Is it possible that this hot, accomplished, employed, 28 y.o. woman really wants SD #2 (me) because of college loans that need to be paid off? If not, can I afford to delve deeper without getting punished? And if that is the real reason, can there still be a mutually beneficial relationship? She does express in profile a willingness to play, but I can't help wondering how a reasonably happy young wife pursues an SD and believes in her faithfulness. Do young women now compartmentalize these things?
She is married just two years and seemed to go on SA within a half year of wedding. Husband is attractive military man based on online pic. Maybe he's away from home more than most hubbies, but during conversation at first meeting for compatibility, she spoke as though she does love him, mentioned possibility of overseas business trip together for a few months down the road. Any experiences out there with SB matching this profileWhat can go wrong? Those guys are so not the jealous type...
..and they don't have access to weapons or know how to use them.
If he is deployed overseas and she rarely "gets any" AND she has debt that needs to be paid, I can definitely see her as either a hooker or an SB.
Women have been "compartmentalizing" these things for millennia.
Personally I have moral issues regarding getting involved with such a woman, although I am sure I have seen hookers similarly situated and just never knew it. Back in my youth, when I wore the uniform I fucked a lot of lonely wives who's husbands were out in the field 9 months out of the year, but I was forty years younger then and my dick had no conscience back then. Not to mention I'd fuck anything that moved at that age. Since then I guess I have gained both standards and a bit of a conscience. I just couldn't see myself having a married SB, especially one supposedly "happily" married to a serviceman. It just seems like bad juju to me.
Are two of the oldest professions in the World which I will be refraining from both!
I'm with you GaGa as I will not knowingly tangle with a military person's spouse for a variety of reasons of which the moral code is atop that list. Plenty of other horndogs (where are thou, SftD?) to fill that hole both figuratively and literally which need not to have my contribution and input. As a matter of fact, I never enjoyed fcuking someone else's wife as I am sure that I would not have been too thrilled if/when my own was getting fcuked! (who knows really, maybe I was an unwitting cuckold! LOL!).
One of the great things about being single is that I turn the proverbial "moral turpitude" right back at them by telling the that, "if you are married and if in an active marriage, I would not want to have any part of this". This really feels good. Mic drop!
Thanks for the above replies. Not sure about my conscience and whether it is in exactly the same place as yours, but this one is just really hard to figure out. Is the guy in on it? Is she really lying that much to cover up her activities, and what exactly is/are her motivation/s? It would be great to know, but then I'd have to sport a moniker like "Carlos Danger".
There are enough single hotties out there to play with.
A lot of people these days are embracing the poly concept and lifestyle. While it means different things to different people, one thing for sure is that everyone involvd knows about and approves of the existence of other lovers. So if a girl and her husband or S.O. are truly poly then I have no ethical problem being with her. There's no deceit involved.
In which case this is openly revealed and quickly ascertained. Not sure that's what's going on here.
But a pretty important consideration in response to the other posts, if it were so.
I have this SB that had an affair while her husband was on active duty overseas, now divorced (no surprise there) she is in the sugar bowl as she figured it out that she can now just demand money for intimacy and still have a free life rather than getting married again.
Don't you think that's what most of the so-called SBs (and some of the pros) are after--intimacy without commitment? Oh, and of course, there is the money. but if they didn't like the intimacy, they are more likely to fall on the pro side of the line, wherever that is...
Good question; who cares?
The SD doesn't care if she's married - so no problem.
The SB doesn't care if she's married - so no problem.
But if Hubby cares that his wife is banging guys (possibly BB) for cash - problem!
(Especially a Hubby that has been specially trained in deadly combat. Thank you for your service!)
There's another angle on this to consider; someone who gets married young (say under 22 or 23 years old - the prime sweet spot for POT SB's) is generally not mature enough for a dedicated, long term, monogamous relationship. There are all kinds of possible issues that can come from a young woman that thinks she needs to "lock down" her man to keep him. When the truth is that keeping a man is much more about quality BJ's than jewelry.
I'm much more likely to meet single, separated/divorced/widowed, or even "open relationship" POT SB's before I'll consider meeting a "married but looking".
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