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is this drugs?
grayleopard 62 reads
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trying to book my #2 visit last-minute. just had a gchat conversation with someone listed as available now on PD. the first person i saw for over a year and they were amazing and well adjusted so this was quite a shock. is this drugs? a deranged stripper? how common is this kind of mentality? what should i have said instead of "menu"?

 
Hi xx, my name is yy I saw you on PD. Sorry to reach out at the last minute but my Sunday changed unexpectedly - would you happen to have time for a 130-330 or 2-4 session today? If so lmk, i have a few menu questions then will verify :)
Message from xx: Hey there! "Menu questions"?? I am not a restaurant,  
Message from xx: "What are you looking for?"
Message from yy: "Okay, sorry to offend you, i was trying to err on the side of being discreet. Is there more respectful language i should use instead?"  
Message from xx: What are you looking for?
Message from yy: I think our vibes will be off if we meet, sorry to bother you, have a good day.
Message from xx: WEIRDO
Message from xx (5 minutes later): YOUR LOSS

I think that was what you were saying but not 100% clear.

 
In any case sounds like she wanted you to ask your questions, and ask for that twice. You then bailed rather than asking your questions.

 
I would not chalk that up to drugs. Bad interaction, yes, but I think you own some of it.

My2Cents2 reads

Mentioning a menu can be taken as you are possibly a member of LE and trying to frame her. Of course she is going to be cautious and ask you more questions before telling you what her "menu" is - which would never be discussed anyways. That's what reviews or a website is for. The better question is to ask if she has a website or reviews that you can read.  

This is not drugs nor a "deranged stripper".

I think she was giving you an opp to clarify and things went downhill from there.  
I'm thinking that you could have said something like:
Oh! Of course not. I referring to your PD [Private Delights, I assume] ad.  
I was looking for reviews on TER and  
-- I didn't find your profile or any reviews. Did I miss it?
-- I did find your profile and reviews and I was wondering if everything is up to date
and so on.

Posted By: grayleopard

trying to book my #2 visit last-minute. just had a gchat conversation with someone listed as available now on PD. the first person i saw for over a year and they were amazing and well adjusted so this was quite a shock. is this drugs? a deranged stripper? how common is this kind of mentality? what should i have said instead of "menu"?  
   
   
 Hi xx, my name is yy I saw you on PD. Sorry to reach out at the last minute but my Sunday changed unexpectedly - would you happen to have time for a 130-330 or 2-4 session today? If so lmk, i have a few menu questions then will verify :)  
 Message from xx: Hey there! "Menu questions"?? I am not a restaurant,  
 Message from xx: "What are you looking for?"  
 Message from yy: "Okay, sorry to offend you, i was trying to err on the side of being discreet. Is there more respectful language i should use instead?"  
 Message from xx: What are you looking for?  
 Message from yy: I think our vibes will be off if we meet, sorry to bother you, have a good day.  
 Message from xx: WEIRDO  
 Message from xx (5 minutes later): YOUR LOSS

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