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Re: Maybe because some abuse the term tantra
JasDerby 22 Reviews 2127 reads
posted
1 / 26

I just learned from a Tantrika I have seen that Eros informed all Tantra providers that they can no longer use the words Tantra or Tantric or make reference to their being a Tantrika as part of any massage offerings. What!?!?  What’s the rationale behind that?  I search for Tantrikas visiting my city as much as I search for others. And they always are the best!  Boo to Eros on that!  Maybe Slixa and Tryst will treat them better.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 46 reads
posted
2 / 26

As a great leader once said, "Everything woke turns to shit."  Pretty likely they consider it "cultural appropriation."  
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Notice they didn't say you couldn't do it.  They said you couldn't call it that.  A classic case of virtue signaling.

mrfisher 108 Reviews 56 reads
posted
3 / 26

More likely this is the deal:

(Just supposing here, nothing solid to back it up.)

 
My guess is that Eros (Who has crawled up the government's ass.) is taking orders from the feds to eliminate the tantric term because the use of that term may give gals who use it a defense under the First Amendment that their practice is a religious ritual, and therefore protected by the Constitution.

 
I do know that this was a defense used in some trials, though I don't think it got too much traction, but with SCOTUS thumping Bibles lately, it may get them to go along, if for no other reason than to give legitimacy to their other religious based decisions.

 
Eros never struck me as a woke-crowd favorite, and I've never heard of any of the tantric crowd (And I see a lot of same.) complain about people using the term; in fact they take pleasure in the fact that many are turning to it.

cks175 44 Reviews 64 reads
posted
4 / 26
Hpygolky 209 Reviews 52 reads
posted
5 / 26

As part of their service and they really don’t know shit about this technique.
They’ll light some candles, incense and play some weird sitar music while giving you a HJ and next they’ll call it “tantra”.
Now this is just a guess as I’m not into this sort of thing.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 58 reads
posted
6 / 26

Dry humping it’s worthless. Eros has been trash for years now. All the websites that pay to advertise will have rules that apply for using terminology that solicits prostitution. This is why is stupid to post BBBJ, and other abbreviations that clearly state your soliciting illegal activities. If you’ve ever been busted you know better. If not keep doing you & don’t be surprised when you need to hire a criminal attorney. In my area it’s a misdemeanor, but no one wants this to happen ever. Vocabulary is everything. Knowing the laws of the individual states you hobby in is essential.

-- Modified on 12/2/2023 4:33:10 AM

Golden_hampster 62 reads
posted
8 / 26
Lt_FrankDrebin 10 Reviews 60 reads
posted
9 / 26

Dang where did that come from? Somebody trying to talk about a policy change at one of the ad malls and we somehow jump straight to “most of” an entire subset of providers being bullshit? Rude.  

 
And the whole place is trash huh? What happened to “I believe in the power of words, so I tend to be more positive.”  That’s only for your doubles partners I guess.  

 
I don’t know anything about how Eros operates or if the place is trash as you say, but at least that part was on topic. Why all the hate for the women there though?

 
I have met some awesome Tantra providers over the years. Incredible experiences and friendships.  

 
You look really good in your photos IMO QB, but the jealousy or cattiness or whatever is a bad look for you.

RespectfulRobert 77 reads
posted
10 / 26

Haven't many of us as a community tried to lift them up, care for them, look out for them and defend them? And with you being a provider, why in the world would your trash your fellow lifestyle sisters? I am at a total loss here QB.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 58 reads
posted
11 / 26

She did say most, rather than all. Does anyone have data to show she's wrong? Otherwise it's just one opinion vs another.

RespectfulRobert 64 reads
posted
12 / 26

Unless you really think she knows "most" of them and what they do bcd which is impossible. Your argument would have been more valid had she used the term "some."

Lt_FrankDrebin 10 Reviews 66 reads
posted
13 / 26

And buffoonery.  

 
Between the number of Tantra providers I’ve met and/or read reviews for who are anything but BS and the fact I’m willing to bet the number of times she’s been a client of a Tantrika is less than one, yes there absolutely is “data” to show her post is full of shit.  

