Wouldn't a diagnosis of Nymphomania in a female provider give that woman a competitive advantage over other providers? Seriously, I believe if a gorgeous knockout provider ( a "9" or "10") or even a merely beautiful and /or Lovely provider (a "7" or "8") were to place in their webpage advertisements a statement saying they are a certified nymphomaniac, how could that NOT help their business? *Sips coffee....*
Any woman can make that claim with no way to back it up unless she's willing you show you her RWI and medical documentation.
Personally I wouldn't care. Just because a woman loves sex and a lot of it doesn't mean she provides a good experience.
I've seen a few women who I thought might be nymphos. I don't care whether they're diagnosed as such.
Agreed.
First, many women already say things close to that in their ads--"I love what I do, I love making intimate connections, etc.". Alas, the proof is in the pudding.
Second, a medical diagnosis of nymphomania? Really? What medical professional is going to do that? What then? A prescription for hours of watching My 600 Pound Life to reduce the patient's sex drive?
Agreed. Perfectly stated my friend.
Perhaps if I was slut shopping. But I am not. I’m GFE shopping. That term weakens my ability to fantasy about the provider being like my girlfriend. I would probably struggle not to think of her fucking other men while we are fucking.
Well, for starters nymphomania is a serious medical condition (now known as hypersexuality) and affects like 2% of the general population. Being bisexual or a lesbian actually only occurs in about 1.6% of the female population so I think you know where I am going with this.
Someone who has nymphomania is going to be seeing a therapist to deal with a full blown addiction issue, they are not going to be running a successful sex work business. Sex with anyone and everyone is going to be their focus, money will not be. They also may not have a place to live, be clean, have teeth, or a healthy diet because they will only be focused on their addition. Pretty sure not someone that was in your fantasy.
And I sure hate to burst the bubble of all of the male fantasies but no, the ladies that you had a duo with are statistically also not likely to actually be lesbians or even bisexual. I am one of the few sex workers that does not do duos with other women which I have been told I have rocks in my head for not doing them because they generate as much or more profit with less effort.
Sorry to bring everyone back to reality....
*also sips coffee....*
I only cared if they were able to convince me of such so my male fantasies (of duo women, that is lol) is quite intact, thank you very much! lol.
As far as authentic goes, my best was in Las Vegas with two strippers from Montreal who were GFs and, of course, bi-sexual. They scissored themselves to orgasm while one of them sucked my dick.
The least authentic as in Jaco, Costa Rica, where pairs of girls was approach you at the Cocal Pool Bar promising what they called "a lez-bion cho." The only time I fell for it they only pretended to eat each other's pussy. So I switched them over to cock-sucking pretty fast.
I've had some of the best VIP experiences in strip clubs with self-proclaimed straight girls, lol. I've asked a few after our hot & heavy VIP's how many times they've been with women, and was told by a few they never had been with women outside the club and they never plan to. Who knew! But boy, did they sell it to me hook, line & sinker and I ate it up, enjoying the hell out of the ride. For my escort duos, however, it would be pretty hard for them to fake that with me. To date I've met many bisexual escorts and a couple of self-proclaimed lesbians too. I've willingly met with some bi-curious girls and usually those kinds of sessions are pretty good, tho they can get awkward with an inexperienced partner. But I definitely gave them an A for effort. I prefer my lady companions to be more on the aggressive side, so normally I'll seek out experienced lady loving providers. 😁
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Interesting handle too. Love to know how you chose it but I understand if that is too personal. As to your point, yeah, if I cant tell if there are really bi, it means they really are or just good at selling it! lol. Either way, I win! Thanks for your response.
"lopaw" is the phonetic pronunciation of "wife" in Cantonese, though I think Mandarin folks would understand it as well 😉
老婆 (lou5 po4) – Standard and Common The term “老婆” is widely used in Cantonese to refer to one’s wife in a formal manner.
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May I call you lopawpaw ?
老婆婆 (lou5 po4 po4) – Affectionate and Familiar Adding the word “婆” after “老婆” creates a more affectionate and familiar term.
"lopaw" is the phonetic pronunciation of "wife" in Cantonese, though I think Mandarin folks would understand it as well 😉
Google Translate says that lou po po is "old woman." (Not that you can't speak of a lou po po affectionately.)
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lou po beng: Wife Cake
impposter...you can call me anything but late for dinner! 😄
"gay for pay" and others who are "straight for pay", but lesbian in real life. One of my favorite Kgirls years ago gave an excellent performance, but as she started showing me her photo albums on her phone after several repeats, I realized that she was gay in real life and dated only women. When I asked her, she admitted it. Being a provider and seeing men was only a means to an end for her financial goals. She worked in the US twice for 90-days each int he same year, and never came back once she had the money she wanted. Call me odd, but I kept seeing her even after I knew she was
lesbian because she was so good at sucking a dick, and a very athletic fuck.
One of my early experiences was at Corporate Treasures (more of a bordello than a MP) near Bellevue Hospital in NYC. I made a selection from the group. As my hostess and I were heading up the stairs, one of her friends (not physically attractive to me, based on 10 seconds from 10 feet away) was there and asked if I wanted to do a threesome. I declined. Things were going great in the room and we were talking about our mutual interests. Meanwhile, she's now in CG and doing a great job. I forget what I said -- maybe I asked for a change in position? -- and she says, "Actually, I'm gay and I prefer women." That led to some deflation. We finished fine and I had a good time but I would have preferred not to know.
