I’m interested in views on this. I genuinely enjoy CIM/swallow and also facials so don’t think it can be demeaning for a man to CIF with me. However, I know many women and men feel strongly that it’s always demeaning to cum on a lady’s face and if it’s done as a power trip rather than an erotic shared experience then I agree.
It’s something I’ve done only a few times with clients as it’s rarely requested and given the strong feelings it arouses I don’t suggest it myself. In fact, when I have done it (with clients or with SOs) then I’ve always had to reassure the man concerned that I really was going to enjoy it as none wanted to do it if I was just enduring it. These aren’t the actions of men who get off on demeaning a woman. I’ve been pondering people’s attitudes to facials since my website received its highest ever number of hits on two days last week when a review was published (not on TER) describing this scenario between a client and me.
Is it something most guys fantasise about but don’t dare request? Or is it a minority interest that most ladies and men find unpleasant?
I fantasize about everything, including that, but there are only so many dollars for so many hours, so there's generally just not enough time to get to everything.
Besides, most of the time I'm lucky if the lady will let me kiss her, much less give her a facial.
Having been the right person with you, I still use the memory when I jack off! I wonder if guys would still get so excited about this act if it weren't a mandatory part of porn flicks. For me, its more exciting to think about it than doing it. There's nothing better for me than being able to feel the mutual pulsing of an internal O!
In fact, I'm afraid if I did it, she might get it in her eyes, which not only hurts like hell as I've been told, but it would also put her at risk of disease.
I've written about this on several threads before. So much in recreational sex depends on how the woman responds to a man's orgasm. The cum is so associated with pleasure for a guy, and to have the woman revel in it, or swallow it-- it's validating enough that it deepens the pleasure of that moment.
The sight of it goes through some guys like fire. I'm one of those guys. Why would I ever want to see it? Because remembering that part of the session helps me jack off about it later, and perhaps years later. So, it has an echo effect. You're session with him could bring him years of pleasure.
The visual is important, Carrie. A guy is not going to be able to take himself back directly to the sensation of that moment and get pleasure, that doesn't stay in memory that long. However, he can recreate it for himself from the visual.
I feel I have to tell you that there is an element of dominance there, but then again, there's an element of dominance to mish, cg or doggie. In consensual sex, power gets passed back and forth all the time.
I think it's incredibly intimate and hot to cum on a lovely babe. I don't see it as - or mean it to be- demeaning in any way. I think it's really hot and erotic and intimate!
If you look around anywhere.. The posts/threads/ads that start with "Come fuck me like the animal I fucking am " Come fuck me in my ass til It hurts " Cum all over my face, " and so on, get many more views/attention than :
Charmed in Buffalo LOLOLOLOL
My next ad I think will be: "Let me blow you like a screendoor in a hurricane"
Ps : Just make sure it doesn't get in your hair. LOL!
After saying hello to your clit and pussy on the way down.
I hope nail polish is somewhat non-toxic. But you'll have to really tease me with your puppies and piggies to do it, because I've never brought myself to taste my own cum.
Honestly, the wilder sides of sex, for me at least, are the most enjoyable. The activities HAVE to be something that the woman enjoys, otherwise you would be getting into the demeaning acts.
But if you want to throat fuck me until you gag because that's what you actually like to do? Hell yeah!
Absolutely! I've taken a retreat from posting for more than a year, but believe me the old timers remember me. Hey, Ciara of Buffalo: Shall we team up? Wink!
When I know they want it, it's fun. But normally, I get more lasting satisfaction from cim. I have a nice vid clip of the one I attended, brings back good memories.
an all girl bukkake?? I have this fantasy...two really. One is being in the center of a group of girls that all squirt. The other is being in the middle of a co-ed circle jerk.
Like any kind of sex that is unusual or edgy, facial cumming is a matter of taste. I feel that the aesthetic looks of seeing the cum shoot out and adorn the woman's face is the best aspect of it for me. Not only that, one provider got up and ran to the mirror because she loved the look of it on her and wanted to see it before it dribbled off. Others have reluntantly agreed to allow it, but after a while, I decided it was no fun unless the woman is "into" it. The whole "degrading" issue is really another topic, and has many arguments on both sides. I have one good friend who is 100% feminist who wants to have me do a rape fantasy with her where I tie her to the bed posts and cut off her clothes with a knife. The thought of it originally offended me, but after she explained the significance of it to her, I started to get more interested. (It is the sense of danger, coupled with the knowledge that she will ultimately be OK, that is appealing, sort of like going on the earthquake ride at Universal Studios.) Still I have a lot of qualms about it. (Anyone have a four poster bed?)
I totally dig facials! For me it's a tactile and fun messy thing...I love playing with spooge! I really don't see coming on my face to be much different than coming on my tits.
Btw, Carrie, do you ever visit the U.S.? If so, please consider visiting the American Midwest (Cleveland, Cincinnati, Detroit, etc.) You have many fans here waiting to meet you for the first time. You would be very busy, but that is a good problem to have. Thanks for considering it.
can't be demeaning unless they look at it that way.
Every now and then, I enjoy external ejaculation, but not on the face. I have had partners that enjoy it in mish while they can lie back and watch me finish. This also gives me plenty of room to shoot, and a facial to me is just too much painting a specific area without any reason. I get nothing from a facial, but to each their own.
I'm in the boat that says it's not demeaning as long as the woman is genuinely into it. I think it's really hot, and not because it demeans the woman in any way, it's just a fun part of sex if you're both into it. If a girl I'm with can squirt like that as well, I'd be up for CIM too.
I personally think CIM is really, really hot. It's the one part of porn I really enjoy watching. I've never had the opportunity to do it in real life, but I fantasize about it all the time.
I wonder how many guys that love to give facials would equally enjoy having a "squirter" cum on their face? Personally, I think facials are demeaning, although some women receive sexual enjoyment by being demeaned. (That's not a value judgement, simply a personal opinion/observation).
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