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Re:I would suggest trying to make the connection before the pumping starts. Then the
WhatTheHeck 3560 reads
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pumping won't be seen as "mindless"?

v newbie4522 reads

Any recommendations on buying Viagra online from a reputable company?

I am getting tired of paying around $10 per tablet regardless of mg. I guess I could buy 100mg and use a pill cutter. Any good pill cutters out there? The ones I see are very cheap quality.

Thanks for your recommendations, I am sure others would appreciate this info also.

foo3738 reads

I use a knife....

(Be careful not to cut yourself if you do do this)

fortitude4255 reads

I find my local pharmacy less expensive than any on-line place I've been to (just under $10/100mg  qty=10), so unfortunately  I cannot recommend any place.  I also use other meds that I have to cut, and the 2.99 pill cuttter I have works just fine, and has for the past couple of years.  It looks cheap but it works and is safe.  The one thing is to line up the pill properly (Vitamin V is an odd diamond-like shape).

Old Hobo4319 reads

I have have found a simple inexpensive source for vitimin "V". It is not the name brand but is chemically same with the same effect. Delivery via certified mail took 8 days. Price as low as 4.70 per 100mg pre scored pill.

fortitude3428 reads

I take Vitamin V not for recreational, but for medical reasons (other meds I take preclude erection) and I asked my doctor about the generic stuff (saw that same site), and he recommended I stay away from it since it was manufactured overseas and controls over the processes are not regulated.  He is not a shill for Pfizer or any other company, just a straightforward guy that I trust, so I haven't tried them.  If you have, would appreciate insight as to effectivenesss vs. the real thing, etc.

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even tho i would rather 3 fast pops over the course of an hour (or so) over the mindless pumping with no guarantee of completion (which leads to me looking at the ceiling and noticing i need to dust... LOL

the online store i use for my recreational pharmacuticals is medsource 1
VIAGRA (Generic)100mg $5
there is a $50 scrip fee, just fill out some really easy to answer questions at the end of your order 'like' you were talking to a doctor.
if you really want to be a hit with the ladies, order some valiums/klonopins (keep the box out on the counter in the bathroom). they might not consume them right there, but once a month, those things really come in handy!
:)

have fun and play safe,
Nicole in Atl.  

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Curious Cat4641 reads


Hmmmmmm, makes me wonder.

"even tho i would rather 3 fast pops over the course of an hour (or so) over the mindless pumping with no guarantee of completion (which leads to me looking at the ceiling and noticing i need to dust... LOL"

i dont like it when My dates take viagra, but i could answer the question, so i did.

cos i am a gooood girl and i always play nice :)

If, while I am mindlessly pumping, you would be staring at the ceiling in boredom (furthering the state of my inabilty to finish), or, if you would have the graciousness to urge my desensitized digit to completion?

BTW, I think you are a real sweetheart! I always play nice also.

Mindless is the operative word.
if there is no connection, how am i supposed to get into into it?
i pride myself on being a real girl, not a calloused professional ... faking just isnt my style.
:)

viagra gives you the hardon of your teens, not the ability to do it over and over and over and over...
which, imho, is the way to go.

you are all welcome, btw, for the link :)
Nicole

seventhson3962 reads

the only time I find myself mindlessly pumping away is when the provider is "not there"... perhaps this will also explain some of the difficulty with the review process... as a result of my supplements(does not include Viagra)I often schedule two women in a row. Typically one will be hotter than the other, just a statistical thing. Even when the more passionate one is second, I'll have substantially more energy, engagement, call it what you want, than I will with someone who is too passive, too chatty, too self involved.

The other evening my first round was with a "professional submissive" as I was told after the hour... she was pretty and sweet, we had a nice sweaty time, but nothing to get cross eyed about.

The second was a fleshy Chinese woman in her early twenties... who carried her weight well and was rather beautiful in her own way... possibly the most intelligent woman I've met in the entire biz... sex with her got personal... she wanted dick and she wanted it as fast as it could move. She'd grab my ass with her strong hands and slam me into her with all her strength.

We'd get right up to the brink and back off with rapid panting breaths then go back at it with furious intensity.

The next day my butt muscles were sore enough that I had to schedule a legit massage session as post sexual physical therapy.

Moral of the story: mindfulness or mindlessness is a shared condition. If either party declines to take ownership of the experience, yup, it will be mindless...

WhatTheHeck3627 reads

I was with a provider who wouldn't even make eye contact!  I finally said gently to her "I want you to look me in the eyes. What you will see is someone who is kind and respectful".

So she looked me in the eyes, and the session became much better.

For many providers, not being "present" is obviously a way of "getting through" an experience that they do not enjoy.  Those are the providers who are in the wrong business.

seventhson4423 reads

Isn't as easy as it sounds. I suppose this hobby teaches us unexpected lessons that you don't get with the same clarity out there on the day to day ant farm. Or is it mushroom farm ?

Not too many folks of any description are fully present, or could be if they wanted to... one could even go so far as to say that they don't have an internalized model of what it means to be fully present.

The goodness or not-goodness of being sexual is intimately connected with the ability to be present. When sex isn't working it could be that there is an unspoken awarness of this disconnect that prevents the feeling of fusion or loss of self that gives sex its intense power.

In my entire time in this hobby there have been three women who have had the ability to be 100% there in the moment. The same three would easily be the most emotionally healthy (self accepting, good reality testing, curiosity about what exists beyond them, takes care of physical health).

seventhson2357 reads

there have been many women that I've had excellent sex with.... upon further relfection I think the number of 100%ers would be more like five or six... it doesn't necessarily come down to how extreme the sex is...

even the good old ATF who is now a good old friend couldn't get past some degree of self enmeshment... there was only so much she could give sexually. I like her so much as a person that we maintain a nice connection, but I hate to admit that sex brought us up to the realization of how much of ourselves could be available for the other. I was about to climax once and went soft just like that. Viagra might have helped me fake the emotion, but the spirit wasn't there. All said and done, we make much better friends than lovers... the nice thing in its own way is that we've been through the whole sex adventure and know what the limits are. But that's a much bigger project of knowing another person than you'll get out of a blue pill.



WhatTheHeck5409 reads

I only wish there were more providers who fit this description.  All too rare.

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