when guys stop sending deposits .. girls will stop asking ... now paying for expenses ie travel, airfare etc is ok but i pay for them ..NOT give them the money for them to pay
over the years i have broken this rule a few times for established women i had already seen and EVERY TIME i got ripped off .. either they said "oh it was a gift " or they moved to another city (! and of course they knew that when they asked for the $) or they said oh that $$ was just to reserve the time .. or in one case where i paid for several times ..she goes oh you used it all up our first time ... sorry maybe there are honorable women out there (Lorena being one of the very few and she sadly has left LV) but its not worth the chance and there are PLENTY of other ladies out there .. unfortunately you can't put it on a credit card and then ask for a refund. i don't mean to be rude and disrespectful to anyone specifically .. just reality.
How do I avoid these deposit scams? Every girl I've contacted have requested deposits before a date. Never had this issue, but I havn't actively looked for a date for almost 10 years. I'm looking for a quality outcall but havn't had any luck recently.
Not everyone who ask for a deposit is a scam. I only ask for a deposit for 3hrs or more, if it's our first time meeting. If I have to cancel you get it back.
Sadly so many girls are so tired of flakes and ncns that deposits are their way of weeding out those that are committed to meeting
Deposits are pretty standard at this point. I only accept dates with deposits, but that ($100) deposit goes towards the total of the date and is refundable if I cancel. It ensures we are both committed to showing up. If you've done your homework to find out that a provider has a website and social media history, and seems legit, a deposit isn't going to be a scam. Honestly, deposits should be a good sign that she's serious about showing up and ensuring you have a good time and want to be a repeat client! I'd rather have one decent client pay for an actual date than scam a few guys out of $100 here and there, lol!
On a similar note, if she screens you that's actually a good sign! It means she wants to meet you, and is making sure you aren't LE and are safe for her to see. Screening and deposit are green flags that she's legit!
Thank you for your honest reply. I've been out of the scene for years. Sadly, there are so many scams out there I honestly don't know and I am sort of afriad I'm going to be scammed. I had one provider ask me for half up front as a deposit for a one hour outcall session ($100) and it sort of spooked me cause I never needed to do that in the past. I guess the times have changed.
Do your due diligence by making sure the provider is legit. You can do a simple Google search. 👀 All providers are not created equally. It’s not difficult to find reputable providers who value their business.
when guys stop sending deposits .. girls will stop asking ... now paying for expenses ie travel, airfare etc is ok but i pay for them ..NOT give them the money for them to pay
over the years i have broken this rule a few times for established women i had already seen and EVERY TIME i got ripped off .. either they said "oh it was a gift " or they moved to another city (! and of course they knew that when they asked for the $) or they said oh that $$ was just to reserve the time .. or in one case where i paid for several times ..she goes oh you used it all up our first time ...
sorry maybe there are honorable women out there (Lorena being one of the very few and she sadly has left LV) but its not worth the chance and there are PLENTY of other ladies out there .. unfortunately you can't put it on a credit card and then ask for a refund. i don't mean to be rude and disrespectful to anyone specifically .. just reality.
You keep posting this bs, but in reality deposits are here to stay & so are reputable providers, like me. Sorry the providers you picked played theirselves. Just let it go. Your negative post has nothing to do with those of us whom never robbed, or scammed anyone. Let’s give it up to all the great providers who stand on business. 👏
Start a thread of all the wonderful women who require deposits & show up and show the fuk out. You don’t get consistently good reviews by not putting in maximum effort. Becoming a reputable provider does not happen over night, so let’s give the ladies respect whom deserve it.
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