I am meeting quite a lot of young and HOT women who don't care at all about the financial portion if you are actually available to pay attention to them and meet their other needs. I've met more cool hot girls on here than I ever did in online dating and they don't care about the cash... they all say "yeah money would be nice"... but they don't ask for it... I made one a $4 Thanksgiving dinner, and we made out all night and I pulled her hair really hard and bit her face lol...  She'll be back and things will go further.  Tonight I had a date with one of those liquor promotion models you see in clubs and can never get a date with...  I had her laughing so hard she committed to a second date, again with no discussion of money.

But you ought not expect a lot of repeat occurrences with these SBs simply because you purposefully choose to ignore the most important part of an arrangement as far as the POT SBs are concerned, i.e, the financial offering / allowance part. Before you start crying sour grapes, let me inform you that is how I entered and played the "game" on SA when I had initially started on SA, although I never bit anyone's face!

although I must admit I'm surprised that your SBs are not more motivated by money.  Others here have also reported finding SBs who don't ask for $$$ so I guess it must be true.  I haven't run into any of those myself.  I do consider myself attractive and charming, but I'm also old and married, so it's no wonder our Sugar experiences are different. As for the gold diggers, I'm involved with one of those right now.  Against my better judgement. But she is so freaking hot and cute, whatever good judgement I normally have has flown right out the window! Maybe I should have said old, married, and senile!

I dunno... In my experience most self respecting women, if they start sleeping with you and like you aren't going to bail on you for a few hundred bucks a week, not at least without asking you first.  These aren't girls that I'm neglecting to pay or not spending money, I'm just not handing them cash and they've expressed no interest in it.

Because the follow up to that self-righteous and quite self-serving statement would naturally be, "no self-respecting gentleman would ever consider paying for sex!!!". That's a ruse and we all know it.  

I think you are reading too much into what I'm saying.  There's no value judgment here.  The kind of women who don't want money or aren't focused on it on SA are also the kind of women who want monogamy and genuine attention and affection.  They aren't gonna jump ship for a few hundred bucks.  That's all I'm saying.

Your post wasn't clear. You wrote you made out with one and things might go further next time. Then you said You met a model and she committed to a second date. It doesn't sound like you actually already had sex with them. If they are willing to have sex with you without any $ gift, you lucky bastard!

disabuse us from.  

Money is the most sincere display of affection and romance...? lmao.

Mr. Fisher's post which was the use of tact. Based on your responses so far and how brazen you claim to behave with POT SBs, I am not surprised by this.

Yeah I mean... I don't know what planet you guys live on... if its the cheating on your wives and trying to keep another woman interested planet sure that makes sense...

...stop digging when already in a hole?!  

My profile flat out says that I'm willing to pay for companionship, and I am... I hobby, and SB's are a better value so why wouldn't I?

"... I made one a $4 Thanksgiving dinner, and we made out all night and I pulled her hair really hard and bit her face lol...  She'll be back and things will go further.  Tonight I had a date with one of those liquor promotion models you see in clubs and can never get a date with...  I had her laughing so hard she committed to a second date, again with no discussion of money..."

I don't understand what methods you are referring to... in all cases I've broached the subject of money, even going so far as to point blank ask them what they need or want.... I've expected them to want it.  These women just don't care about that.  The one I cooked dinner for at home said its illogical to her to spend money eating out, so I told her I'd buy her shoes so she doesn't wear flip flops in the winter (She's an RN btw)... The promotional model again I straight asked her what she wanted or I could do for her, and I told her what I wanted out of a real relationship (dinner and sex 2-3 times a week) and she said that's the perfect relationship to her too... so I'll take her to a really nice dinner and see if she feels like that's a good way to spoil her.

Okay, I am new to this thread and keep seeing references to a site referred to as "SA" I did some searches and there are several sites that could be this SA. Which one is it?

and tossing it back and forth.  i couldn't have hoped for better.

of hobbying.  You'll find out a lot more about SA if you do a search for it on this board.

You're so attractive and charming that you spent an entire evening with these girls and couldn't get laid.  Wow what a stud.  
Did you ever think that the reason you didn't score was because you didn't pay?  Probably they were waiting for an offer.  And those promises of future dates?  Probably not gonna happen unless you come up with some scratch.
Oh, and what girl doesn't love to have her face bitten? Lol.

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yeah dude I spent about 4 hours with one talking, and about 1 hour with the other...  but you go on with your infinite knowledge.

I made out with quite a few SB's without paying, even managed to get BJ and FIV so it is not a big deal what you did. If you manage to get laid without paying, good for you. But it doesn't sound like you did.

The answer is remains to be seen... I wasn't getting laid on either of those dates from the gate... so its all about this week.