Just curious what advice the SDs here have on how to encourage a SB, who is new to the game, to be more adventurous.
I'm not talking about pushing boundaries. And, I have no problem being patient. I'm just wondering whether anyone here has any advice on steps that have worked to inspire a SB to be more enthusiastic about experimenting.
I assume you are talking about encouraging them to be more adventurous in the bedroom, not life in general, right? When it comes to bedroom activities, I've found that the young women are often inexperienced, but quite willing to try new things. The only times I've encountered resistance to certain activities it has almost always turned out that they have bad associations with those activities due to past traumatic experiences. It can be difficult, sometimes impossible, for them to reclaim those activities without triggering bad memories.
It takes time to build up trust. It helps if she's already adventurous. But some girls are already way out of their comfort zone when it comes to sex and money and older guys. I've had quite a few girls quit after a few dates because it felt weird. Others understood what they were up to. A few really dig it because they realize most younger guys are idiots when it comes to a woman's feelings and sex.
I wish I was more like I am now back then. I'd have nailed so many women in so many ways by building up that trust. Instead of being young and horny.