts less effort into repeats, do you really think she'd admit it here? 
The ladies I keep returning to again and again are those who make each visit better than the last, or at least at a consistent level of excellence. With them, the more we get to know each other and what each of us likes, the better it gets.
Sometimes on a first date with a provider, it's good but not great. But I might repeat anyway to see if there's an improvement. Sometimes there is, sometimes there isn't (and then that second date is the last).
My top three girls are just as fun now as when I first met them. I think when you have a great connection with a provider the novelty of seeing her for the very first time is always there.
I am a serial repeater and I've been playing with a few of the ladies for up to 4 years. Because of my travel schedule, I get to see some of them once or twice a month or sometimes it's 3 or 4 months between appointments.
I think of these ladies as my friends and they all treat me like I am the greatest lover in the world.
If it seemed like married sex, I'd get married. Well, not really.
If you are going back to deteriorating experiences, that's on you.
Thank you ladies.
excited to see me and our time together is always on par if not better than our first visit. Even so much that I'm venturing into the dinner date and day encounter territories with one of them. I only repeat with ladies I feel a strong connection with and who project the same vibe.
That each session is an "audition" for the next session. The second meeting is always better than the first, and as long as the service stays at that level, there is no reason for me to stop. I enjoy the social aspect, so I don't generally get bored with a girl that warranted a repeat, and good service will always keep me coming back.
With that said, I think its human nature when you're running any kind of business to take regular customers for granted after awhile. You just assume they are happy with what they're getting and will always remain customers. Using the "audition" test, if the service starts to slide, I quit coming. However, I will often go back three or four months later, and I will invariably get the question about why I quit coming. I will tell her that it seemed she was not into the last few sessions the same way she was previously, so I thought maybe she was preoccupied with other things, and I should take a break and give her a chance to work out whatever her problems were that were causing her to lose focus. That is usually enough to get her back on track and waking her up to the fact that if she takes me for granted again, I will be gone again. It resets the standard for what I expect, and gives her total control over whether I come back or not, and if I don't, she doesn't need to wonder why.
When I have a great first session and some level of connection with a provider, I will generally see her again. If the second time is just as good (but hopefully better), I might book a third time. If the second time around isn't as good, I don't book a third time around -- too many good alternatives and why spend more money on a situation that's going downhill?
Yes, I understand that everyone has an off- day once in a while but unless she's going to make an adjustment in terms of time and/or money, on to the next.
I've had too many good experiences with fave providers to reward poor performance with someone else.
I always put my all into a visit with a gentleman. Occasionally there are times I feel I don't "click" with someone but they have requested another visit. I like to give people second chances because I feel the more one gets to know someone the better things tend to be. Second time around, after not feeling the "click" I still give it my all. If I still don't feel it after round two then I just simply don't accept the third request. I'm not hard up, I don't like being uncomfortable, I'm not one to fake it, I want to have a good time too. I also don't think it's fair to the other person when I'm not enjoying myself when most of the men I see are coming to see me to please me as well. I wouldn't date a man who I don't connect with so I'm not going to continue to see a man who's looking for a girlfriend experience when I don't feel connected. I guess that's part of what sets me aside from some providers. I am also a hobbyist just as much as I am a provider, so yes, I'm giving every single visit my all because I want as much pleasure as possible out of every single one!!!
As far as my regulars or "repeats," as you call it, go.... I feel we have the most earth shaking, body quivering, feel it in your bones, intense, erotic, pleasurable times ever!! They have learned my body as I have theirs. The first visit you can give directions, say what it is you desire but it's not the same as learning all of one's body; after learning one's body there is still more to explore. I've had regulars open my eyes to things I had no clue I liked. We have built a special connection and comfort level.
In my experience, if the first meeting goes well, the 2nd and 3rd meetings are better, sometimes much better. Providers are human. Just like us they likely have first date jitters, not to mention LE fears, and thoughts of a crazy unknown on the other side of the door. By the 2nd meeting they know that we're safe so they can enjoy their time a bit more, too. And if you click after 2 dates, the 3rd one is generally better -- at least it often has been for me.
And I am attracted to the lady, I am likely to repeat. I have seen ATF's 4-5 years countless times. With some - for whatever reason, there is a point of diminishing returns. In that case I bail if I don't feel the fire anymore.
If the first encounter doesn't light my fire - then I am one and done.
Meeting someone new and meeting again with someone familiar. I feel more comfortable doing more with a client I've seen before and we can both have fun trying things we might not have in the beginning. The more trust we can have equals limitless experiences.