Is it unethical to acceptand offer of greek from a provider that doesnt normally do greek at regular price to get a deserved good review................If you pay near the normal price?????????

Any takers????????????

I don't understand the question or the situation you are describing. 'dude.  You are subject to TER rules about trading  for reviews.   If you want a comment on the specifics of the situation, ask Staff.  

I like greek and applaud more ladies doing it.  However, IMHO, If some lady decided to do greek with you ONLY for a review, your "little head" isn't the only thing she has up her ass.  

Again, no flame from me.  You are asking questions and soliciting comments.

Let me see if I understand:  I'm having a session with a provider who normally doesn't offer greek.  I've paid the provider's standard fee.  The session is going well, and the provider offers me greek in return for a good review.

Well, within that framework, as long as the review I write is accurate, I don't see a problem.  If, on the other hand, the session has not been going well and, sensing my displeasure, the provider offers me greek in return for an artificially inflated review; that would be wrong.

It would also be wrong for me to blackmail the provider into allowing greek with the threat of an undeservedly poor review or the promise of one which is undeservedly good.

In the first scenario, I would be sure to ask if the provider wanted me to state that she provides greek and cover it with a YMMV, or leave the matter out entirely.

Oh obviously it would be accurate. Like I have stated before I won't be the guy who inflates a review so the next guy gets burned expecting more.

If greek was offered and is not usually on the menu my satisfaction with that provider would be greater, same with a CIM swallow.  I would omit that from review at her request.

Part of the reason for posting was a tounge in cheek of all the "Is it ethical" posts.

I am against any form of pressure or blackmail too. My ethics would not allow me to do that.

It's also a question oc Credibility!!  To inflate a review is to ruin your own standing in this comunity.Remember a 7 for preformance is a good review.The guidelines are allready set. If you want to be credible here everybody should stick to them.

Perhaps I am in the minority, and I have yet to do the act, but if a lady presents me her ass and offers it for exploration, ethics would be off in a small and forgotten corner of my mind...

Much more effort would be on not nut-busting too soon, and on savouring the scene and the sensations.

But that's just me.  You guys are so ho-hum about it that you can probably check e-mail on the blackberry while impaling a porn star!

Exactly, and a 10 is really as good as it can get.... some people throw 10's around like a 10 is average.  Had one provider get pissed at me I would not give her a 10..  Told her blow my mind and you get it. nothing short of that warrants a 10 in my mind.

a 7 is great a 8 or 9 is damn good.  

I have only had 2  performances that warranted a 10 in my mind.  And they were well deserved.

I have never met a 10 in looks in the community yet.

And all the ladies I have met were quite nice.

But a 10 is top line can't be no better.  Looks or performance.

I have seen providers who have goten a 10 that gave a 1/3 the effort and exicution if the 2 tens I have given.  That tells me a lot of people are inflating reviews.

Not me..........Greek is like having the fancy dessert offered with the dinner for no extra charge.   Without greek is like having pop tarts for desert.

My favorite things are DFK, DATY, Greek, BBBJTCCIM Nonstop swallow....  not neccesarily in that order.  DO that and a convincing GFE..........I have a ear to ear grin for a week.

Never met a civie lady who was up for it except the one and we tried but just could not make it work...

Never had it offered in this game- and I'm not the type to demand it...

The offer would excite me tho'

Try this, how would you like it, if the provider you wated to se had all these great reviews from guys that she traded greek for in exchange for a review and to top it off, she is not a good provider. So here you come, thinking that this will be a great session and you get burned. I don't think it is fair to other hobbyists.

Well I have known several. My SO loves it and am so used to it I feel like I am having something kept from me when its not availible.  Only thing I enjoy more is a tallented BBBJTCCIM and swallow.

My problem with SO is not she sucks in bed or is fat and ugly. Neither are true.  But that she's a total bitch. I hobby for time with a woman who makes me feel good, and makes me feel like making love to me is the highpoint of her day.

Its not just about the sex.

Greek just affers a higher level of initmacy. And it feels damn good to me.