 
Much more importantly, the truth of the statement or lack thereof is totally irrelevant. “One opinion vs another” my ass. Saying that a person you’ve never met IS bullshit is not an opinion. It’s a ridiculous childish attempt to make oneself appear elite.  

 
It doesn’t matter if it’s true or not, it was out of nowhere and off topic and rude AF. And it came from someone I’ve seen telling people they’re being rude about a dozen times in the last few weeks.  

 
In my experience the best providers are the ones who support each other. It’s just an attitude thing I guess. I merely pointed out she was being rude and that it’s unattractive. And yes there’s data for that.  

 
PS: I’ve never had a tantra provider try to dry hump me, but frankly I’d choose that from a woman with a great disposition over FS with a my-shit-don’t-stink attitude any day of the week, and twice on Sunday.

impposter 49 Reviews 51 reads
posted
14 / 26

Licensed Therapeutic Massage (LTM) and Certified Massage Therapist (CMT) are real, legal things in many states, requiring a state issued license or certificate. Prosecuting someone for claiming to be LMT or CMT without the credentials is MUCH easier than a prostitution bust.  Is there some sort of authorizing body for Tantra?  
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Even then, the burden of proof and acceptance of consequences for false advertising is on the Provider, NOT on the advertising platform.

Posted By: Hpygolky
Re: Maybe because some abuse the term tantra
As part of their service and they really don’t know shit about this technique.  
 They’ll light some candles, incense and play some weird sitar music while giving you a HJ and next they’ll call it “tantra”.  
 Now this is just a guess as I’m not into this sort of thing.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 52 reads
posted
15 / 26

Well I just mean, what is the definition of tantra.  I don't know what it is, myself.  Maybe it has very specific characteristics.  Just because someone does some enjoyable sex and calls it tantra, maybe it's not tantra in the cultural sense.  That's what I mean by opinion.

Lt_FrankDrebin 10 Reviews 59 reads
posted
16 / 26


END OF MESSAGE

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 58 reads
posted
17 / 26

giving a hand job without a license, or just the massage, because if they add a hand job, no license is required.  It's confusing.  

-- Modified on 12/3/2023 10:30:39 PM

MysteryAdmin 79 Reviews 53 reads
posted
18 / 26

I love you Ms Bia, but I gotta differ with you on this. lol   Absolutely most of the Tantrikas I've met have been absolutely fantastic and totally legit.   Not all offer FS but that certainly doesn't mean the experience can't be intimate, intense and quite satisfying.  Some of my most sensual and satisfying experiences have been with those well versed in Tantra.  If "dry humping" is the idea, I tend to think those aren't true Tantric practitioners.

inicky46 61 Reviews 55 reads
posted
19 / 26

Also wrong with such an ignorant generalization. But I guess that's part of pretending you're a queen.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 60 reads
posted
20 / 26

in HER saying "vocabulary is everything."  LOL

WIMissScarlet See my TER Reviews 59 reads
posted
21 / 26
inicky46 61 Reviews 75 reads
posted
22 / 26

I always get a laugh when she (or anyone) refers to it as "our industry."

702167 23 Reviews 45 reads
posted
23 / 26

So if SCOTUS was all lefties this would be legal? BULL SHIT. Please stop perpetuating this myth. WOKE AND CHRISTIAN and any other stick up their ass religion are all the same. They all hate this. They look down in shame at us and ESPECIALLY the providers and none of them will legalize and all for different reasons that I don't give a shit about. So please...pretty please with sugar on top...enough already.

MurikaK See my TER Reviews 39 reads
posted
24 / 26

I think form of touching that lead to intimacy or it could be no provider licensed as a massage therapist. Who knows with Eros. Some of our picture denied bc our public part showing.  Yet ; you go in there an a porn star tits is all over the place. Depending how much you pay to run your ads in Eros . I heard some pay thousands each month and get away with lot of stuff than a girl paying normal ad of 188 a month

holystonethedeck 89 Reviews 44 reads
posted
25 / 26

I have a good provider friend who always complained about Eros and finally ditched them.

beechnut 1 Reviews 34 reads
posted
26 / 26

But if that’s solely the case, then why have several websites ceased operations in the US?

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