I've heard about them, of course, but don't really know how they work.  But I'm not comfortable with them.

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I use only 2 rs2000 and date-check.com, both life time memberships.

I figure who needs having their personal information spread over God knows how many data basis out there?  I know many providers who are happy to give me a reference and that has always worked for me, so why bother?

Re:How many men actually do this ?

DANG!!  Didn't even know about these.
That's why I'm still  a relative newbie.

Thanks for the info.

One angry employee it all it would take to ruin alot of lives. I'll take my chances with my referal network.

I did have a problem verifying my employment. My employer uses a third party verifier: The Work Number.  If you call my place of employment, they won't even admit that they know me.  

Of course, The Work Number insists on a credit card charge to release the information, I could reimburse her for that, but worse they also demand my SSN to do it.  I'm not going to release that to her.  

So, this is the situation these days: providers ask for references and work information, and employers won't admit to a business relationship they've had for years.

I've said it before: you know the world is changing when the hookers are acting like corporations and corporations are acting like hookers.

They seem too high profile to me and I worry that the info would fall into the hands of a zealous prosecutor,  organized crime or worse.  I prefer to use provider references, when this isn't acceptable I have given personal matterial to providers.  I'd rather trust a provider with a good rep. than these guys.

I've never used a verification site. By the time I was made aware of them, I had already written a few reviews and had references.
Never been ASKED to go through a verification site either.
But my needs and circumstances are different than others, and I can see where the value of discretion makes a verify site like rs2000 or the others quite compelling and useful for many.

The ones that accept me, know me from my posts - and are accepting of the green color....  and I carefully come to their place and discreetly as possible....  hide my donating green in a white envelop and that seems to work better than RS2000 - and other such services...

While I have had the verification actually done on me, and I carry a business card to the encounter.... I have found that I have been told that, at least on the phone, I give off a lot of good vibes - and so I have not had to go through the agony of a lengthly verification process....  even though I know that some of the ladies I see, do an extensive background check.  I also, usually have really enjoyable sessions....   so when others don't - I have to think it has something to do with attitude...

Aside from my approach here on the boards, in real, REAL life - I suspect that you would not know it was me - coming to your door.... for trickin & treatin!!  lol.... I truly crack me up!!

it worked well.  Some providers knew of it, called, and voila - an appointmnet.  Some who weren't familiar but were curious, connected w/ RS2K, and found it to be "useful."

The down side is that once you've been in the hobby for awhile and accumulate references, it becomes rather useless.  Thankfully, its only $50 - one time fee.

Works well for me if the lady accepts verification site reference.  Only about one in ten does.

Saves hassle waiting for references to get checked.

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Hmm!  See that my first reply never got on here.

Didn't know there were so many verification sites available!  So far, I've bbeen rel;ying on personal contacts and e-mails & I haven't had a problem at all.