I prefer Jiffy Pop
pun intended lol!
Yes this is an alias for obvious reasons and Yes I know it's crazy. I've never done it, but recently I was with a very well reviewed provider and after a little teasing on her part by rubbing on me before the cover was on we then put on the cover for round 1 and then she hopped on top for an uncovered round 2. It obviously felt good and was something I had always fantasized about so I didn't stop her. I know it's way too risky and not worth it, but I wasn't thinking with my head. For 2 weeks I literally lost sleep worrying and did get tested and even paid for the much faster HIV DNA test so that I didn't have to wait months to find out and thank god everything came back clean. The tests ended up being more than the session so it also qualifies as my most expensive session ever. This hobby is like a drug and I find myself going to that providers pictures and fantasizing about it. I've been in this hobby for 20 years and I knew it happened, but I've never had it offered and never asked for it. I don't know that I could ever see her again because of the fear that I'd do the same thing all over again.
I have been debating saying who the provider was, but have been leaning toward not disclosing that. She is a great provider and I had one of the best sessions I've ever had, but I really need the provider to stand strong on that ground and not tempt me with that kind of risk. It's hard to say no when you are really into it and the provider just does it. I know I bare just as much blame so I'm not trying to put all the blame on her.
It's probably a waste of my energy to say this, but please don't bother responding telling me I'm crazy and you would never. I've seen way too many of those threads already
So would you come in a girl if you knew she wasn't taking birth control ? same difference as going for the bbfs regardless how you want to justify it she teased You whatever the ownership is on You. And if You think she isn't doing it with anyone else I have some beachfront property I want to sell You.
Yes I'd come in a girl that I knew wasn't taking birth control because I've had a vasectomy. Yes I know she is doing it with others, which is why I clearly said I was very worried, lost sleep and got tested. Also, yes I said I was partly to blame, but you make it sound as if it was all my fault and I disagree.
Not trying to sound like a dick, but I won't bother responding to anymore posts like this that just want to bash. If you want to enter into a conversation I'm very eager and that's why i posted, but I'm not interested in defending my actions because I clearly said I don't agree with them either. If you have never done anything stupid that you regret then I also have some beachfront property I'd like to sell you.
Not only are You stupid your in denial. You are 100% responsible for your actions no one else , that was my point.
You could spend money on a shrink but sociopaths can't be treated. Idiot
If she wanted to have your baby then she got screwed twice! lol
Personally, I know it happens, I've had the offer. I am enjoying the rancor and rhetoric, makes for entertaining dump reading...
BUT
To suggest you have anything short of 100% responsibility for the event and actions, and ultimately the outcome of the event is 100% complete and total bullshit. You did what you did. Own it, you were tempted and made a decision, probably a bad one, but it was yours to make. She doesn't owe you an apology or even to change her behavior. Don't be a pussy, she made an offer, you made your own decision. Man up.
Guys are so sensitive these days, what a bunch of pussies and professional victims this nation is be becoming....
"Waaaa, she showed me her pussy, it's not my fault". Damn...I wasn't there but I know this, whoever she was and however she's built, hers wasn't the biggest pussy in the room.
You did it, own it, learn from it and move on...geeeeeeez
has the right to know even if you have to pm if your asked to pm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
From posts you have already made, you don't want to hear from anyone saying how crazy (your words) you are. Based on your reaction, you obviously know the potential risks, so no sense in rehashing them.
You say you don't want to name her. People have a right to ask, you have the right to refuse to answer. Some will say you should, some will say you shouldn't. And there will be others that simply won't care either way. But the topic of naming names is something you state you don't want to discuss.
You also stated that you know you bare just as much blame as the provider. Really? Blame? I didn't read any indication that you were tied up at the time. I think you underestimate your amount of "blame" but that is debatable as well.
What I am curious about is this, you acknowledge having seen many threads on this topic in your 20 years of hobbying, so my question is this -
Why post this at all? Not seeing the reason behind your post. I would not be surprised that I irk you in this post, but I am genuine in asking why you posted this in the first place.