"gay for pay" and others who are "straight for pay", but lesbian in real life. One of my favorite Kgirls years ago gave an excellent performance, but as she started showing me her photo albums on her phone after several repeats, I realized that she was gay in real life and dated only women. When I asked her, she admitted it. Being a provider and seeing men was only a means to an end for her financial goals. She worked in the US twice for 90-days each int he same year, and never came back once she had the money she wanted. Call me odd, but I kept seeing her even after I knew she was
lesbian because she was so good at sucking a dick, and a very athletic fuck.
on a first session, and I think that's why the vast majority don't mention it until you have repeated so many times that they figure you won't mind knowing, as was the case with me.
"And I sure hate to burst the bubble of all of the male fantasies but no..."
I dunno, I think some people get off on popping other persons's BUBBLES .... 
What's the medical terminology for compulsive Bubble popping?
Hey friends, My original post was supposed to be tongue-in-cheek self deprecating to the whole board...... I need to work on conveying sarcasm, but not by giving away the whole story.
Honestly, some of OP's posts make me scratch my head, this one among them. You make trenchant points about what such a condition actually means and why it may not be so desirable.
As to the point about the small number of bi-women in the world, I never had a bubble to burst. As I've said on this board, I really don't care what a woman does IRL, or how she characterizes her sexuality, as long as she fulfills my girl-girl fantasy for the hour we're together. Clearly some women excel at pulling that off, whether they're bi in real life or not; WRT the former, thanks for letting me watch, and WRT the latter, I'm happy to be entertained by their play-acting. Either way, im grateful to the ladies. For the ones who aren't into it at all, I would never want them to partake and I explicitly tell them that. Otherwise, may they live long and prosper.
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Honestly, some of OP's posts make me scratch my head , this one among them.
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I'm here to help.....
I'm starting to behave like CDL and God knows the Board doesn't need another one of those.
I apologize.
Behaving like me would be an improvement in your case. I know I should probably be a little more deferential to the guy who once posted here that he has been a TER member longer than TER has been in business. Lol
Of course, it was one of many posts you have pulled when it was shown you were lying. I believe I still have the exchange pasted on a clipboard if you would like to walk down memory lane. Happy to post it if you have forgotten. Lol
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I have amazing duo reviews and I am strictly dickly! To the point lesbians don’t even flirt with me at gay bars, their gaydar knows I’m straight. But I love putting on a show and making it all about the guy. It’s a sensual power move to just smother someone in tits and ass.
I knew a girl who was not in the industry but may have been a nymph clinically. It was all funny stories until she started sucking our nasty taxi drivers dick. Gag & no thanks!
"I knew a girl who was not in the industry but may have been a nymph clinically. It was all funny stories until she started sucking our nasty taxi drivers dick. Gag & no thanks!"
Now Wait a sec......Where was the Meter at.....How much was the fare?
Maybe the taxi driver reminded her of her first.....something.....? Maybe the taxi driver had a winning smile or sense of humor.....I read somewhere that these things were supposed to help a man score once in a while.....
That's an incredible story! Most taxi cabs in big cities don't allow passengers to ride in the front seat next to the driver and they have a bullet proof (and blowjob proof?) partition between the front and back seats.
I have amazing duo reviews and I am strictly dickly! To the point lesbians don’t even flirt with me at gay bars, their gaydar knows I’m straight. But I love putting on a show and making it all about the guy. It’s a sensual power move to just smother someone in tits and ass.
I knew a girl who was not in the industry but may have been a nymph clinically. It was all funny stories until she started sucking our nasty taxi drivers dick. Gag & no thanks!
Scarlet!! I literally had this conversation with a friend the other day. Everything you just stated! Laughable
*sips coffee with you*
CHeck out this advertisement from the Boston ADs Board for Venus MArlow, notice her use of Nymphomania as a selling point.....HA!!!
"Hi there, darling. My name is Marlow💕and I want you to fuck Me. But first, let me tell you a little about myself…my face is beautiful, my breasts are big and natural (promise!) my ass is round, and my little fuck holes are tight, pink, and needy. Simply put, I am an attractive, curvy, alternative pinup Goddess with an insatiable sex drive and a passion for passion. And, while I’m highly intelligent and make for great conversational company, I (more importantly) also come with the added benefit of fucking like a porn star beset with nymphomania. I’m also a very friendly, warm-natured woman who loves to keep things light hearted! In my humble opinion, I’m everything you could want in a provider, and I’m the pinup queen every man deserves. So, whether you’re newcomer to this hobby or a seasoned veteran, I’m your best choice for a memorable time!
I dont want to get into a big argument but I don't think you have much of a case here?
"fucking like a porn star beset with nymphomania" is hardly the same as saying you have nymphomania and were medically diagnosed with it.
I notoriously have a stick up my ass about reviews and misleading ads but this is very benign even to me. It's imo a clear hyperbole.
The push back you are getting is that it doesn't matter to members here, or at least not me and several others in this thread, that a woman deploys that specific verbiage in her ads. If she truly was a nympho, so what? Does that make her hot? Does it make her good in bed? Does it make her sweet, kind, professional and sane? I have read ads like hers over the years and they mean nothing to me at all so I completely discount them.
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What does matter to me? Her looks, her price, the quality/quantity of her reviews, her website, her ads, her board posts, her reputation, etc etc etc
And imo I think it goes both ways
It's one thing for me or someone to say hey I'm a sex addict. And another to say hey I'm diagnosed as a sex addict. Wanna see the doctors note and the meds I take?
Same with a provider. Advertised as a nympho? You may or may not be lying but I'm interested. You diagnosed with nymphomania and are boasting about certification? Seems strange.
Furthermore, I think in this hobby most choose looks over hypersexuality. I tend to go service over looks but I'm a sex addict. Those on the fence about looks might get scared away by aggressive hypersecuality and what it entails as per their mind.
So I think it's not a good marketing strategy. Just say "nymph" like most providers do when they want to emphasize good service and enjoyment of sex.
I think that being a Nympho is only 50% of what drives the provider
I see...and what would the other 50% be Kitty76??
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