I am of a light brown shade and I meet this East European lady. She likes my skin tone in the pictures I share and then when we meet she's not sure. We chat have dinner and I tell her that she has to be sure about her skin color preference before we go BCD and start the allowance.
She then looks at my hand and the wrinkles of my knuckles are darker than the rest of my skin. And she says it's dark that it given an impression it's dirty. And I am thinking if she thinks that's dark and she associates it with dirty, what would she think of my much darker dick (LMAO). I am thinking no BBBJ here and god knows what else is off limits.
She wants to meet tomorrow. but I am avoiding it. Nice experience.
"Well, let me sleep on it and I MIGHT decide your skin is light enough for me to fuck you for money"
I am so fucking turned on right now I may PM you for her info. lol
What a fucking cunt, I am surprised you made it all the way through the date.
She actually sounds like a female version of those "Old fat white dudes" who tell a WOC that "I've never been with a Negress before"
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It came from south of the Mason-Dixon line, of course.
Yes my uncut dick was way inside the foreskin at dinner. It was amusing though.
White girls. Some just think they're the shit. Doesn't sound like you were too into her either.
I find it rather sad that any POT SB would focus on skin color, ethnicity, race, religion, or whatever. Assuming you have clear pics on your profile, she already has enough info to decide if she wants to bang it out with you.
I'm not so naïve as to think POT SB's are not biased and don't bring prejudices with them. But if she doesn't want to have sex with an Asian, an African American, or any other "ethnic" type which is not her own, she can filter that out in her initial search.
A woman who thinks I'm too "dirty" to fuck...? This screams of BSC or worse, IMO. I'd bail and move on to others ASAP.
I haven't experienced that type of open racism from a woman in decades. I am sure that there are many women who wouldn't fuck me because of my race, but it's been a long fucking time since someone thought they could get away with saying it straight out to my face.
I am much more mellow than I used to be when racism was a lot more "in your face" than it is today, but I doubt I would have taken this as "nicely" as did the OP. Chinese people, actually all Asian people have a reputation for being docile and rarely being confrontational, I doubt anyone around here believes that about me. I have no problem at all calling a cunt a cunt, and that includes "cuntyboy" too, but I don't want to be responsible for this board losing it's reputation for mainly being a pretty friendly board.
Kudo's GaGa for taking the high road. Count me among the many who appreciate the knowledge that you freely share.
You are correct in that this board is an extremely friendly place. So many other boards have degenerated secondary to trivial insults from anonymous wannabe's. Hope this board never changes.
Because of gentleman like you, SFTD, sweetman, herbcat, AsianManNova and others, I have gone from stumbling through the SB to developing an outstanding rotation of wonderful young ladies.
I've experienced my share of racism. I just shrug it off as them being idiots. But I do get back to them. In this case when the topic of allowances came up I offered $150 per meet or 500 for 4 meets if she wanted per month allowance. Her profile said practical. She looked pissed. LOL
I am guess that by trying to put me down based on race she wanted me to feel insecure that I'd offer her what she wanted. Or she merely resented the fact that I could come from a different country and be non-white and still afford to be a sugar daddy .
On a similar track, I have no doubt that there are POT SB's who would never fuck me because they think I am too fat. That's why I put pics in my profile that clearly show I am rotund (rotund = old and fat). They can easily filter me out of their search and look for an SD that they want. Just like I filter out anyone showing red flags for BSC, oldies (yes, 28 counts as too old), fatties (hey, it's my fucking money), and non-locals (10-15 miles max, or a max-Uber ride of $20).
Never actually had a M&G that included comments like "Of gee, sorry but you are too fugly to fuck. Can I still have some sugar?" If I did, I'd order a huge meal (she obviously won't find THAT unusual!) and then head to bathroom and bail.
Wants to get together for $200 PPM. Really weird woman.
Treat her nasty. Get the PSE out of her for your 200.
hahaha. Nasty 
Well she texted a few times and wanted to meet. Me being a nice guy, I agreed to meet for dinner. As I was pulling into the valet parking, I realized I forgot my wallet, when I looked for tip money. I self parked a couple of blocks away and walk back to the restaurant. She's waiting and I tell her I forgot my wallet.
Surprise, Surprise she offers to pay and does.
Ok I am totally clueless now. Is she racist or a unicorn? Damn!
Forgot your wallet... And she offers to pay?
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That may actually be a brilliant accident! I can't help you determine if she's racist, a Unicorn in racist clothing, or just nuts.
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Maybe she was parented by racist morons and actually thinks she is complimenting you. I've remember growing up in the 60's and 70's and having "friends" at school who were raised by antisemetic parents. They would sometimes tell me things like, "you know, you're pretty cool for Heeb" or other unintentional insults. They were using the only language they had to refer to me. Hopefully, as they matured, they also evolved their communication skills (as well as dropping their prejudice, I hope!).
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Anyway, your story makes me wonder if I should use the "forgot my wallet" play deliberately for certain POT's. It could be rather interesting to see how she reacts, especially for POT's who say they are looking for "one special guy for a long term blah, blah, blah...". Maybe try it on the second meet when BCD has been specifically scheduled. "Gee, I forgot my wallet! Let's skip the dinner/shopping/etc. and head back to my place, ok?" I'll have to think about when and why to try this. But I'm definitely adding the idea to my tool belt for recruiting new SB's.
One of my favorites is
Idiot speaking to me; "You speak really good English, I can't even detect your accent"
Me speaking to idiot; "I was born in California you fucking moron"
One girl told me, “Oh! You have a BIG cock!” But then she quickly added, “ for an Asian.” She told me all the Asian guys she has seen have small cocks so my average-sized cock looks huge compared to them. LOL.
There was no BCD as I had not booked a hotel not knowing where the meet would go. Without my CC and ID is could not book one.
She was OK with going back to her place but did not know if her nosy neighbor was around. She did not care if I did not. But I did since it was the first time.
So next meet for next Monday. Balls crossed
Personally, I think you blew it. but good luck next week.
But honestly, why did you even care about the neighbor?
She didn’t care. It is not your place so I don’t know why you would care. You have to strike iron while it is still hot in the Sugar Bowl. Things are very fluid in this environment and you might not see her again. When a POT SOB wants to go BCD, I never turn it down. She paid for the date, wanted to go BCD at her place, and you turned it down because she said she has a nosy neighbor? I agree with GaG that you blew it.
I don't think so, she is still texting. I am extra cautious guy and want to have the lady on my turf for the first BCD at least. Who knows what's back at her place?
If she warned you about a nosy neighbor are you thinking she forgot to warn you about her jealous, live in Boyfriend? lol If she's going to warn you about a nosy neighbor, it stands to reason that was the "worst" thing in store for you.
and by "you blew it" I don't mean you will never get another chance, i just mean your paranoia got the better of you and you missed out on a great time that night. Some of you guys, and you are hardly alone are really so paranoid I wonder how you ever got laid before the internet.
Well I've to concede your points about my paranoia and not getting laid. Still better to be cautious/paranoid than sorry. That's why I stick to my standard operating procedure from initial contact to initial BCD. Then the rules are flexible.
Honestly, if she was upfront with you about the "nosy neighbor" why would you think she was hiding something actually dangerous?
I will admit that I often think with the little head, and that sometimes my balls are a little too big for my own good, but this is my big head thinking. "What were you honestly scared of???" I just don't get it.