Each site you reference has pros and cons, lots of cons. LOL
Generally, most posters here seem to be most successful finding SB's on Seeking. But there are noted exceptions where other sites seem to work better for some, most notably Secret Benefits. Each site has their own monetization model. But on average you will likely need to spend anywhere between $80 to $200 per month to access enough POT's to find SB's that are viable matches. For me, I auto-rebill Seeking every 3 months at a cost of $289 (or $96/month). I consider the total annual spend of $1,156 as the cost of playing in the Sugar Bowl and I include that expense in my budget plan for the 'bowl.
Many guys here lament that cost, thinking meeting a SB and getting into her sweet pussy should be just as easy as booking a hooker. But SB's are not hookers (unless they are hookers that happen to be looking for a SD). SD's go on dates with SB's and finding an SB is perhaps just as difficult as finding a date in any other location like a bar, mall, church, club, party, tinder, POF, etc.
For me, Seeking has the highest total number of "active" (i.e.: logged in within the last week) profiles. Of those, there are always non-viable POT's who are scammers, rinsers, catfish, using fake pics/info, etc. And there are also viable POT's as well. With ongoing experience you can hone your sills at vetting and improve your chances to meet a compatible SB.
My suggestions:
1. Think of measuring your success more like a batting average than target shooting. In batting, an average of .300 is major league performance. But that still means .700 of your "at bats" fail. That is the reality of the Bowl.
2. Invest sufficient time and funds over a reasonable length of time, at least 3-5+ months on a site to get a fairly good idea of how well it will work for you. We have all seen that there is some sort of cycle of ebb and flow for viable POT's. That cycle can run across 1,2 or even 3-4 months. And sadly, no one here has been able to decode that cycle. All praise and honor to the SD here who eventually cracks the code and provides that magic formula for finding a perfect SB with 100% (or at least 75%!) accuracy.
Looking forward to hearing about your experiences as you continue your search through the Sugar Bowl.
Life is good
The Cat
Thanks for the excellent advice Herb (as always). For several reasons, I'm going to stay where I'm at.
I don't have the time or resources to juggle more than one SB at a time. I have an active PPM SB (evidenced by the fact that she texts me weekly to check in), who I can only see about once a month, so I'm good for now. In fact, at the moment, my SD profile is hidden.
Which brings me to the second reason, I can't stomach renewing a periodic membership, while I'm essentially off the market.
If I ever find my self in a situation where I want to to fill my net with POTS, I may make the switch to SA. But for now, I'm fine with throwing my line in from time to time and trying to land one of the nibbles.
