Firstly, on behalf of trans escorts everywhere, I'm mildly shocked and genuinely sorry for your bad experiences. I've scrolled through some of the boards here, and the openness and honesty you guys are expressing about your experiences is good to see. I try to be better than local cis escorts and price competitively against them, and tbh I didn't realize just how low the bar was.
However, I do have some advice for clients who are frustrated with the trend. A lot of the sites I'm seeing links to either have TS in the name or generally use fetish-style wording for their escorts on the site. As a rule, if you want to find more professional and genuine providers I would suggest you avoid escorts who post to sites that call them shemales/transsexual/ladyboys. We aren't just escorts, we're also trans women, and the ones who are willing to lower their own standards and advertise in a place where they are exclusively fetishized are going to be much lower quality than you would otherwise find. Not going to name the platform I use myself so this doesn't get accused of being an advertisement, but I would look in escort-focused locations that have a trans section over a trans-specific site. For those wondering, the more respectful terms are Trans and Transgender. TS isn't malicious but it is heavily outdated. Also, just as a side note, I did actually notice business drop this month so idk if it was a coincidence or if it was as a result of a general strike but if it worked, good on you!
This hobby has gone to hell in a hand basket. We as the consumers need to take action or we will continue to traverse this mind field of bull shit. As AI launches we will be inundated with move phony content. We need to do something. I need options or I am retiring. I have a girl who is the gold standard for providers, I guess I stay with her until she moves back to Mexico. No more verity for me. Still boycotting until Nov 1.
Personally I think I'm done with the TS girls. They just don't cut it when compared to the average cis woman when it comes to p4p. They want to charge $500/hour to provide service that ranks way worse than the average AMP. Too much rude behavior, bad hygiene and dangerous providers. The amount of drug use is insane as well. One girl recently left her crack/meth pipe out in the bathroom. I've had a lot of fun over the years but it might be time to move on.
Read 2 reviews of different T-girls (one Kayden of course) who started multi-tasking, servicing the next customer before the previous one could get his shoes on and belt buckled so he could leave the scene.
Hooking up with Kayden is like playing STD russian roulette
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$500/hr gurls lol
I'd give upto if I wasn't able to find the $200 girls who provide excellent service. maybe try a little harder. I see gurls at AMP's (reseda) and girls in appts/hotels, the service in the later is many times better.
Your review history suggests otherwise.
I agree the hobby has changed a great deal in the last 20 years, in many ways for the worse. Unfortunately, like the ongoing change in the world we live in, what can you do about it? I do think the worlds oldest profession is essentially the same as it's always been, we simply have more obstacles to overcome these days. When review sites started you could read bad reviews by less than great providers and it helped others from the same trap. But many providers with multiple bad reviews and others kept going, why? Is it the PT Barnum thought "there's a sucker born every minute"? I don't know, but I'm sure that has something to do with it. I think the only choices we have is to use more caution with unknown providers, do as much research as possible and then think at best this is a 50/50 chance of a good time which aren't great odds. Or we can quit, or protest, or strike and then what? Just 20 years ago there was 6.5 billion people in the world, today it's over 8. The world is growing faster than ever, there's more providers and more customers but also more things to navigate today.
Dax has an interesting point. I think he was only talking about in America. I was staying away from the ladies in America, because I was too well known in America. I quit calling it the U.S. back during obama's time. In the other parts of the world, the ladies were always a gamble. I never saw any in Mexico, so I can't give much advice there. As far as the T-ladies getting worse, I don't know. Arab T-ladies seem to be the worst, at least in Europe. Beware if you notice the writing.
I think my favorite place for the T-ladies was Barcelona, Spain. Good weather and peaceful. Though Bogota, Colombia has good weather and is more economical. There is a lot of big cities that you have bad parts of the city to watch out for. I think my all time favorite T-lady was Carla of Panama City, Panama.
As far as going on strike against the ladies, I probably will not be of much help. And you really need to work on a plan. And how to get the info out to the ladies. I think a lot of hobbyist are now instead of anally, it's now annually. Maybe things will get better next year. Sorry about getting off subject. Always feel free to ask any questions.
Sorry for your experience...where are you? I'm a bit outside Boston but travel up there all the time. Years now, and I can say I've neither been dissappointed, certainly never ripped off. Apparently its that sweet spot of high percentage college/research types, very wealthy, combined with the most liberal politics in America. Certainly completely LGBT friendly, the governor just made headlines supporting sex change operations for prison inmates.
