TY for all the different opinions and good advice so far. Sometimes I find myself with luxury accommodations and free time so I want to be able to take advantage if the right situation presents itself.
I've been doing this for a while but never tried picking up freestyling girls at hotel bars. Any advice how to make good choices? I'm used to looking at online ads and researching reviews. How does one close the deal and donation? Just carry large amounts of cash around?
LE often operates in this manner so that is a no go for me. Not knocking your desires, just expressing my risk adversity to that type of p4p. Imo, why go that route when so many beautiful, well reviewed women exist online for your dating pleasure?
pocket handkerchief in your breast pocket, display a stack of Benjamins. May look a little tacky, but results are assured. Lol
I am very discreet & meet all my new friends at the bar. I have rubbed elbows with lots of people who ended up being life long friends. Being a social butterfly 🦋 makes this easy for me because I love to laugh & smile + I am attractive to the opposite sex men gravitate towards me naturally. I’m selling my personality to hook a man at a bar takes talent, and skills. I don’t recommend anyone doing it unless you’re aware of the laws, and vocabulary means absolutely everything.
* Choose your words wisely. LE is only a factor if there’s a major event, like operation slam dunk= NBA all stars
Soliciting prostitution is a misdemeanor in SoCAL, and no one wants this on their resume. Be weary, but don’t be scared. If you want to give it a shot be confident have cash because that’s the golden ticket. Ask her if she’s available to have a drink in a more private setting if you have a room at the hotel perfecto! Casinos are a win. Traveling I always was able to get a date at any hotel bar. Best of luck. 🤞
A very Interesting post Bia.....question: When exactly do you "lower the boom" so to speak, and tell the prospective client at the bar that they now owe you X amount of dollars for the fact you rubbed their elbow and engaged them in social conversation? As you told me (quite rightly), there is no free food in your pantry (so to speak...)
I totally am with you on charging men for your company in the privacy of your room or theirs, as well you should.....but at what point do you stop talking with someone YOU approached in a social setting to drum up business, based upon what you schooled me about regarding socially hanging out with men who are already "in the company" of a bunch of other people in society....much like you'd find in Las Vegas at any Bar, or craps table or card table etc.....?
I'm seriously asking because I really want to understand all this and avoid making anyone feel upset or awkward or weird etc, especially YOU. If I know I am going to be in a very public wide open place, with a lot of other people around in natural normal social activity, and I invite YOU to simply join in this natural normal activity, why should I then pay YOU a "socializing fee" to briefly get to know you over 10-15 minutes, without also paying EVERYONE else who is around the Bar, or Casino, or craps table, etc....? DO you understand what I'm getting at or asking?
Sorry you’re confused. 🤔 I’m a professional. Do not try this if you’re a novice. I do not recommend it. No mf way in hell would I ask people for $ for my time at the bar that’s ignorant & an excellent way to get 86 out. Never allowed to return. No thanks. Would hate to jeopardize getting kicked out of anywhere.
Freestyling is super simple & does not take long when you practice the laws of attraction. I’m not teaching, or sharing my technique sorry not sorry. Your welcome.
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If you didn't get the vibe/feelings at the bar in a "social setting," you're probably not getting into the room. I have met beautiful women this way, but never planned in advance. Always approach a single woman at the bar, club etc in a most respectful way with no expectation other than making a casual social connection. At minimum, you will have met someone nice and perhaps get a number for a future nsa date. If you find a provider, you will know it. I agree with Queen- if you have never done this, do not try it. Three things can happen to you if you are a novice and two of them are bad!
It all starts with the location. It's not like you can easily walk into any bar or club and pick out an escort, especially if you do not have knowledge they will even be there. First, do some homework and find out where they may tend to be. Once you know this, there is a fair chance they will approach you if they see you looking at them. They do this for a living and they want you to pick them over other escorts in the same location. From there, the rest should be easy.
Stay away from freestylers. They are dangerous and way more likely to drug or rob you. You have no ad, phone number or other information to reference if things go south. Also it is fucking stupid. You're going to a bar to flirt with women in order to pay for sex? Buddy I pay for sex to bypass all that. If I'm going to go out to a bar to pick up a woman I'm not going to be paying to take her home.
..........If I'm going to go out to a bar to pick up a woman I'm not going to be paying to take her home.
Happens to me in Vegas all the time. Had one girl tell me “ daddy your chip stack is huge now “ after a big hit. Shen then touches my arm. Next thing I know she gets asked for her ID. Had I been a little more drunk…lol she was fine as hell. Needless to say she was talked to then walked out .
Means not going to jail.
TY for all the different opinions and good advice so far. Sometimes I find myself with luxury accommodations and free time so I want to be able to take advantage if the right situation presents itself.
"What's the WORST that can happen?" According to the consensus here, some pretty bad shit is possible. I have no experience with picking up hookers in bars, but have done okay with civvie girls over the years, but what others say makes sense to me as far as risk.
Sorry, but I don't have the time to sit in a bar hoping some guy will pick me up just as I have no desire wasting my time standing on a streetcorner in a short skirt. No thanks. The closet I came to this was a guy wanted to meet me in a coffee shop and start a convo and "pick me up" which was fun, but it was all predetermined obviously and not random. I have heard guys say that they can contact 10 different gals from their online ads and hope one or might two respond, so I would assume your chances of finding an escort in a bar just looking for business would be that much lower. Unless you are really into getting slapped by women that you proposition that are *NOT* escorts, I would say there are much less risky avenues to take in the pay to play world.
I was with an escort in Vegas who mentioned off hand that she sometimes gets approached at bars during her free time. If a guy flirts with her, she'll usually drop the hammer at that point. That seems like the only time it would make sense. However, Vegas is a very forgiving place and I would imagine most establishments usually don't want escorts trying to pick up clients in their bar. I imagine most times escorts don't want to attract attention of hotel management either.
Outside of that, I've only heard negative experiences. I know guys who got drugged and robbed this way. I know one guy was approached at a bar and after a lengthy conversation, some flirting and a few drinks was propositioned. Then his phone rang and he noticed it was in her purse for some reason. He got his phone and quickly got out of there.
Vegas is one of the better options if you’re going to do it. But even then, it’s smart to find out where to go first. Back in the days, I did it in Atlantic City, which is basically Vegas if it was trashier and less safe. Not sure what I was thinking.
I wouldn't say that Vegas is one of the better options, it is just one of the few options for freestyling. Sure you can cruise a casino floor or bar and find women freestyling. However there is a very good chance you get ripped off. It seems like Casino's in general are places where escorts feel safe freestyling.
Atlantic City isn't a great place to get laid tbh. AC seems to get a lot of families and Philly/NYC are bigger/better markets for providers year round. There aren't a lot of girls advertising online. There are plenty of girls walking the streets and working the casinos though. You can also try picking up strippers. I've never taken that jump in AC, it never seemed worth it. Other than that you can always give Kitty a call.