It's 6 p.m. For the next three hours we're gonna be each other's entire world. We're in a nice sized city filled with cafes, bistros, and boutiques. We have a four star hotel room with a big comfortable bed and a bathroom with an oversized tub. The weather outside is perfect. How would you like to see the allotted 180 minutes unfold from the knock on the door to conclusion.
For those paying, how much would you be willing to pay for this experience? For those being paid, how much would you expect to receive? Let's see how we all match up in terms of expectations. UPDATE: and for the sake of consistency, let's assume we've already had two 1 hour sessions and they were lots of fun, and we seemed really compatible at least for a short get-together.-- Modified on 6/25/2017 1:17:18 PM
for me. After literally hundreds of dinner dates with providers, only two involved time ON the clock, and those were when I was a relative Newbie. Usually, I book two hours and if she's hungry and wants to go eat afterward, I will pay for the dinner, but not her time. If not, I will go eat with a civvie girl that I don't have to pay. But in reality, there is no shortage of either willing to do fine dining where I live.
In your scenario, I would fuck for the entire three hours, assuming you're young enough to do that. Otherwise, book two hours and save the money, which pays for half of the next two-hour session. Then it doesn't matter what the weather is like outside. If its a nice day, she will enjoy the walk to your hotel from the street parking you recommended five blocks away, but at that point, she's still on her own time, not yours.
I would expect to pay whatever her two hour rate is, plus tip. (I have tipped every provider I have ever seen, even if I knew I wasn't going to repeat. It insures a good reference.)
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IMHO that time frame is a "tweener" It's not long enough to go out for dinner/drinks or whatever, and it's too long to expect a lady to spend the entire time having sex, and since we are talking "on the clock" time, I don't pay to simply "chit chat" lol
If I am going to have a BCD only date, an hour or maybe 90 minutes at the most is plenty. OTOH if we are going out, I expect to be together at least 4-5 hours or preferably overnight.
Now if we are talking about an hour or so of sex followed by another hour or two having dinner or drinks, and your question is "how much is it worth to me?" my answer would be I would be willing to pay for the hour session and naturally I would pick up the tab for whatever else we did, but I would not pay anything extra "for her time" spent eating, drinking or whatever. What really floors me are the guys willing to pay for a providers "time" and then spend that time taking her shopping. I mean honestly WTF???!!!
Follows up the sex with some physical therapy or a sponge bath to clean out your "folds"?? That might fill out the 3 hours for you quite nicely...
Glad to see you posting again my asian brother, I was hoping the nurses didn't take away your internet privileges...
I hope you aren't the type to hold a grudge over a few of us "helping" you look stupid.
I know you really didn't need a lot of help to look stupid, but we like to help whenever we can.
3 hours is perfect for me with a few of the ladies I see. I wouldn't do it with someone new.
Depending on the lady, I can find plenty of sexual variety to enjoy over that much time. Or a great bdsm session can go for 2 hours and have an hour gfe play.
I really enjoy the in between talk time. But that is with great personality chemistry. So so chemistry will start to show at about the 2 hour mark. I have found that both parties need to be having a happy time to be together longer than that.
Or there were the times that I had 3 ladies together for 3 hours. I had them join me one at a time in the oversize tub to start. Between the sex and the laughing and joking with each other, 3 hours wasn't really enough.
There are a couple of ladies that spending much longer than that has been really cool.
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Out of your three hours, the hour you spend tied up to the bed while she does her laundry should not be On the clock.
Agreed. She does call that a "Tease and Denial" session. I wondered why she always stresses the denial.
But the joke is on her because I sweat a lot and she will be doing laundry again after I'm long gone.
Why do you think so many marriages fail? Too much of the other person.
I'm sure in your case the feeling is mutual!😬
I think others have commented about three hours not being conducive for playing. I prefer 60 or 90 minutes for playing, and if meeting for other events such as dinner/movie/show, four or even longer would be preferred. For the date, I would recommend meeting in the room, play, clean up and head outside for some nourishment and enjoying the great weather. Time will be an issue as three hours will quickly vanish when enjoying the weather outside so returning back to the room for more fun may not occur or will be an abbreviated session. Thus, the longer engagement if enjoying the city filled with cafes, bistros, etc.
As for paying? Depends upon the lady/city...so it depends... Value will be based upon your expectations.
Good luck and have fun!
Let's start with the easy questions:
-How much would I pay? Whatever her listed rate is for 3 hours.
-How much would she expect to receive? Whatever her listed rate is for 3 hours.
Both questions are easy to figure out since 99.99999999999999% of ladies have this thing on their websites called "Rates".
Now what would we do for those 3 hours?
How about macramé, any ladies interested in that. Or maybe we'll do what 2 consenting adults want to do for the next 3 hours.
Do you mean being tied up in a decorative way?
Isn't that a bit presumptuous on your part?
You can only speak for your expectations, one would think.
How can it be presumptuous if her rates are listed on her website?
Or my favorite...the "I don't negotiate my rates" canard?
Are you new here?
So you are capable of reading comprehension. Good for you! Because you sure as hell weren't using that skill when you replied to my earlier post. As others have also stated here, which needs to be repeated for you, is their expectations are already listed on their rates page. But trying to use the disclaimer on their websites now to try to save face isn't going to help you but kudos for trying.
picture right out of my mind. Very nice.
That's a fun way to spend 3 hours.
......it depends on my mood - much like the music I play at any given moment. There are nights that are perfect for 'lazy' slow burning fucking with a lot of teasing and well paced build up to the climax. Conversely, there are also times when I crave raw carnal off the charts hot sex, dirty and sweaty sex. its probably not so different for guys is it?
