there was a time when you couldn't even submit a post with the phrase BBFS ... and heaven forbid you mentioned that you "did it on occasion" you would get blasted .... and another thing i have noticed ... many more lady's websites now state no BBFS ... which means guys are asking for it in sufficient numbers they feel the need to post that.
wild! maybe because in the past everyone played safe and nothing happened ... now they are thinking well... cant hurt ... kinda like the guy who after he jumped off the building said .. so far so good as he passed the 6th floor ... oh my favorite on a website .. no BBFS ..no STD tests .... no allergies love the last thing ... guys will try anything LOL
BBFS has been asked for, offered, and provider forever. There is no price point that doesn't have a provider providing it. Difference between then and now is there used be a lot more ymmv and discretion.
I may not have been looking real close..... But, in Atlanta, I began to notice BBFS being offered more around the time of FOSTA/SESTA and the Dekalb/Dunwoody bust. Also, the ladies that I saw said that they had more mongers asking about (for) BBFS. I believe that the guys expected more options available and the ladies (that offered/added) wanted to keep their price range as the hobby suffered a mild (?) setback.
Just an observation. Would like to hear others. I don’t see the Corona, personally effecting my long time decisions on BBFS...... Never asked or wanted. And actually WILL NOT see ladies that proffer such, specially bold print in their ads.
BBFS was in my mind a subject always taboo for discussing. Not for indulging only discussing. Over the years I’ve known providers that were rock stars and on the first encounter there was chemistry and it happened with no discussion about it. I’ve also known those that it would take three or four engagements for it to come to pass. Sometimes by talking about it and a bit of an up sell or just happening organically. Then of course there are those where it’s just not up for negotiation. It’s out there, always has been and always will be. Call it ymmv or just the luck of the dice but if someone wants it bad enough it’s not mission impossible.
I did see an agency provider and we did BBFS. There was also one independent that offered the same. It really was not that hard to get but it just takes the right price point.
actually glad to see people talking openly about this ... only proves it not as rare as one would like to believe .. which hopefully will make everyone .. including me! think twice or three times before next time.
its the true Catch-22 .. you want to do with a girl who won't ... and you don't want to do it with a girl that will. even I have standards any women that lists BBFS available ( and there are some!) i would never consider but more so i am concerned about any guy that would. i think it would be very helpful / interesting to hear a ladies take on this .. and she should post anonymously / alias so she can be candid.
also about the same time TER went dark. I think more women would offer it if they were absolutely certain some dickwad was NOT going to put it in a review. The public disclosure is what makes it an issue. Most providers want to make their own decisions about whether to offer it to particular customers, or not. When its public, every swinging dick that walks through the door thinks he is entitled to it because another guy said he got it. Just because you got it, does NOT mean its on her menu for everyone, and naming her as a BBFS provider is a douche move, IMO. IF she's advertising it on her website, then its okay to tell whoever you want. Its not the BBFS that is a problem, its the ungentlemanly conduct of the customers in outing a girl who is offering it discreetly.
I read Freakanomics several years ago and this remained in my mind,
“But she categorically insists that her clients wear a condom. What if a client offered her $1 million to have sex without a condom? Allie pauses to consider this question. Then, exhibiting a keen understanding of what economists call adverse selection, she declares that she still wouldn’t do it – because any client crazy enough to offer $1 million for a single round of unprotected sex must be so crazy that he should be avoided at all costs.” Always thought that was interesting
I don't think I've seen a provider reply to this thread yet. All of my personal acquaintance colleagues (gg & tgirl) don't entertain possibility of bbfs (caveat below). On the twitter, which I consider the adult entertainer/performer water cooler, its anecdotally the same. I of course can't speak to the old pollster dilemma that respondents might say one thing to save face on the phone, and then vote the opposite way. That said, if a provider also does porn and is in the PASS testing system, what we say is what we mean. The previously mentioned caveat, I do know some providers that do do bbfs with ongoing clients that go to expense of getting tested the day prior via Talent Testing Service. Safe hobbying y'all, Kacy TGirl
BB service is talked about more now because EVERYTHING is talked about more now. It’s not a “new” thing. Some ladies have provided BB services to some guys since Adam and Eve. It’s a personal choice. There was a time when what happened between 2 people stated between those 2. No one else knew. Now every detail is blasted to everyone on the internet. If you don’t want to see a lady who does BB, I suggest you get out of the hobby - cause a lot more do it (at least once in a while) than you think.
...or ANY uncovered service (e.g., BBBJ), there are ALWAYS going to be some risks in p4p. As I've been a part of this play land since 1992 (off & on), I've had BBFS offered to me a time or two. I've politely declined and then moved on, as that exceeds my "appetite for risk." (great phrase I read today where a researcher was talking about Covid-19 potential exposures and re-opening society).
