I am relatively new and have a suggestion on the Review fill-out.  Would it be out of the question to have a GFE experience box, yes, no as promised ???
Most providers list this (or don't) on their indiv web sights, but reading a review one would not know if GFE was promised and provided or not.  Maybe not a big deal to you younger folks. Like most of us in our 40's (take heed ladies) and up we would like that as much as the sex and to know by reading the review would better fill in what our expectations would be.  Can you tell I've been burned already.  
I have sent this question to the higher ups as well.

GFE is something that is defined in various ways depending on who you talk to. So you can't have something checked or unchecked when the very definition of the term is as various as people's opinions.

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Oh dear God NO, don't even try to go there.

First off, if you ask ten people in this hobby what GFE means, you will get ten very different answers. So what definition of GFE shall we use??

Secondly, all of the elements that make up what most would consider GFE - BJ (lets not debate CBJ versus BBBJ again please), DATY, FS, multi-pops, unrushed, and kissing, are ALL covered on the profile. For a more detailed account that gives you an idea of the lady's personality, attitude, grooming, atmosphere, etc you have the juicy details. If you have VIP status, and read a lady's entire review, this question should be pretty well answered.

Of course, as always, one must also factor in the YMMV variable, but you should be able to have a pretty clear view of what to expect from reading the reviews.

As a client, I don't feel GFE should be a check box.  I agree there are different definations.  There is not a check list that has to be all X'd to recieve this exhaulted status.  

When I come away from a date, do I feel like it was a session with a GF or not.  There are different ways to arrive at the destination.  A fav recently BBBJCIM finale'...  the next was doggie.  Perhaps the way she cleans us up with a warm towel & then lays back down with her head on my shoulder, our legs intertwined,  limp Henry between us...  maybe that's what makes  GFE!  

YMMV is absolutely true...  an excellant provider...  can do everything right...  give a terrific experience but just not have the chemistry.  I would give her a great review but for me it would not feel like GF.

While I agree, is it REALLY that different from numerical grades for appearance?  I saw a lady yesterday that was the thinnest (healthy) woman that I've ever met.  To me, she was a 10 to 12 in appearance, but I know that a lot of guys would be disappointed in her because she's "too skinny".

I guess after reading all of your reviews, and taking into consideration your points, should there be a definition of GFE?  There are guide lines to follow concerning performance and what makes a 7 vs an 8 why, or even more objective is appearence.  I see plenty of over weight women pic's that reviewers label as avg??  I feel the main reason I had for asking for feed back is to weed out the fakes that list themselves as "I am 100% GFE". If this was defined yes/no in the review, one wouldn't have to bounce back and forth to the providers web sight to see if she states this is what she offers or not and if so, did she follow thru as promised? If providers are going to state GFE, then there should be some definition. Again, being in my mid 40's BBBJ, etc. in my mind has nothing to do with GFE, it's more defined in my mind as sensuality, caressing, talking, kissing, hugging, and a genuine feeling that you, the client, are what's important during your session.  We shouldn't have to depend on wheather the reviewer chose to include in his "experience" write-up if he felt GFE or not. I guess we as guys do this for different reasons, I for one am not the "wham bam thank you mame" type. If that makes me "looking for or expecting too much" from this hobby, then my bad.

No, you aren't looking for too much, but everything you say you are looking for can be found by reading reviews. Not just in the laundry list of items that are on the table (or not available as the case may be), but also in the juicy details as well. As to things like cressing, sensuality, etc, those traits are very much YMMV, because they depend heavily on chemistry.

The other problem is that if you think it is difficult quantifying performance and appearance into numbers, try quantifying something as vague as whether she spent enough time cuddling you into a yes/no criteria. You want sensuality? One man's definition of sensuality is having smoke blown in his face while another man defines the ultimate in sensuality as a woman who will give him a lap dance. You don't seriously think that anyone is going to come with a standardized definition for what makes a woman sensual, or warm, or sexy do you??? Surely you can't be that naive.

Finally, one last point that baffles me. After looking at your reviews, I noted that all but one of your reviews were 8's and 9's, clearly good experiences on your part. The one exception you gave the lady a 6, and the written portion was a lengthy explanation of all the ways in which she was NOT a GFE in your book. Fair enough, sorry for you bad experience, but then I look at your profile and (I'm SHOCKED!) she has no other reviews. So how, if I may be so bold, would adding another category to the reviews have helped you??? Basically, you took a chance on an unkown, and in doing so, you took one for the team.

My advice, unless you are prepared to sift through the ocassional dud experience by trying out ladies without reviews, simply stick with ladies who have stellar reviews. Everything you need to know can be found by reading not just the profile, but the entire review, and not reading just one, but several reviews for a lady before seeing her. Your chances of finding what you seek should be excellent if you do your due dilligence beforehand.

Yeah I don't think your suggestion will be added to the profile and for good reason. To YOU, GFE has a certain criteria/definition that may not be the next person's view on the matter.

I consider myself a GFE provider but more of a PSE.  I offer all the things that one would group up with a gfe experience but I am more into the fun friend/sexual pleasure type dates. Meaning...I don't do the whole gazing in your eyes, cuddling, and so forth that most older, lonely men want.

The clients I see want an attractive, fun, intersting, skilled companion who offers a list of acronyms which in their mind constitues a GFE. I see men who are assured with themselves rather than looking for that assurance through a pay date. They just want to have a great experience with someone who rocks their world but have no need to "pretend" it is anything more than that even for the length of the date.

Many older men have told me that if I don't cram my tongue down their throat(DFK), that I would not be one the list of gfe. That is ludicrious! I actually KNOW how to kiss! LFK done with MUCH skill is what most guys want, but I have noticed that older men are stuck in a time warp when it comes to kissing...  If you don't know how to kiss, than don't expect me to honor your request! Also the reason I now have an age limit!!!  Seeing only 2 or 3 guys a week makes it easy to be extremely selective in accepting guys who I know will make the best companion as well as the most profit.

Sins, thank you for your response. As I stated that being new and trying to fully understand what one should expect and what one receives is the million dollar question.  To be specific concerning this indiv, I sent her an e-mail as to if she was a GFE provider and the rsponse that I recieved in return was very detailed in HER definition of GFE and that I agreed with.  Unfortunately per my review, it was false advertising. I sift through reviews on women on all the available web sights, eros, cityvibe, back page, etc and maybe there aren't enough, some, but not enough descriptions by clients of the GFE aspect of their session.  Is one to assume that if there is no mention of GFE in the review, then there was none, or do reviewers feel compelled to review just the meat and potatoes of the experience???
Thank you again for your insight.

Not all us older guys are stuck in a time warp. Some of us are charming, fun, and appreciative. You should give us a chance. Some of us make excellent clients.

but only AFTER you answer a million personal questions and send me a picture...just kidding about the picture part!!!