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BizzaroSuperdude 30 Reviews 1589 reads
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several threads below deal with the concern of the appearance of a provider....  and several humorous attempts by OFF highlight the need to rethink what we are all saying...
I happen to like real breasts... but is they my only criteria for seeing a woman and enjoying her company?  - no.

Many women (and an increasing number of men, according to the plastic surgeons) undergo cosmetic alterations to either ward off the aging effect or to correct some anatomical issue - or to remove fat without the need to go to the gym....  

But lets face it... we are buying a one hour fantasy... Does any of us think that living with a provider would be like the hour or two we are treated to in their presence????   sure some would more closely approximate than others... but for the most part, that is a skilled use of personality, sexuality and the realization that in an hour or two... you are not gonna be there to fail to take out the trash... or once you leave the toilet seat can be put down.. and it will stay down.

For the most part, I just want the lady behind the door to resemble the online pic I saw....  how she gets to that state.... well, it would be the same if I told her to wear a specific dress.. how she gets to that state... well... does it matter....

Several times in this hobby I have been surprised... by just how good a time I have with a lady... but it is NOT because of her body - or even what she will or will not let me do sexually... but rather... her personality....

just my $0.02....

hungry1951877 reads

Would living with a provider be the same as our one or two hour fantasies? Hell no. Was living with your wife the same as dating her? Probably not. I cherish my little fantasy world. I'm one of the guys who "Falls in love" over and over. I prefer it that way. In my little world, I'm in love with her, and she's in love with me, at least until our time is over. Is it bullshit? Of course it's bullshit, but it's MY bullshit, and nobody can deprive me of it. I bring little gifts, and have written a poem. (Got burned at the stake for that one) That's my little world, and I like it there, even if it is only temporary from time to time.

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mrfisher369 reads

The Life of Brian, where Eric Idle sings:  "Life's a piece of sh*t, when you look at it."

So lets not knock our bullsh*t here.

It's the nicest BS I know of.

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Briar280 reads

Maybe a times are a changin'. I think it's important that our valuable ladies see that it's the "quality stupid, not the quantity". (I'm not calling anyone stupid, it's just a saying) There will always be those hot and wild times that we all crave but certainly not the norm.  I wish more of the providers would recognize just as the distinguished ones seem to of gotten the clue along time ago. Just my .03 worth

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sweetnicole1529 reads

As I was saying, before I accidentally sent my message...
I am a Great GF. Easy to get along with, good sense of humor,He makes out really well and Yes he gets what ever he wants in bed that is, all the time...A Very Lucky Man.
Well I do think the down fall if you were to ask him..but don't lol
would be the fact that he has no clue what I really do for work. I think if he knew, it would be a problem, As long as he thinks he's the only one...He's very happy.
so it all depends on personality absolutely.

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mminanton315 reads

no shame in that really, to me it's just another form of thrill-seeking, or escapism. Everyone does it different but the end result is the same, and it's not just about getting off.

-m

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hungry1951234 reads

Right! It's not just about getting off. The journey, and getting there is at least 80% of the joy, as is the sweet time we spend afterwards.

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AWomanLikeNoOther526 reads

"Does any of us think that living with a provider would be like the hour or two we are treated to in their presence????"

AHAHAHAHA... I'm sure my ex will assure you that it's not.  ;)

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WildwestKelly266 reads

Hmmmmm.....my guys must like my personality, as I not a hard bodied ageless beauty ;)


I'm a lady that loves to have get wild have fun and make fantasies come true :)

Save a horse...ride a cowboy...yeeeehhh haaawwww!

Kelly

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RaeMonroe190 reads

Ride a Surfer.

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ed2000488 reads

Totally YES. Looks or appearance are secondary or tertiary

"or even what she will or will not let me do sexually... but rather... her personality...."

For me, all of that quote above gets lumped together under one heading called performance.

To me the essence of the personality or performance resides in HOW she does those sexual things or HOW she responds, where the HOW is the feelings that she emotes during the "acts".

The specific ACTS are not as important as the EMOTION.

-- Modified on 3/7/2008 7:28:39 PM

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keystonekid192 reads

behavior as we gents are.  The other difference is the ladies need to provide a great experience otherwise their customer base will deminish.

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