Janet:
I never make excuses for anyone who is running a scam. What you described is not a scam. Janet: You are a drama queen. Janet: Move on with your life, find a different provider, and for the love of everything get outside and touch grass.question for fellow hobbyists. i’ve observed a high end provider running a scam across the country for months. providers are definitely united but hobbyists not so much. should i expose her and her scam?
there’s a provider i’ve wanted to see for a while but she doesn’t provide a particular service so i never tried to see her. all of a sudden this year all of her ads for her tour cities indicate that she now provides that particular service. however her ads for her base city where everyone already knows she doesn’t provide that particular service indicate that she doesn’t provide that particular service. i say all of that to say…for unsuspecting clients across the country…you’ll pay 800 for a hr expecting bbbj but when you get in the room…she takes your money and gives you a cbj. if you question her…she’ll either show you the ad from her base city that indicates she doesn’t do bbbj or she’ll say it was an innocent mistake in her ad.
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Janet has “observed” this provider advertising BBBJ but only providing CBJ. How has Janet observed this?
You still have failed to actually give anyone that might be in a city the unnamed provider might visit information that can actually use.
You also seem to be suggesting that an observation of 1 is sufficient to claim some trend exists.
Here's a thought, put a name out, with or without a link to an ad for some non-homebase city. Let the guys there know to pay close attention to the ad and the provider and if anyone sees her report back (or at least let people know a review has been submitted). Then everyone that cares will have something that resembles a fact.
A provider offering an expanded menu in touring cities isn't a scam. It's certainly an "alert" situation because it's uncommon
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but for it to be a scam youd need evidence of a person who wanted bbbj, bit on the ad and was then offered only a CBJ.
Usually service industry sellers with limited loyal client/fanbases (ie, p4p providers) try to avoid these "new client specials" as to not piss off and alienate the existing clientele.
But it's certainly not a scam unless you have clear evidence of false advertising.
"united." Are they pooling their tips, or what?
I read that as implying that other providers are "covering" for the one in question, but no details were given, so who knows what "Janet" meant.
Mentioning that providers are "united" doesn't seem to mean a damned thing in the context of the post.
I mentioned that providers are “united” because they’ll always look the other way or make an excuse when a provider is clearly running a scam. Flip side of that…hobbyists are not united…some guys always simp for providers so I was asking does it even matter if I expose this particular provider that is running a scam.
No, they will not always look the other way. But it's not their job to police other escorts either. But I have seen escorts get in some pretty epic battles on Twitter, ones where they attempt to call each other out and expose each other. And, they know they are being followed by clients and potential clients. There is no united friends verse that escorts live in. That's just a false idea in your head.
Most of the providers that post on this board condemn their sisters who are running scams on customers. The scammers give the honest girls a bad name, so why would they cover for them?
With that said, there may be isolated groups of scammers who are working together on social media platforms to fleece the same victims, but I don't see any evidence of this being widespread from the providers I know and the ones who post on this board.
One of the ways to give back to the TER community of mongers is to expose providers who are scamming their customers. Just be certain you have the facts to back up your claims.
All providers are absolutely not united. Many have their friend groups. But all united is quite the stretch.
And yes, yea you should expose a scam if it’s actually happening.
This is why all reviews need to be 100% honest in there reviews. And why you should never trust 1 or 2 reviewer nor TOFTT.
I agree reviews should be honest. And while I cannot fault anyone for wanting more reviews, I have taken some risks and seen ladies with 1-2 reviews, and even none on occasion. Some of these ladies are now charging as much as 1.5K with plenty of reviews, and are in the top 100. One made it into the top 10. Seeing I can no longer afford them and knowing how great they were, they were worth the risk. But I have gotten a couple wrong too, so that's the risk vs. reward.
That is not a scam Janet. I personally do offer BBBJ but I do have some reviews floating around and I have seen on some other discussion/review boards that I only do CBJ which is false. If a gent requests a CBJ I will of course oblige, but this is not my go to. I have lots of ads/reviews across lots of platforms. I do my best to make sure that all information is the same on every platform but there may be some that are missed. I have also found "ads" on some websites that I have never posted on and I never authorized so I am going to have little to no control as to what is posted on them.
You seem to have a shit ton of time on your hands so if you actually go through all of my ads/reviews/boards and let me know where you find discrepancies so I could get them updated that would be GREAT.
As always,
stay sane and stay safe
Scarlet
Everyone please read my last reply on this thread. Scarlet is making an excuse for a provider who is clearly running a scam. It is not an innocent mistake that on one site she is running ads in 7 different cities and all of those ads except for her base city indicates that she does bbbj. As I mentioned in my original post i’ve wanted to see her for a while but she doesn’t offer bbbj. I guess instead of finally offering the service she decided to run this scam.
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How do YOU know what services she really offers? If you've never seen her you have no idea whether she's a scammer or not.
Scarlet is not one to protect scammers. I know from experience.
Janet:
I never make excuses for anyone who is running a scam. What you described is not a scam.
Janet:
You are a drama queen.
Janet:
Move on with your life, find a different provider, and for the love of everything get outside and touch grass.
Providers also change over time. One lady I used to see had about 200 reviews. The earliest 40 or so all said she didn't kiss at all. That changed over time and by the time I started seeing her she not only kissed but was amazing at it.
In some cases it's a YMMV situation. One lady who I saw on her visit here had reviews (and has had more since I saw her) that all say CBJ only. I saw her twice while she was here and I experienced BBBJ with her both times.
I also disagree that providers always cover for each other. I've seen the opposite. Most providers I know have no problem calling out scammers because it just makes it more difficult for the vast majority of legit ladies to conduct their business.
Maybe write a review or something? Almost like this is a place where there are reviews of people.