As has been noted here, if you want to be 100% safe all the time, stay out of p4p. In fact, it would probably be best to encase yourself in bubble wrap, sit on the couch and wait for death to claim you. There ain't no guarantees in life, so be smart, play to your safety/enjoyment level and buena suerte!
Since returning to the hobby 1 1/2 years ago, i have had many women offer it or simply just do it. Many have tried on the first session and my big head has won but then I see the lady again and it just happens naturally. It is probably very stupid but I get tested regularly. I was very concerned recently about a local gal that was offering bbfs to everyone apparently as I have had over 10 guys tell me they had bb with her and she told all of them the same thing she told me. I stopped seeing her but I’m not delusional enough to think that the other women providing bbfs to me aren’t offering it to most guys. No worries now as I haven’t Hobbied for 2 months and maybe it’s time to hang up the hobby for good, lol.
It is truly amazing how things have changed. Some that would put in no bb, no bbbj are now saying bb and bbbj available. It is now not part of the menu item for those who are willing to pay and take risks.
The providers who offer it will cash in like an annuity for child support payments.
I've seen all sorts of price range, from backpage girls that do $120 to models that are $2k for an hour. Never been offered bbfs. Bbbj is hit or miss, same with kissing. Only time bbfs was really mentioned, turned out to be a ripoff. (Early days when I first started. Supposedly a sting, but wasn't arrested and detective never talked to me, so pretty sure was just a ripoff)
It's a personal choice. I've been seeing a girl BBFSCIP for over 7 years. Haven't had a single issue. She's very comfortable with me. When I first asked her for BBFSCIP there was no hesitation on her part. She agreed right at that moment.
I would never get involved with a gal that did BBFS. Especially if she advertises it. I think CIP means the same? Cum In Pussy? The risk of STD is just too great. Too many guys could have left some bad STD in her. That is why they invented condoms.
I do fine with a condom, and it does not interfere with satisfaction or feeling. But I am over 70 so anything is great. But I can understand how younger energetic guys would get high with BB. I do wonder about p2p as to how risky it might be. DFK and DATY/69 could also be a bit risky. But I enjoy and want all of them, so that is where I draw the line.
If BBFSCIP is a bonus reward for being a few of her top clients, is that like getting upgraded to 1st class on a plane?
If that is the case instead of issuing double miles does that mean you get to give her sloppy seconds on occasion, or does she invite another of her top clients to join you for BBFSDPCIP + ?
Well actually she called one of her BBFSCIP clients and arranged a three way. Her, me, and her other client to do her BBFSCIP. All of us met at her place. Me and her other client both finished BBFSCIP with her. Paid her usual rate. She had a great time. She says she would like to plan another meeting in the future.
Someone else (I won’t mention the name but it’s easy enough to figure out for anyone interested) posted on the old thread and brought it back to the top of the front page. Of course seeing a post about bbfs, ROGM has to jump in, but he isn’t the one who resurrected the 2 year old thread.
Steph, He is like a lawyer who needs to know exactly where he heard the comment and gets the exact quote to prove it. He has also been watching too much Law & Order and is anticipating the new series.
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Re: The thread was two freaking years old!!s old You obviously had enough time on your hands to do a search here for bbfs and resurrect an old as thread. SIGH... -- Modified on 11/5/2021 9:17:05 AM
I am understanding this correctly? You shot your wad in a pussy filled with another man's cum? Not much grosses me out, but that......ugh.
First time I repeated with a girl friend, I hesitated. My first load was inside mixing it up with her fluids. I figured it's my DNA so who the fuck cares. But another dudes spunk? Nope, not me, never.
Let’s reveal some real truths here, a couple years back I started bare backing these two escorts. One of them offered it as an up sale, the other basically just sat on my dick the first time we met and I, in my horny state, decided to go with it. After a couple months of seeing both girls I realized my dick started itching and it burned when I peed. Then I realized there were streaks of blood in my semen. Low and behold I tested positive for Chlamydia. I got it cleared up pretty quickly with antibiotics but it sucked having to deal with it and it scared the crap out of me.
I actually warned both girls about it and they both told me they tested negative. I really believe one or both of them were lying to me. Ultimately I decided to stop seeing them both and since then I’ve kept my dick wrapped up. In a lot of these topics no one ever seems to mention ever getting an STD, making it seem like the chance is rather small. Well, I caught Chlamydia, and I’m actually glad it was Chlamydia instead of something far worse. Lesson learned, I don’t bareback providers anymore and avoid providers who might offer it. Sure, it might feel better to go bare, but the whole burning piss thing really made it not worth the risk.
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