I think the bad part of these potential exchanges is here- false hopes for a level of session.  If the free offer or discount or extras offer  is made but the review is accurate, there is not harm.  The lady get her advertising and the fellow get the session, the audience gets a real view or what is possible.

Where any one of these results is not accurate there's the rub-

Inflated marks- bad for other members
No review-bad for the lady

But then what the heck do I know?  Massage works a little different expecially with my bizarre insistence on a good massage...

I did address that.  I for one will not give a higher review than is deserved from my own perspective.  Even though I have had providers ask for just that.

To me at $300 for an hour I deserve 100% effort.  Offering greek to me automaticly adds on point to the performance.  Ther rest is all up to her.  IF I walk out thinking WOW.....and thats all I think about for a week she has a 10.  If I walk out the Door horny,  then I didn't get her best efort.  If I walk out the door frustrated then she has a bad review coming.

I know good sex, I know bad sex........A ten from me means something.

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There is someone out there for everybody but not one person can satisfy and get along with everyone he/she meets.
Different strokes for different folks.
Some guys like to give greek and others like to get it in the form of prostate massage. It does not change anything.

So guys DO Marry the "up the butt girl"

'Sex in the City" was WRONG?

Maybe she has been reluctant to try it and is curious and you just happen to be the lucky guy she thinks will break her in gently!  If she likes it, she may actually change what's on her menu.  On the other hand, if she clearly states that it is only being offered to entice you to elevate her review, that's not an accurate portrayal of her services and it should be noted as such.  

I wonder if providers who offer greek have size restrictions?

Well I am in no danger of having offers flooding in from the porn industry for being a 3 legged man.

But I am no under endowed poor bastard either.

I count myself fortunate. That it works and works well.

That doesnt mean you have to post an inflated review and ruin your own credibility.

of whether its a good idea to bring a potential review into the discussion at all.  I make it a point to *not discuss* my reviews -- either positive or negative -- with a provider, nor even mention the fact that I intend to write one, at least until the session is over.  From the standpoint of writing an objective review, what you want is a providers 'normal' performance -- not something specially souped up because she knows it's going to end up in a review.  Using a potential review as a 'bargaining chip' in this way IMHO compromises the integrity of the whole review system.

Cheers!

exchanges of services for a good review???

Asked and answered, already.

A writer usually gets paid about $15 an hour.  

Yoda

I don't inflate reviews.....never have never will.

But given two providers giving equaly enthusiastic session, but one allows CIM and swallow, and greek.....

Of course she gets a higher score from me. Because I like those things.

However if she is a horrible lay outside of that even those two things will not make up for the rest. And get her a great review. She will get what I feel the total session justifies.

Reminding me what time it is and when I have to leave is something else that anoys me. I have  had a provider do that.  Cripes I know what time I have to go there are clocks all over the place and I am not blind. It ruins the mood.

And my biggest gripe...........

Providers who whine about a 3rd pop in a 2 hour appointment when their review show a history of 2 pops encouraged in a 1 hour appointment.

Hell even at an AMP you get 2 pops for a 2 hour appointment, and you get a real massage in between, for far less money.

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I feel more like The Riddlee here. Lady wants to do you a favor on the house and you have a problem with that?

I think we pay too much attention to the feminazis. As Eddie Murphy immortally pointed out in Raw, chicks like it too. If she likes you and wants to let you know in her own special way, than what's the big deal? Just remember that when writing the review.

Transaction aside, it doesn't necessarily mean that the lady doesn't like being naked with you. It's a business, but one of pleasure-on both sides of the fence.

Think hard before putting greak or swallow etc.
in reviews, the lady will start to attract ONLY
hobbyists who want that and will quickly hate it
and you and all of us. Few ladies will do those
except on a part-time (YMMV) basis.
 So:  1)if in review, could be a false hope.
      2) if in review, ruins it for those who
might get it (though they didn't count on it).
So I really urge to usually leave those items
out of a review- it's still honest, you don't know
if they do it as regular thing.