Them believing that those who see them will believe they are more appealing.
No matter what race you are (other than Caucasian or European) there will be some social stigma associated with you, a stereotype etc etc.
I asked a few black friends of mine why they felt that was.
Here's a few responses. Some women do not believe that black men can be mature and respectable due to media's portrayal of the black man. Some women are intimidated by the stereotype that all black men are well or overly endowed (studies prove this is not necessarily true). Others grew up in an environment where it was socially taboo to even think of being with a person of another race. The same goes for other races.
Some women believe that all middle eastern men smell like curry and want a rimjob as soon as they walk through the door. Is it true? Not from my experience. Asian men are extremely more perverted and cannot please due to size. Is it true? I've met more 'white' men that were smaller than the average Asian guys I've met. Those hailing from Jordan/Israel/Greece/etc have bad hygiene and don't use deodorant. Is it true? Actually they are more clean-conscious than the germ freaks at the hospital I work in.
So the answer is one of two factors. If you disagree with me or have something to add on to this that I may have missed or am ill informed, please pitch in.
1. Ignorance. Fear. Blah Blah
2. Personal experience
which is really one factor - stigma.
Posted By: Cenarius006
Why don't some providers say no AA on their ads? racism ?
even Caucasian and European guys are stereotyped depending on where you are.
Racism and bigotry exist the world over, it is hardly an American phenomenon. If you want to see truly racist people, try many countries in asia. Even the mainstream Chinese language literally translated is racist. With the word for Chinese people translated literally is "sweet people" and black and white people being "black ghosts" and "white ghosts" respectively.
It's funny, when my mother married a white guy (my father) she was disowned for years by her parents. She is still the only one of her siblings to ever have married or even dated a non Chinese person.
Since you asked, I'm progressive of sorts, because I think women like you can be dumb--- f---tards too. Lol.
In all seriousness, someone like you has got to have experienced a ton of discrimination. It's too bad you're an royal ars or I'd have more sympathy for ya.
Posted By: hotplants
there's always women.
'course, I'm sure someone can come up with a 2nd hand story about some angry man hating lesbian who misbehaved with an escort. damn. lol....
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I am sure that SOMEONE will come up with a story about a half breed asian pulling some kind of shit, and I will get boycotted, right along with the man hating lesbians, and the white and black guys. Fuck, who is left to fuck all these prostitutes?
escorts, so it's silly when posters on these threads perpetuate these big dick bad black men stereotypes. I agree that white men shouldn't take all the credit, just like black men shouldn't have to either. Interesting and creepy serial killer list, by the way. lol
And yeah...creepy, creepy list. Even more creepy is that the list of convicted serial killers in the US alone far exceeds, by quite bit, the entire list from the rest of the world.
Read the post in its entirety and it's clear he made a typo. Why would he ask if it's racist not to exclude AAs? Still don't understand the need to try and stir up a shitstorm about race relations on a fuck board!
I know it's a typo, but as I said, the damn question gets asked and answered so often, he can learn to do a search and read the 1000000 prior answers or post it on the newbie board. I decided to answer his actual question, not the intended one. Sarcasm gets lost in writing.
Don't know your writing well enough to pick up on sarcasm yet. Definitely make a mental note of it. Bottom line, I free wholeheartedly with your point.
That the OP knows what a double negative is. And that the result is a positive, so what he in fact wrote means "Why do some providers say AA on their ads?" Conan The Grammarian shudders when he sees such poor writing. As for what the OP really meant to say, yes, it's been done to death here and is easily searched. Of course, it will continue to come up again and again anyway. The answer to what he actually wrote is, providers love to see AA men because they have huge cocks. Everyone knows this, lol!
What he should have done is stated his race up front. Some places it is tricky when you get below the mason dixon line. Other regions such as the upper midwest the ladies love to see men of color.
For the ignorant and insensate among us: 1. HER BODY HER RULES. 2. Lots of other ladies out there. 3. This is not emergency room care or house buying--it doesn't have to be "fair". 4. When in doubt see rule number 1.
Please post these rules on your hobby phone and refer to them as needed.
but that's exactly what I thought AA meant the first few times that I saw it. I wondered why these ladies didn't want to see men that went to AA meetings, I guess I thought that they didn't want to see men who would try to convert them.
Personally, I'm a drunk, not an alcoholic. I don't go to those dam meetings.
I'm a Scientist, not an English teacher. I see that I got my point across though, which makes my contextual grammar mistake effective. I feel you might want to go arrest the OP, that is completely incorrect grammar. In fact, I wasn't exactly sure what he was asking.