First of all, we're all adults here (well some of us). If two consenting adults decide to engage in BBFS what's the big deal? Personally I think they're totally crazy due to the risk of STDs and pregnancy but once again: adults. Also, I'm really not trying to sound like a dick but, MyAliasAccount, you sound kind of whiny coming on this board acting like you are some kind of victim, like she used her secret Jedi mind powers to freeze your muscles as she lowered her pussy down on your uncovered cock. It sounds like you had a big scare and you are now in pissed-off mode looking for someone to blame other than yourself. And your claim that you bear some of the blame rings a little hollow to me - obviously her share was big enough for you to take the trouble to set up an alias and write your post. Also, I have zero interest in her identity and I don't care who offers BBFS because I will always use a condom - like any rational person would. Once again, not trying to be a dick to weak-willed hobbyist MyAliasAccount - just calling it like I see it.
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Well reviewed provider??? Banging broads bareback you found on BP or CL aren't worth mentioning... I agree you shouldn't reveal her identity.
I call BS and think you are full of ****
Wants her all to himself and will stop at nothing to drive her back into his direction after the damage is done.
He probably became clingy, obsessive, and maybe even the stalker type who couldnt take the rejection. Probably seethes in anger when he views her ads and reads her reviews as he's jerking off to her pictures.
That would be my theory anyway.
Please pass the popcorn.
I only have pop secret light butter.. would that be ok? haha
I prefer Jiffy Pop pun intended lol!
Fact is, you could be right since he has had himself tested and probably feels a false sense of confidence in the results. That is, if he feels she is "clean" and he got away with it one time then why not try it "just one more time".
It's like playing Russian Roulette and it isn't a question of "if" but "when".
to blame here but yourself.
You can't control yourself long enough to put on a cover....BS and now you want to stir up a bunch of crap on this board. If you ever name the provider that would make one of the biggest pieces of
s--t. You allowed it to happen. Now take responsibility for your actions.
I have been in the same positon with two truly top providers in Atlanta. However, both times I made sure to ask for a cover. At the end of the day we are responsible for our own actions and the risk is not worth the pleasure.
When I was a 16 to 25 year old I would have unprotected sex, but not these days. Now no mater what the little head says, my big head is smarter.
I have been debating saying who the provider was, but have been leaning toward not disclosing that. She is a great provider and I had one of the best sessions I've ever had, but I really need the provider to stand strong on that ground and not tempt me with that kind of risk. It's hard to say no when you are really into it and the provider just does it. I know I bare just as much blame so I'm not trying to put all the blame on her.
It's probably a waste of my energy to say this, but please don't bother responding telling me I'm crazy and you would never. I've seen way too many of those threads already.
Happens a lot. So my guess is her regulars know.
Btw these girls are probs raw with someone in their life
Boyfriend, hubs,favorite client , pet whatever.
I have been debating saying who the provider was, but have been leaning toward not disclosing that. She is a great provider and I had one of the best sessions I've ever had, but I really need the provider to stand strong on that ground and not tempt me with that kind of risk. It's hard to say no when you are really into it and the provider just does it. I know I bare just as much blame so I'm not trying to put all the blame on her.
It's probably a waste of my energy to say this, but please don't bother responding telling me I'm crazy and you would never. I've seen way too many of those threads already.
I am amazed that some people have to make the BBFS matter such an Earth shattering subject.
On one side we have providers who will jump to the highest mountain to proclaim at the top of their lungs that they won't or don't do BBFS. This badge of hypocrisy is ironic when she has 4 kids of her own. One doesn't have to be a mathematician to know that half of them are doing BBFS either with a civie(s) and "select" hobbyists, or both.
I'll tell you who is even worse. Hobbyists. Come on guys. Stop acting like girls. Seriously! If you do BBFS with a provider, it's not the end of the world so please don't scope for a method of suicide while you wait for your test results. Some of you guys are fucking civies BB too and most who have wives are doing them BB.
