Love Goddess, I've been through the entire board and not seeing a previous posting on this, I hope you'll have some good insight.  You see, two years ago, I met a porn star who was stripping locally and had a nice long chat with her at the club.  We talked about backgrounds, travel, interests -- everything except her business and it was one of the most delightful experiences I've had -- and subsequently, on reflection, highly erotic.

Since then, I've fantasized about having a session with a porn star and am ready to make the fantasy real.  I'd like your advice about it.

I have my mental images of what I'd like to do when I meet her, but I'm afraid those come more from seeing movies and fantasizing that all that they do (bbbjcim, greek, etc.).  I'm concerned that those activities would be off-limits to her -- saved for her on-screen activities, for example.

And then there are things that I don't like -- excessive moaning, calling me names I know that aren't sincere, etc.

I doubt that these things can be addressed before meeting due to LE concerns, but if you have thoughts to the contrary, bring them on!

I guess the real fantasy is that it be a combined GFE/PSE experience.  Any thoughts on how to make that reality are welcome.  I'm considering just getting to know her first (like I did with the lady in the club) and then working the conversation gradually to my interests for the session.  That takes time and porn star experiences don't come cheap, but if that's the best way to make the session an unforgettable one, I'm ready to go that way.

I respect your advice greatly, so let me know what you think.  And thanks, in advance.

Oh wow, Texan4Real,

You are IN LUCK!!!! Since you want to meet an adult film ACTRESS, what better opportunity than to play director for a day and carefully instruct her to act out your GFE/PSE experience!

Yes, I definitely think you should explain this to her beforehand. I don't see what LE has to do with any of it. In terms of her being who she is, well, that's a given. In terms of you accurately representing yourself - I hope you provide adequate information so that she will be able to screen you to her satisfaction.

Since porn stars don't come cheap, and since their "acting skills" are well documented, I don't think you'll need to go through "getting to know her first" - unless you are very flush with cash. Remember that time and companionship is what these ladies are selling. You are paying by the hour, whether she files her toenails, stares at the wall, or bangs you into oblivion.

You could print out this posting and show it to her, or email the link. Heck, print out my reply too, if that makes it more legitimate. As for her off-scren activities, please check TER's search function and enter all the activities you want this Wundah-Woman to perform, and then watch TER spit out a few choice profiles.  

Remember that porn stars are used to all kinds of sexual scenarios and situations. Some would not consider having sex off the clock with someone other than a boyfriend/SO/husband, whereas others have realized their value as a hot commodity on the escort market. I think she will make it fairly obvious to you as to what goes and what doesn't; as long as your favorite activities are  listed on her TER profile, you should have a fun time.

Egads, now you just have to choooooooose,
the Love Goddess

here on TER where I am sure the members that enjoy encounters with porn stars can be a wealth of information and great help in assisting you find what you are looking for and answering all kinds of questions about seeing porn stars in general, and specifics about certain ladies.

Thanks, LG.  Great reply.  The idea of being "director for a day" is just the "hook" that I was seeking. And giving her the exchange we've had can certainly provide a "script."  As for your final comment, I've made a lot of progress -- narrowing the list down to a mere 127 actresses.    As for Web Terrorist, thanks buddy -- I'm very much aware of the porn star board.  I wrote to LG because I knew she's an original thinker and give me just the kind of thoughtful reply that she did.

LG Fan

please email me. I have a personal question to ask...no offense to the rest of the board...

Having met a few I'd offer a bit more advice.

Most, but not all, have a tender ego about their film credits. You may wish to do a bit more research to reference their films once you focus on who you want to see. Especially if you want to play director. (See ref. link)

It might even help you "test the waters" so to speak.

"I really loved that scene in "Backdoor Bangers - 5!"

Additionally some have their own Yahoo groups that might give you even more insight.