With regards pay and payment - the rate that is advertised. It's set at a level that satisfies me. I would hope when someone books time with me it's a rate they are happy paying.
3 hrs is a great option for BCD time - allows for a bit of R&R between each session. Yes, I like stamina - I prefer a marathon over a sprint so I'm not into shorter get togtethers really though I have been in the past...
...it seems we are simpatico my dear curious cat Camille. At least in regards to this. I've found that I'm never satisfied with just an hour. Hence, I've started booking two and sometimes three hours. It allows for us to spread out our enjoyment and exploration of each other over that time to really allow for a more satisfying encounter in my opinion. And yes, sometimes it's slow and smoldering and sometimes it's raw and carnal with periods of R&R in between depending on our mood at the time.
Yes, it's all mood dependant I think as to what pace you set. It can change as unpredictably as the weather 😉
...it seems we are simpatico my dear curious cat Camille. At least in regards to this. I've found that I'm never satisfied with just an hour. Hence, I've started booking two and sometimes three hours. It allows for us to spread out our enjoyment and exploration of each other over that time to really allow for a more satisfying encounter in my opinion. And yes, sometimes it's slow and smoldering and sometimes it's raw and carnal with periods of R&R in between depending on our mood at the time.
... all three hours were enjoyed at the provider's incall. We found plenty of fun things to do right there. In fact, the 3 hours seemed to go like *that*.
If I wished to explore the outside world on a beautiful day, maybe including dinner, with a provider, I would (and have) booked at least an overnight date, or even longer like a weekend. When I've done that it was with someone I knew well and thus knew we'd have a great time... which we did. 
As for what I would pay, for the 3 hour sessions I paid the provider's published rate (which I thought was very reasonable) or worked with the provider on the rate when it wasn't published. Same for the longer dates I mentioned... there was no published rate, so I talked with the provider and she suggested rates that I thought were very reasonable.
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Consider her opportunity loss by spending more time with you. If she doesn't book back to back, spending an extra hour with you should not impact her bottom line. However you must pay all other related expenses and you might consider adding a smaller compensation for her time OTC. Do not allow a perception of any perceived emotions to enter the equation or influence your thinking.
I used to see a girl that was working her way through UCLA. She had a two-hour rate of $750, and if you wanted to go out to dinner afterward, she would give you another two hours at $75 per hour, which she referred to as "social time." She only saw one customer a day because she had classes to attend, but was very popular because of this option. She made the classiest exit from the business I have encountered when she graduated from college.
I have a couple faves I only get to see once or twice a year. Both located in DC and both do outcall for me.
So yes, I enjoy getting a nice suite and making the effort to create a welcoming and sensual atmosphere for a three hour romp. Rarely is there any social activity outside the room. And I am always amazed as to how fast the 3 hours slip away when you are with someone truly special.
Most cases however , I schedule a 2 hr outcall . And frankly it's not unusual to have a nice meal or a couple glasses of wine at a nearby eatery or hotel bar with a lady after a session. But I've never actually booked time for sightseeing or social engagements. Sometimes this is initiated by the lady , sometimes it's the result of me simply and politely inviting them to join me for a post activity drink .
I don't think I've ever booked time just to do some tourist type stuff. Oddly , that just seems weird.
Spare me an hour with your girl? You'll still have two.
and to be honest have never once gone out while a girl was on my clock for dinner drinks etc. I have gone after though a couple of times with them OTC and me paying for some ice cream or coffee.
Most the time I have been behind closed doors at their incall fucking and sucking with the girls being nice enough sometimes to offer refreshments or I will get us room service. Once I spent a incredibly beautiful afternoon with a girl at her pool but again we spent most of the time fucking!
I am sure most of the girls out there would love it if I spent $500.00 plus per hr. to feed them but it"s really not what I am looking for though but for you what ever gets you off!
For the last four years, I've usually done 2 hours on a first date, then three on subsequent dates (unless her rate is high). With my latest favorite, I've been doing four hours. Her 4 hour rate isn't much more than the three hour and, truthfully, when the four hours are up, I'd still love to stay longer.
I've been doing the three and four hour dates for many reasons, one of which is that I have to drive a long way to the "big city". It seems like a waste of driving time to just do a couple of hours, then start the long drive home.
At my age, there's not a lot of sex. It gets spread out over the hours. In between there's lots of cuddling and talking. I have to really like a girl to want to spend that much time. I've had a few providers who drove me nuts before two hours was even up.
If it was just for sex, 90 minutes would be plenty.
There are too many variables to generalize: Her services, age, looks, review history, among others.
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It's even more ridiculous for the overnight stay. Why would I want to pay someone to listen to me snore.
a light lunch date for me.
Meet at the hotel bar, a glass or two of wine, maybe some lite food and 2+ hrs BCD. Nice.
In rare cases that everything is perfect, 3 hrs. can easily be a marathon sex session as well, one of those "get lost in each other" moments. Spectacular.
If I book a dinner date, I will always look for 4+ hours. Usually more. I hate to feel rushed, and enjoy lingering over dinner and conversation. 5 or (preferably) 6 hours is much better. Usually, that allows for some fun BCD before dinner, an unrushed dinner and a return to some BCD fun after dinner.
As far as pay and rates? You're kidding right?
I pay her rates for the time I book.
I would charge $600 for this 3 hr. Dinner Date. One hour for dinner. Two hours of private time. The advantage of a city is that restaurants are nearby. It's nice to start at the hotel, walk to dinner, windowshop on the way, enjoy yummy food together, walk back to the room, and enjoy the connection that has been created.