I had fucked one provider BB. Who fucking cares? In the time span that I have been in the hobby, I probably fucked 35-40 different civies and never used a condom. But that's okay, right? It's also okay for a provider to fuck civies. Is anyone seeing the irony is all of this.
Here's a novel idea. If you don't want to do BBFS, just don't do it. It's that simple. Each of us is responsible for their own actions. We all have a choice. Coming here because you are in shock (not specific to the OP) or want to shock others is really laughable because the righteous among the crowd here is often the hypocrite.
Just protect yourself. Common sense will tell you that if you scrape the bottom of the barrel on BP and fuck them BB, you ARE going to eventually catch something. If you go into the worse areas of town and fuck those crack whores you ARE eventually going to catch something.
Minimize your risk or don't. It's an individual call.
One final note especially to my fellow hobbyists. Don't bother to send out search parties every time someone posts that a provider gave them BBFS. I can guarantee you that half do want to steer clear of her, and the other half are looking to book her.
No one, including the OP is obligated to name her when these frequent occurrences happen. Yes, frequent. Get real folks.
End of speech
This is one of those HOLIER THAN THOU BULL SHIT.
One thing I would is, no one cares about what you do or don't. It is all in your fucking head.
Your story is much like mine. I was working out of town for a few months and saw a provider mostly for massage. After a 3rd visit she began doing a body to body massage and then rolled a condom on and tried to ride me. I started losing my erection and she asked if I was okay. I told her sometimes condoms block my sensation which is why I mostly just stick to massage and happy endings. She said no problem and pulled the condom off. I thought she was going to give me a HJ like she had the two times before because we had never tried full service. Before I knew it, she sat on my dick with no condom. I was briefly in shock. It took me about 5 seconds to comprehend what was happening. All I could think of was my significant other back home. After about 10 seconds, I lifted her off me and asked that she just finish me with a HJ. I also paid about $500 for a quick HIV test. I couldn't go home that weekend without knowing I was clean. I replayed the event in my head several times. I believe when I made the comment about the condom, she thought I was requesting BBFS. I never wrote a review on her. She was very nice and provided an excellent service but I was conflicted on whether to enter that information in a review so I just left it alone. I often wondered how she could put herself at risk without at least asking if I had an HIV test and if she could see the results. To each there own, but I'm glad I came out okay in that episode.
I started hobbying only last year and this happened with me with a Top 10 provider..That was my 3rd encounter ever in the hobby world..After Round 1, I was about to lose my erection and suddenly without a condom she started riding me...I was naive then and asked her if it was safe..She said she had never done it before with anyone except her boyfriend.
After the session, I was shit-scared until all the test results came out..That was when I decided I am never ever gonna do this again...simply not worth it!!
I have been keeping this to myself for more than a year now but couldnt still fathom why and how this happened? Probably to make you to keep going back to them??
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I have been debating saying who the provider was, but have been leaning toward not disclosing that. She is a great provider and I had one of the best sessions I've ever had, but I really need the provider to stand strong on that ground and not tempt me with that kind of risk. It's hard to say no when you are really into it and the provider just does it. I know I bare just as much blame so I'm not trying to put all the blame on her.
It's probably a waste of my energy to say this, but please don't bother responding telling me I'm crazy and you would never. I've seen way too many of those threads already.
So nobody's naming names but all that say that this has happened to them say she is a Top 10 or "well known provider". If in fact all are speaking of the same provider, by percentage only a few of her clients are even on this board, even smaller percentage in this thread and even smaller percentage that are actually admitting to the act of BBFS.
Damn, how many clients is she having unprotected sex with and how long before the train derails?
Everybody keeps speaking of their HIV test and how it came back negative....well goody-goody but what about the myriad of other diseases that she could have and pass on to others.
What is this F**k thy brother week? Does the verse "do onto others" mean anything to all of you who are dancing around singing "I've got a secret and I ain't gonna tell"?
Look at his reviews then look at top 10
I still call BS.
I have been doing this forever and if you become a regular it happens with well reviewed girls more than you think. Remember if she is doing it with she is also doing it with others. Only have done this with one woman and got tested afterwards.