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hobbyists: when does this hobby become a habit?
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just curious as to how you guys out there think about this question.  I guess I've been hobbyin for about 3 yrs now.  Initially it was once every 2-3 months, but I've been on a tear recently-5 in 2 wks-so I'm a bit concerned. I dont have a spouse, which makes it easier, but I dont wanna get addicted.

"If you can afford it,
And you meet great gals,
Why worry!?"

lv2daty2084 reads

Like the others have said, as long as you can afford it, why worry?  5 in 2 is kind of alot though.  I guess if you start thinking somethings wrong, maybe you should cut back.  If you are having fun then I think it's fine.

FreidasBoss1740 reads

Have some fun and don't worry about it unless you can't afford it!!

...that when your wife yells at you for the fact that you IM with providers more than you talk with her, well, maybe, you have a problem.

Does she need to use the word "provider", or just comment about time spent on the computer?

Like GFE, MSOG, CBJ, etc. and think about what they mean...LOL

You have gone beyond the enjoyment of the bedroom and beyond a good laugh by reading these boards........and, are now posting on them calling yourself a hobbiest!!

Keep in mind that this is something that you do to meet emotional and sexual needs....but, the moment that you call it a hobby (well that's just putting a cute name it). It's not something that should be seen as a hobby in my opinion. I think that it leaves you on dangerous ground.

But, that's just my .02

PS......Maybe your little rampage is just trying to tell you something. Maybe your needs were being more than met and you wanted more....or perhaps, the opposite. Maybe you're just having a loney streak (we all get them).....Only you know....But, it sounds like there is more going on than just this.

X's Summer

InLA2735 reads

Easy: After you write your 22nd review and decide to ask when it becomes a habit.

-- Modified on 10/24/2005 9:16:24 PM

When you think all of this is real?  and it's become your favorite leisure activity?  But you're still not telling anyone about it?

cutting corners close on your financial well being, you are addicted.

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