Wondering why I am always pressured to do bbbj. My #1 goal is to be safe, yet fun. There is no amount of money worth putting my health at risk for. I buy the more expensive, thin condoms and those work perfect, evn if the guy is hesitant at first?

Bottom line is do what you are comfortable with. Maybe I'm more of a gentleman than some if lady said that's how she does it then that's how it's gonna happen. Might get flamed for that comment but you're comfort should mean more than guys pleasure. I'm sure you make up for it in other ways. :0)

...I'm not going to put pressure on you or insist.

Why is it important?
It's the next best thing to intercourse without a condom. But I'm not going there and won't ask you to either. There is risk with BBBJ but it's not as high. I've heard there is a higher risk for you with BBBJ than me. Bottom line you decide what's acceptable to you. I will respect that.

That being said, I guess some guys are just jerks.  From your profile it's clear that you are non-GFE and perform only CBJ but your posted rate is very fair for the services that you provide so guys really shouldn't be pressuring you.  In any event, stick with what works for you.  Sure, there are guys for whom CBJ is a deal breaker but many of us will go either way as long as the over-all experience is good.  

For most guys, oral sex through a condom = reduced sensation. For many older guys who already have reduced sensation, oral sex through a condom = no sensation at all. It does not matter how thin the condom is.

Then, there is also the interruption of stopping to put on the condom (again, no matter how good you are at it). And finally, for many of us there is a certain intimacy and acceptance when a woman takes us into her mouth without a cover.

In my opinion, the dangers of catching something deadly through unprotected oral sex are virtually non-existent, and even the dangers of contracting something less dangerous (like gonorrhea or chlamydia) are quite small, and treatable. I do not deny the fact that there is risk involved, but the truth is that there is risk even if you use a condom for everything - you do not eliminate risk by using a condom, only reduce it. So for my part, I decided a long time ago that I was willing to take a certain amount of risk in order to receive a level of pleasure and satisfaction that I seek.

I am a very clean person, I get tested regularly since I am sexually active, and I have a medical background; I feel confident that I am not presenting a significant risk to my partner(s). I understand completely that that means nothing to you as a provider, of course you should NOT take my (or any client's) word for that. I'm just saying that I am comfortable in my own mind that I am not putting anyone else in danger.

OK, having said all that, I would NEVER try to talk a provider into doing ANYTHING that she was not comfortable with - I am likely to make a request, and if she says no, then no means no. I might not choose to see her again if she does not provide the services that I desire, but I would never pressure or try to force her to do anything.

And you know I am speaking the truth dear, because I wrote your first review.

This isn't exactly rocket science here.  They "work perfectly" (not really, actually) to prevent transmission of STD's but there isn't a condom on the planet that doesn't deaden the sensation so there is really no comparison!  Obviously, do only what you are comfortable doing but know that it narrows your pool of potential clients.

I won't repeat what the others have said about the lack of sensation but I do agree completely with them.  I have never been able to pop in a condom during oral.  A couple of times I was expecting BBBJ and did not know she would not do it, until it was too late, miscommunication.  It's hard enough to pop in the condom during intercourse.  However, there are enough providers available who will do BBBJ that I do not even consider one who does not.  If you are not comfortable with BBBJ, then by all means follow your feelings, and don't do it.  Just understand that many guys, like me, will not be calling you.  

I respect your choice, but if what I want on a provider's menu is not there, I do not visit her.  I would never pressure a provider to do something she is not comfortable with.  It's sad that some guys will do that.  I will just keep looking rather than waste my time and hers trying to get her to something she doesn't want to do.  It's a whole lot easier.

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While a CBJ can be good it is almost no comparison.  
Suck on your finger then put a condom on your finger and suck it again and you will get a slight idea of what we are talking about.

You have the right to offer only what you are comfortable with and no one should pressure you to do otherwise.

I agree.  I won't see a provider if she only offers CBJ.

When they DID once get blowjobs, there was no cover.  So why should a guy settle for a blowjob with one?

You can talk all day about how it's almost as good or just as good, but you really don't know, because you are not getting sucked.

Having said that, don't do what you don't wanna do.  We won't, either.

Thanks

Agreed. After browsing her profile, she does not kiss, allow FIV or Daty either. Krystal, trust me when I tell you, you are not going to make it as a "GFE" Provider if you don't do any of those things...they are the backbone of what embodies "GFE."

Now, that does not mean you can't make money doing something else. Have you considered FBSM? I have many friends who do the sensual massage, full body, but the guys cannot kiss you, finger you, etc. ALL it is with the women I know is a massage and ends in a hand job...that's a rap. I think you might have better luck in that realm, since you don't provide any of the services that most expect from GFE.

You should never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, so that is the only reason I suggest the FBSM route. I doubt you will be able to command over 200 for it, but so what..it's only your hand lol.

I do not got out for a gourmet meal and purposely miss dessert. I can stay home and eat leftovers or make a sandwich.

It is not the meal I seek unless BBBJNQNS. That's dessert. Stick with FBSM and master the handshake and the poke/probe.

Because escorts generally do all the shit you don't want to do.

Why advertise it as a car if you can't jump in it, drive it to the store and park it in a regular parking space?  If you have to take special precaution to put special gas in it, start it a certain way, not do this or that...it's not a car.

Bwahhahahah...I love it. "Poke/Probe." Never heard anyone use that term before. I have heard "rub n tug" but never your description. Very witty.