I've read several reviews where the reviewer states a particular's girl's CBJ feels just as good as a BBBJ.

Can this be true (depending on the girl's technique), or is the reviewer either trying to be a nice guy or trying to justify the CBJ because a BBBJ wasn't available?

There is no way....a CBJ will never beat the feeling of a BBBJ, no matter what people say. When you're receiving oral from a guy, do you think it will feel better if he's using a protection between his mouth and you?

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I think the answer is most of us have had BBBJ that are just so,so and then once in a while we get someone that only does CBJ but is so good it knocks your socks off (if you still have them on).  The difference is of course in the technique but maybe even more so in how much she gets into the act.  I see a gal in Phoenix that will only do CBJ but gets into it so much she is much better than most that do BBBJ.  I can only imagine what it would be like if she gave BBBJ.

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A CBJ can feel good but does it compare to a BBBJ? NOOOOO. Im thinking they are being nice or have masturbated so long and vigorously that all sensation is gone thus deleting any means of true comparison. Imagine Tiffani, if you will, the next time you get a manicure wear rubber gloves when they soak your fingers. Feels warm but doesnt feel anything like au natural.
~smile~IMHO

A CBJ is a different service than a BBBJ. It is TOTALLY different.

No way it's the same.

That's exactly my experience.  The girls I have seen who do the best BJ (that I have experienced) are strictly CBJ.  And I don't slight them for being a bit more safety-conscious.

-Hoot.



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I have to agree with Slowstart.  Some ladies are so good at CBJ's that they feel better than the average BBBJ.  But the best of the best is without question done bare.

I have been trying to figure out just what makes a BJ so good in the mouth of a great provider so that I can help my current favorite SP, a relative newcomer who does good but not outstanding BBBJs, learn to improve her BJs.  But I have never given a BJ, only received many ranging from poor to fantastic. So I am stumped on what instructions to give her. But her recent experimentation on technique using me as a guinea pig has been fun.

NO! there is not a chance in Hell that BJ would feel anywhere near as good with the cover on.  To avoid the apples and oranges issue here, what I mean is comparing the sensation from the same performer with and without the cover, I would call anyone a flat out lier of he said anything other than Bare back felt the best.  Come on, it just makes sense.

I thought the question was can a CBJ from one girl feels as good as a BBBJ from another girl.  My answer still is YES.  The gal I mentioned above gives a CBJ that is better than 90% of the BBBJ I have gotten.  Would it be even better if it were a BBBJ, HELL yes but she is still better than most who do give BB.  She also has about five or six positions that she uses while giving a BJ which certainly adds to the excitement. A couple of which I still don't know how she does it, but she seems to love it so who am I to worry.

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It's that simple.  One of the reasons that I like TER so much is that I can be reasonably assured that I won't be getting a CBJ when I book a date.  I have yet to meet a CBJ that I enjoyed.  And although some ladies' oral skills are extraordinary, even those with average skills make me feel good.  It's that simple, for me.  That said, every guy is different, just like every gal is different when it comes to DATY.  And as someone else in this thread has already commented to the ladies, try to imagine the difference between BBDATY and CDATY (dental dam or Saran Wrap).



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Lets compare good covered sex and bad uncovered.  I think since I have such a love for condoms.  I buy them and wear them even when I am not having sex.  Anyway condoms SUCK.  Uncovered is always better than covered NO if ands or Butts.  Saying that since I know who Mr Slow is speaking of she is unreal.  Her experience covered was wild.  So maybe I just don't know.  It is the whole experience that counts.

as stated by others so far, there are two separate issues here.

first, her skills and ability are the primary variable in determining the amount of pleasure a guy will received whether covered or not. I have found my preference is that she must be a little more energetic and grip tighter with the lips and hands when performing covered, while uncovered this is not necessary. soft and sensual tongue licks do not work very well, at least for me, with a barrier between us, but can be (should be) incorporatred into BBBJ.

Second issue, CBJ vs. BBBJ, all other things being equal, no comparison, BBBJ wins with no debate or discussion needed. I hope this answers the original question for you, Tiffani. yes, sensation is completely and totally different.

above all, I feel that making sure that both parties involved are relaxed, at ease, and comfortable with the other's actions and/or attention to saftey concerns will dictate the outcome of the overall experience. this is why you may get mixed results from clients or when reading reviews.

take care and be safe, mr.man

...how could that even remotely compare to a bj even if it is
covered?

In all seriousness CBJ almost never even approaches BBBJ in sensation, but I supose a truly gifted and skilled provider could make it better than a rather unenthusiastic and far less skilled provider that does BBBJ.

Personally I look for the provider that does BBBJ, I know there may be a risk to the provider but statistically the risk is quite small. It's a choice the provider has to make for herself.

That's the real test.  She puts the condom on, you don't know she did, and you're flipping out ...

Then a CBJ is exciting.  If it's formally applied, the head is out of the game, and it's a CBJ vs BBBJ, and the BBBJ always wins.



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I book an appointment where BBBJ is offered, I don't where it's not.  That's the difference.

 Cm

feel.  And yes, I'm speaking from expereince.  

I wouldn't knowingly see a provider that did CBJ, but if I got surprised, for whatever reason, I'd tell her to just move on to the main course.  I actually think they're worse than getting nothing, because they just piss me off so much.

A CBJ just is like waving food in front of a starving man, and then pulling it away just as he goes to reach for it.  I'd really much rather have a good HJ, at least then I could feel something.

As much as I can respect ladies who only want to do CBJ, I have to agree with Cynicalman.  I have a hard enough (ahem) time with condoms as it is just with intercourse.

I know I am clean, and I only see reputable providers, so I tend to pass if one only offers CBJ.  However, if there was a gal I was REALLY interested in, and her reviews specifically said that her CBJ was just as good as a BBBJ from most providers, I might consider it.  However, she would have to be damn good to make me forget the latex.

Reitto....

It seem that the women who do CBJ only, usually develop the skills that make the experience fantastic. Also Some use a different cover for BJ than for FS. The combo of a thinner coat & a womans honed skills can make it fantastic.
You also have to repect their concern for safety , both hers and yours.

Reitto....

--You also have to repect their concern for safety , both hers and yours

Exactly!

-Hoot.



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I have heard that using remote control can help someone better understand what you want in a BJ.  Haven't tried it myself.

lubricant on my carrot before it gets bagged.  The bag will stay put, and will be a BIG IMPROVEMENT for a CBJ.

Booiiinnnnggggg!

Cheers!

BBBJ usually feels better than CBJ, but if a provider is simply going to put her lips around it and bob up and down a little, there really isn't any pleasure for me.  I've had women give me such a weak bbbj that I couldn't keep an erection and then I've had women give me a great cbj.  The key is to keep your teeth out of the way and suck on that baby as if your life depended on it!  Remeber, a bj is all about the sucking, not just rubbing your mouth around his penis.