Are you still thinking of coming to NYC? I've been to these events a few times, mostly before the pandemic. Susi has been throwing parties like this for years. There have also been a few other parties like these thrown in NYC by other promoters. Here's the rundown for this party.
Fairytale Lounge is located in a non-descript building on a fairly quiet corner of the city. The lot across the street is empty and undeveloped and it isn't in the most happening area. Its pretty discreet for Manhattan and you probably won't run into anyone familiar if that is a fear. It appears to be an old gay strip/go-go bar that is mostly run by Susi these days. Inside expect a dive aesthetic to say the least. Everything is dimly lit and the bathrooms aren't exactly sanitary.
The parties are every day from 5PM until 4AM. Most of the girls arrive later though, so I'd recommend showing up between 8 and 11, depending on how long you want to stay and how much trouble you want to get into. Everything starts really popping between 10PM and 12AM anyway. Also, the parties on Thursday, Friday and Saturday night have more girls as well.
The cover can be pretty steep, ranging from $20-$40 depending on time and day. Once inside you can usually fetch a lap dance from one of the girls. Again these range from $20-$40 depending on the girl, time and day but usually expect to pay $40. Obviously, most of the girls there also provide Usually after some conversation it will come up and negotiations will start. The girls will probably have to go back to your place or hotel room. Some will have a room nearby. Some will take you back to their place.
Now I've gone a bunch of times to this party and other parties like it. Usually the same girls will be at all the parties, you will also recognize some girls from ads they've posted on eros, tryst, and other sites. I've picked up some really hot girls and have had some amazing experiences. I've also had some real duds. Many of the girls can be very pushy/rude, and react negatively when you reject their advances/propositions. Others can be very cold and businesslike if not unapproachable. Some girls are total sweethearts and gems.
If you decide to go, here are a few things to keep in mind. First, it is somewhat expensive. Cover and Lap Dances are on the high end for a strip club like atmosphere. So if you want to get lap-dances from hot TS girls, this is one of the few places you can have it. So you will pay more for it. It can be a good way to pick up a provider, but it probably isn't the best way to get a great experience. If you are just looking for a provider, browse TER and find a girl with great reviews and take the plunge. However, if you want the strip club experience with trans women, I highly recommend.
Positive:
Lap dances from hot T-Girls
Potential to meet providers face to face
Discreet location
Negative:
Expensive drinks/cover/dances
Too many girls are pushy/rude if not aggressive
Dive location