just curious, is anyone planning to give their SB a holiday gift?
i have a new SB, have met twice so far, pay per meet allowance. Will likely meet up again in the coming weeks. Wondering if I should get her a holiday gift, or just give extra $$ on top of the allowance. Not sure if she's expecting something (how would i know), but might be awkward if she gets me a little gift and i'm empty handed... Thoughts please. thanks.It can range from a minor piece of jewelry or a gift card to more expensive stuff like iPads, etc. Girls love anything that shows attention and thoughtfulness. Wrap it up too. Cards and flowers work too. Just like at home with the wife. Lol
The one I'm meeting (oh, god, I hope!) on Monday for our first BCD encounter dropped her phone and I've offered to get it fixed. This got a big response, so I hope it isn't too expensive. Like all women, SBs like gifts, especially if you clearly spent some time thinking about what would be thoughtful/useful.
Just an off-topic observation:
I have seen many SB's, Pros, even strippers with dropped phones (which means a cracked front glass).
I have NEVER seen a guy with a dropped/cracked glass phone, including my own phones.
WTF?
BTW: I've offered to fix these as a gift as well. Apple stores quoted me about $120 for an iPhone 5
Oops, politically incorrect, I meant Holiday gift.
Also, if you're paying on a per meet basis, she's an UTR hooker no matter where you found her.
Just like the guy who cuts my lawn the one that cleans my pool, the gal who cuts my hair, and my office staff, I give to the ladies that bring me joy. Depending on how long I've known them, 50-100% of my normal hourly donation. Gift cards are best for providers unless you really know exactly what would melt their heart. Add a bottle of wine or champagne.
After just two dates, I'd keep it simple. If things progress, Valentines Day is right around the corner. Start making a mental note now of the type of jewelry she likes to wear.
My timing is such that I have no obligations IMO to deal with. Certainly not an ever us 2 diamond ring for your best friend and lover. Lol. Damn. Used to be a diamond of a carat or more. Now ya gotta buy the bitch 2 diamonds??? WTF
and many of them had vendors selling really nice jewelry, and not that expensive either. I bought a really nice set of earrings with a matching necklace for my wife's birthday, and several cute but less expensive earring sets to give to my SBs. I always buy a few things to keep handy for gifts. The girls seem to enjoy the thoughtfulness a lot.
How the fuck do I, (or you) even know if I will be seeing any of my current rotation of SB's that far off?
You have an SB you have only seen twice and you are already thinking about Christmas presents for her??
I just like to buy presents, not usually with anyone specific in mind. I just like to be prepared, then there's never a last minute rush.
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Okay, are you posting under an alias to avoid ridicule of your regular name by the regulars who might know you and be surprised you are being such hopeless romantic? Or is this a SB/Provider looking to cheap laughs. Either way, I am curious why the alias to post.
I am also surprised GaGa did not call you out on it. I'd say it was Princess hiding under an alias to get a good laugh out of us, but I think you have to be VIP to use an alias or whitelisted or something like that and he is too cheap for that.
i have a new SB, have met twice so far, pay per meet allowance. Will likely meet up again in the coming weeks. Wondering if I should get her a holiday gift, or just give extra $$ on top of the allowance. Not sure if she's expecting something (how would i know), but might be awkward if she gets me a little gift and i'm empty handed...
Thoughts please. thanks.
as for calling him out, I did so, but very "nicely" as I at least try to be a bit more civil on this board and the Newbie board, unless of course I am talking to the likes of "cuntyboy" or someone else you simply can NOT be nice to. lol
Just for the record, I have not forgotten BD presents or Holiday season presents for SBs with whom I've had the kind of LTA which I had "felt" to be of a more exclusive nature, if our relationship encompassed such calendar events. That said, I will NEVER do Valentine's Day present BS with someone whom I have sexual relations with based on a compensation package because just like some hookers who reserve DFK and Greece for their SOs, Princess also reserves his wallet on V.D. for those who deems to be lovers of equal value meaning sans payments and sans P4P.
