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Lex Luethor 24 Reviews 1496 reads
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I try to be polite.

A recent post by a very biligerent person made me realize why I had doubts about coming back and voicing my opinion again (which I think for the most part is valued by many and not offensive). When I voice my opinion, it's generally thoughtful or hopefully thought-provoking and I try to use humor instead of brutality in my verbage. Anyway, this Board has definitely undergone a change with a few people who can dish it out but cannot take it (or take things very wrongly and then don't have the decency to apologize). Gees, people!  This is supposed to be fun and fantasy, although hopefully -- like I said previously -- thought- provoking with interesting things to say and be heard. We can voice our opinions and that's supposed to be our right (or so I fought for), but can we be a little more couteous? Most of us have never met and some of us will never (unfortuantely), but someone with anger issues needs to seek out and find someone to talk to about those issues. That doesn't mean seeing a psychotherapist. Not everyone is bad here and our intentions are usually good, albeit a few of us. I think every person is different and there's no reason to bash any gender. We may joke about each other from time to time, but that's no way to get a date. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

jack-in-the-crack2570 reads

belligerence.  

Calling a person an asshole because of their opinion or description of facts is sort of over the top, don't you think?

Verbal brutality?  What is that?  Like, calling a person an asshole because you take offense?  Is there somebody angry here?  Who?

after you talking about my NCOs and how they felt about me. I don't know your life and really it's none of my business. I just think there are better ways to handle things. By the way, is your first name Rick. Tee-he! Read your response again, darling. Anyone would consider that beligerent. Please just stop.

Me wanting to lick you all over shouldn't be misinterpreted as not understanding or agreeing with your entire post, or misunderstood as something sexist or degrading.

I just want to eat you alive out of lust.

Thank-you, dearest for the important message/reminder.

jack-in-the-crack4397 reads

[GGG]

How about we give her a tag-team spanking?  I chicken out when they turn pink, so if you (or she) want welts, you'll have to do it yourself.

how many hours drive is it from L.A. to Phoenix?

I'm not sure. There's always MapQuest.  It's probably about a 5-hour drive.

Hugs,
Ciara

10 hour drive round trip for what would have to be a one or two hour appointment.

That's not too bad! (considering I'm a lunatic.)

MissAnonymous1491 reads

It wasn't eloquent nor ladylike to attack that poster and call him derogatory names.

You promulgate the stereotype that women can't debate without getting weepy, nasty or emotional.

Perhaps an apology from you is in order first--then the rest of us might believe your post about "good manners."

jack-in-the-crack2896 reads

the board doesn't need fights.   Except as foreplay.

BTW, if I see your link or ID, I'll PM.

-- Modified on 11/18/2005 11:21:16 AM

However, I will apologize to anyone who was offended by any comments I've ever made. We all are tired at times and attacks about our personal lives (which he made, my dear) and our past service to our country cannot be overlooked. By the way, who is Miss Anonymous?  

Hugs,
Ciara

Sometimes I get tired of other people bashing someone else. I'm actually a defender, but then again you don't know me, as I don't know you. I try to say things using good judgment and/or supposedly taken as humorous. That's why I always put "winks" behind something. Most of the posters that have been on this Board know that. I've been posting for a long, long time. Just took a break for awhile. I'm so sorry you took offense to it. I would, however, love to know you're real name. I don't have a problem standing behind mine or apologizing to anyone.

Hugs,
Ciara

jack-in-the-crack1776 reads

your alleged fat body & alleged bald head is already impossibly rude anyway.  I can only hope to acheive so much.

Not that this is related, but I AM bald. And I AM fat.

Oh, and did I mention: I have an incredibly small penis... my doctor called it "vestigle".


-- Modified on 11/17/2005 7:14:03 PM

jack-in-the-crack3451 reads

party admission, or something...

1- where the hell did this post even stem from ?
2- i didnt even see anyone insult you anywhere..

Welcome back to TER  :)

Not you, too. First, this post was meant to be for everyone and not blatantly pointing the finger at anyone. That's why no names were used. However, the poster who has been insulting to quite a few people could read it. He gave himself up, darlin', as mentioned before. And yes, anyone who cleverly hides behind illusive grammar and then tries to say they don't mean it's abusive? Email me privately on this one. I'm done with it, sweetie. You, of all people, should know I'm going to stand up for myself and others.

Hugs,
Ciara

I musta missed it or didnt  read that thread.. holidays... argh..busyness

Check the mail
Love ya !

I just ignore the mongerin` fools LOL of tell them to fuck off :)

Ciara Luethor2279 reads

...seems like everybody is using it now.

one in Arizona (that I know of). Actually, the nickname's Ci Ci.

Wink & hugs,
CiaraPhx (Ci Ci)


I hope you don't have second thoughts.  

Maybe I'll fly out to LA just so I could join JP for a road trip to Phoenix.  ;)  

If he feels the call of the desert; I understand, I do too.  Unfortunately, I'm a bit more geographically challenged for that trip.  

it's okay for some people to exercise their right to bash people, but it's still not okay for providers to take a strong stand. I find it humorous that some providers still (maybe for money sake) stand up for these guys. Talk about going back to the middle ages, eh?  It obviously doesn't affect my business because my clients/friends are caring, intelligent people. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

As you well know Ciara, there will always be "richard craniums" here who hide behide alias's and intentionally seek out conflict.
That seems to be what they enjoy.
They get a kick out of bad mouthing anyone , it must be a power tripMaybe being anymous here allows then the ability to be the "big man" they can't be in real life.
Many people will say that using an alias is justified, but it really allows someone like your "friend' to spread hate a discontent without any responsibility for his comments.

I'm sure  he' a "real man".

I know you.
Don't ever stop expressing your opinions.
We have missed your presence on these  boards and we ignore the jerks, and they soon just go away as people tend to ignore them.

I will watch your back anytime, soldier!!!

Just my opinion...
B


-- Modified on 11/18/2005 11:33:58 AM

You're right!  It's obvious when they hide behind aliases. At least I stand up for people and am not afraid to put myself out there and show my website and name. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

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