I have favorites who visit again and again and again, they must know something. The Boston area is #1 on my list for my upcoming job change.
I think there's an ebb and flow with the different big cities in the states. I've lived downtown Chicago for 25 years in that time it's been hot for a couple years and them lame for a couple. Currently the travelers coming through have been great but they haven't always traveled here. I remember several big named girls from Florida, NY and LA saying they don't travel to Chicago becasue the guys are cheap. But recently many of the newer and or hot providers have been hitting the windy city. We need to look for the changes and adapt our approach as such to minimize the frustrations...
Good point, agree 100%. This hobby has been going on since way before civilization, there is naturally going to be ebb and flow, like there is in the economy, real estate, interest rates, unemployment, and everything else.
Chinese saying: "The wind and water take turns".
Try living in Cleveland. It’s a damn nightmare. The majority of ads popping up on tsescorts are fake. 🤦🏻♂️
There are some great solid providers in MN.
Phony ad content, exorbitant and misleading or multiple pricing for undefined services (VIP), detached and miserable service and a gullible simp customer base who fork over the fee before even knowing what she's actually going to do ... it's in abundance is this social wasteland, probably more so than even New York. But for a provider into the quck burn & churn M.O., it's paradi$e. So take the headline post with a pinch of salt recognizing the particular location.
Well, theres a NY City effect too...I always feel ripped off there in general, whether its escorts, restaurants, clubs, whatever. Few months ago I went to NY dance club, long line, told doorman let me in for $100, he said ok, I was led in, woman at cash register said $300; "$100 + $200 for your drink tab". She looked at me like "take it or leave it, I have 500 other suckers waiting". Whatever, I was there...paid cash, NEVER a CREDIT CARD in those places. Walked into a jammed club where you could barely move, pounding music, waited to get drink, bartender knew nothing about tab. The NY experience.
My conjecture: NY and LA, there are so many new suckers always coming, places are so crowded, 20 people looking for a service vs 2 or 3. Media hype keeps em coming. Providers get this too, they go and churn and burn - great term btw.
Ill stick to goldilocks cities, Boston for TS. Seems to me it attracts providers willing to build their brand, ie they provide great service on time, then visit again and again seeing regular clients. Just like any other bustiness.
If you are into strip bars, I highly recommend Providence, another goldilocks middle city.
Thank you gentleman, great discussion. This is why I keep renewing my membership discussions like this. I will check you reviews for options.
but it is not easy lol. one thing also with the girls is the 'check out my onlyfans' comment as a kind of review of service. 85% of the onlyfans accounts are awful. bad angles, same goofy guy, video of a female foot, or girls eating sushi in a luxury mall. these accounts dont represent the service well, they are just bad porn. or good porn that tells you nothing about service.
i might strike again in Nov.
One eating sushi in a luxury mall with a Louis Vuitton handbag by her side and a bitchy look on her face ... OR ... one running an ad featuring her giving the middle finger to all prospective clients ... which one do you choose?
Firstly, on behalf of trans escorts everywhere, I'm mildly shocked and genuinely sorry for your bad experiences. I've scrolled through some of the boards here, and the openness and honesty you guys are expressing about your experiences is good to see. I try to be better than local cis escorts and price competitively against them, and tbh I didn't realize just how low the bar was.
However, I do have some advice for clients who are frustrated with the trend. A lot of the sites I'm seeing links to either have TS in the name or generally use fetish-style wording for their escorts on the site. As a rule, if you want to find more professional and genuine providers I would suggest you avoid escorts who post to sites that call them shemales/transsexual/ladyboys. We aren't just escorts, we're also trans women, and the ones who are willing to lower their own standards and advertise in a place where they are exclusively fetishized are going to be much lower quality than you would otherwise find. Not going to name the platform I use myself so this doesn't get accused of being an advertisement, but I would look in escort-focused locations that have a trans section over a trans-specific site.
For those wondering, the more respectful terms are Trans and Transgender. TS isn't malicious but it is heavily outdated.
Also, just as a side note, I did actually notice business drop this month so idk if it was a coincidence or if it was as a result of a general strike but if it worked, good on you!
Poor service, high prices, misrepresentation / fraudulent pictures are just a few of the reasons why I support the strike. Having I reserve the right to support the providers I have seen in the past that provide excellent service. I dont think going to other cities around the world is a practical answer, lets fix our home.