As for VIP on here, I have another moniker with a bunch of reviews which I do not wish to resurrect because I do not wish to see hookers. Period and exclamation mark. I rarely partake on other board (besides the recent run ins with the BSC L.L. because let's face it, setting off L.L. makes for great entertainment).
Besides, there are guys on SA who will buy their SBs most lavish gifts and / or take them to very exotic vacations, but are averse to giving the poor girls an actual cash payment because as most put it, "they don't want her to feel like a hooker". Princess both pays to play on the SA turf and also he buys gifts for the right SB from time to time.
Who is BSC LL?
As for VIP on here, I have another moniker with a bunch of reviews which I do not wish to resurrect because I do not wish to see hookers. Period and exclamation mark. I rarely partake on other board (besides the recent run ins with the BSC L.L. because let's face it, setting off L.L. makes for great entertainment).
Besides, there are guys on SA who will buy their SBs most lavish gifts and / or take them to very exotic vacations, but are averse to giving the poor girls an actual cash payment because as most put it, "they don't want her to feel like a hooker". Princess both pays to play on the SA turf and also he buys gifts for the right SB from time to time.
Yes, she is totally BSC and extremely combative on the boards. Great entertainment and plenty hot enough to fuck which takes the wind out of the OTHFBC who claims I only fuck with ugly women and am nice to hotties.
Oh for anyone unfamiliar with acronym OTHFBC, it stands for Over The Hill Fat Broad Club.
Never seen her in person so no comment as to how "hot" she really is. Has a legion of rim lickers here on TER about a mile long so she can post as BSC as she likes with impunity since there seems to be no shortage of sycophants who placate to her every need. TBT, the most preventative obstacle that I never saw her in the past was not her BSC L.L. persona (I think that she's quite sweet in person) but rather the HEAVILY airbrushed photos. I had an Azn craving back in 2014 when I did this hobby for the last time so it had come down to Miss L.L. and another gal who was a Filipina. I went for the latter as L.L. is primarily an outcall. In retrospect, I should've gone wwith L.L. as I think that she would've been a safer bet since she was only 21 at the time. The Fillipina was even $50 more than L.L. at the time (450 vs 400) who turned out to be older than claimed plus pics were also doctor'd heavily (she no longer provides).
In closing, I wish for no one to take my ribbing of L.L. too seriously because I think that she is one of the better ones here in San Diego. I just like to fcuk with her to set her off! LOLzzz
After the way she dumped on you! B*tch be cray-cray Yo! 
Oh her. She got after me as well. Good fuck. Didnt get into daty.
As I told my 17 yo son the other day, all women are BSC including his mother. Its just the level of BSC and it manifests itself in daily life.
Men are not BSC, they are just WND (Weird Nerdy Dorks).
Men are all PWWND (Pussy Whipped Weird Nerdy Dorks)
Yes, being pussy whipped goes without saying. LOL
Any of you guys have ideas for gifts? Not too confident on picking jewelry for my SB. Would you say it's wrong to shop at nearby mall for her to pick something out for Christmas? I was thinking of giving her a bouquet of flowers when I see her next.
i appreciate everyone's opinion. yes i am posting under an alias (as pointed out), but so what? just a regular guy here on TER who has a few reviews, not one of the infamous ones 
so GaGa is wondering why i'm buying a present when Xmas is a few weeks off. Well i only have one SB (kinda new to the game, and so is she btw), so my rotation consists only of her. Haha - a simple explanation!
Do i really like her that much or have feelings? No. I'm not even the gift giving type really (most of my friends/family members get gift cards for any occasion during the year).
my question was partly out of curiosity as to what veteran SDs did, and partly as a defensive measure. She might expect me to give something (although i got into the SD/SB thing because it was a NSA relationship, and thus there shouldn't be any expectations, right?).
thanks again
If you like her, get her something. If you don't, don't. Doesn't need to be extravagant. As they say, it's the thought that counts. If you want to keep her around a bit, I'm sure a nice gesture will go along way.