TER readers are the best because they are open -minded & know more than most, so please read on & tell me what you think of this rediulous but true story:
2 years ago, an unusually attractive & successful client tried to book a date with me but my schedule was tied up, so I sent him a girlfriend instead. They hit it off & he became her 'regular', to the tune of $250,000 over a period of 1 year. He liked her, but it was a paid 'relationship', but she fell in love with him.....He tried to break it off when she got greedy & demanded he buy her a condo, but she would not take 'no'for an answer. It got ugly: She ended up blackmailing him,turned him into his noe ex-wife and he had to get her legally restrained. She has since been pining over him non-stop, but of course he's not interested, after all, she's a stalker.
2 weeks ago, I got a call to visit a mansion & had a great 'date' with an awesome guy, we hit it off with fireworks and I did things I never usually do 'on the job'. It was too good to be true.....Then, it hit me: I realized it was the same guy who originally wanted me. He made me swear not to tell her for fear she would really go nuts. She is still texting him & demanding more money, & he has been nice/stupid? enough to give her another $25,000 to just go away. Ever since our date, He has been e-mailing me & wanting to fly me to his private island retreat. My girlfriend & I are not as close as we used to be: she has displayed erratic behaviour & I only recently found out about a history of severe psychological issues. I have not seen her in person for 2 months, we only chat on the phone.
Honestly,if she were to have 'accidentally' had sex & hit it off with an ex of mine, I really would not mind: I would hope they make a better match, but I'm just very loving like that.... She knows I certainly could use that level of serious money on practical things like house reno, I have no family & am competely alone/going to school, while she sqandered it on designer clothes, which she became very snobby about.
Selina,I would just suggest you try to make the decision as objectively as you can. To do that, you have to ask what you gain and lose with each choice. Only you can weigh the pros and cons and make the correct decision for you.
Good luck and please let us know how it turns out.
Keep it business, don't "fall for the guy". Not only has it been proven that he doesn't want that type of relationship, but he has a very bad history of one provider who already went too far.
Stay professional, stay detached. As for your friend, she screwed up and should move on (or at least get some therapy for her seeming insanity). What you do with this guy will be purely business and not personal.
You are, quite frankly, playing with fire... doubly so in this case. HE knew that you were friends with your GF when he booked the appointment. HE'S MADE IT CLEAR, he doesn't want a relationship, he want's a business deal. IF you can keep it to that, fine. It certainly could be lucrative as long as it lasts. You need to keep your business sense and build a trust fund or something for the day it collapses as it likely will... You could also have a substantial nest egg by then... or a closet full of clothes... You will have to give up your GF. There's just no other way and she may try to blow the whistle on both of you.
For one thing, sounds like your friend may be unbalanced and could get vindictive if she finds out and thinks you "stole" her guy. I'm sure the money is tempting, but imho you should think about how much potential trouble you could be getting for the money. Look how she went after him. What could she do to make your life miserable?
For another thing, you really like the guy but from what you know about his history he is looking for a paid relationship, not a permanent love interest. I'm not predicting that this will happen, but it is possible that you could end up getting disappointed in your relationship with the guy and having to deal with harrassment from a former friend with "severe psychological issues", as you put it.
I think you need to ask yourself if the risk is really worth the potential upside.
I hope this doesnt get taken the wrong way, but if he actually thought giving $25,000 to a stalker would get her to go away... well, it certainly wasnt a smart thing to do.
Private island retreat? Mansion? Are you sure its him, and not his money that you find so attractive? Maybe I shouldnt ask that - but you did place a bit of emphasis on how wealthy this man is.
I think you should consider keeping business as business, and not getting too involved. You sound like you are on the verge of "jumping in" to something, and I always feel it is best to think things through first.
And you definitely should post this question on the Erotic Hwy board. The Love Goddess gives outstanding advice.
However you decide, good luck! I really hope it works out for you.
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