... these no AA men ads are rooted, at least mostly, on racism. So how do explain the hundreds of local BP ads in my city from AA women that say no AA men? BTW, I truly am interested in your response ... I'm not trying to mess with you.
I think stereotyping an entire race of people is unacceptable and avoiding these people as a result of these racial generalizations has racist undertones. So providers who refuse to see black clients as a result of racist ideologies are indeed racist. However, I recognize that there are a plethora of reasons an escort might choose not to see black men. I knew a black provider who didn't see black clients in her city b/c the black community was just too small for her comfort level and she didn't want to run into anyone she knew through two degrees of separation. I'm sure there are ladies who are told by their "boyfriends" not to see black men as well. Some say it's about attraction, but I don't buy that reason, b/c there are plenty of unattractive overweight white clients that these ladies will gladly see for income. To each their own, but in a nutshell, I don't think it's that simple to say ALL providers who don't see AA men are racist or it's mostly rooted on racism, because I don't know every provider's reason. I'd be making an assumption as to why they made such a personal business choice; however, it's racist when the reason is based on racial stereotypes. Side note, it would be nice to see the responses to these types of posts move away from perpetuating the stereotypes and ignorance. It's just a shame to read the posters always proclaim it's b/c black men are bad men with big dicks. lol that's so 20th century, it's time to move on. And I'm grateful that I live in a big family with whites, blacks, Asians, Africans, Latinos, mixed races that I have a different world view and have learned not to generalize entire races b/c on what some people have told me about them or what I saw on TV. If that were the case, I'd be shitless scared of white men, because serial killers tend to be white men. What a sad way to live life. Sorry long-winded and thanks for not messing with me, but truly having a discussion. I appreciate it.
It seems you're saying if a white woman doesn't want to see an AA man because of negative stereotypes ... she's a racist. However, when an AA woman posts the same ad it must be for a good reason ... like she might know the guy or because her boyfriend told her that ... Or are you saying the AA providers who post the same exact ad based on negative stereotypes are also racist?
We obviously differ on the meaning of racism. Generalizations and stereotypes applied on an individual basis are ignorant. Unfortunately, stereotypes become stereotypes for a reason. "White Men Can't Jump" was a hit movie. Can you imagine the uproar if I named a movie "Black Men Can't Swim"? I don't consider ignorance to be racism. I don't consider fear of the unknown and something different as racism. I consider hate and superiority to be the pillars of racism ... Hitler was a fucking racist
I said that there are different reasons a lady might choose not to see a black client, so you can't just flat out say it must all be rooted in racism (which is what you asked), especially since we can't survey each individual provider to ask them why they made that personal choice. I only listed a couple of other reasons I've heard of to show that a provider can say no AA and it has nothing to do w/ racist ideologies. I'm certain there are plenty of more reasons as well, and I didn't say that anytime a white woman says no AA, they're racist. What I did say is if a provider (any color) says no AA as a result of negative racist stereotypes, it's racist. The fear of the unknown and stereotypes are ignorant, but when they lead to an intolerance of an entire race, it's racism, as is hatred and superiority. http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/racism
but I'm confused. Why don't some providers say no AA on their ads? Is the question why "do" some providers say no AA men on theirs ads? Or, is the question why the providers that don't state no AA on their ads, don't do so. I'm confused, and I haven't started drinking, yet.
Trust me on this one, I'm not a member of the grammar police. If a person uses the wrong word or spelling of a word or a word out of context, it's no big deal to me if I can discern what that person means. In this case, I'm not sure.
So, I guess the answer that you are seeking is this, very simple really, it's her business. If she feels she doesn't want to see Caucasian, Hispanic, African American, Asian, Martian, Middle Eastern men it's her business. If a lady doesn't want to see someone of my race, I don't want to see her because she wouldn't be comfortable and/or relaxed with me. Since I'm looking to have a good time, and paying for it, I want her to be relaxed and comfortable so that I can have the best time possible.
The bottom line is it's her business, like it or leave it.
Guess what Sunshine? People get to choose what they want to do and it's their freedom of choice. Just move along, and find someone you can connect with. It's that simple.
It is offered as much as the water flows out a facet. Many bp providers have to retire a short time to have the baby. Other bp providers don't wait the 6-8 weeks after they have the baby and will start providing service again.
It is offered as much as the water flows out a facet. Many bp providers have to retire a short time to have the baby. Other bp providers don't wait the 6-8 weeks after they have the baby and will start providing service again.
1) They can they have free to who they want to see 2) They don’t have to EEO doesn’t apply 3) Stupid fucks asking this question is too fucking stupid toy understand the reason
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