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Didn't say I WOULD or SHOULD be viscerally cruel -- just said your argument doesn't prove I shouldn't be. Big diff ... 
... I was deliberately begging exactly the question that you misunderstood.
Let me put it clearly. My personal response to a physical appearance is mine, and mine alone, and cannot be considered "proper" or "improper." If I dislike a certain set of boobs, even if they look the way they do because of a "natural" (your term) process, nevertheless I will still dislike them. My response to them won't change regardless of how "nice" someone else wants me to be about them. It's the same for fat women -- I don't like having sex with overweight people. I won't want to do that, probably not ever. That doesn't make me "cruel" or "unkind" or "wrong." It makes me nothing more than ME. And that won't change, no matter what your argument for how I OUGHT to be different. It's hard-wired.
Those are my natural responses. But my verbal response to them (we've been using "Yuck" so far) is a different question, of course. If I do that in person in front of the offender, I'm being rude to her. If I do it on the internet in general, not even naming names, and in no way specifying any given human, then I'm BY DEFINITION not being rude, I'm being merely intellectual. It's an "intellectual yuck." I'm explaining my visceral response (which won't change, see previous paragraph) in a handy way.
But if you want me to shut up and stop saying "yuck" in the manner I've said it -- or worse, if you think my suggestion it's OK to say it, is the same as your suggestion that I would go ahead and say it to the face of everyone I feel that way about -- then you're not thinking clearly. You're equating "being nice" with hard-wired responses. You think that what I think and what I say in public are exactly the same, and you think that whose body I lust after can somehow be modified by your politically recorrecting my mind. You don't have a right to do that. My opinion, especially on something as subjective as physical appeal of a sex partner, is RIGHTLY a visceral, natural response, and NOT some argued-over and re-corrected more palatable entity. I don't get a boner in order to please a chick, a get a boner because her body pleases me and my dick. Period.
Welcome to the realms of political correctness, kid. Did you know you had such instincts to "correct" people who tell the truth, merely because they happen to disagree with you? To that I say, yuck yuck yuck yuck yuck. Your positing of your opinion as "proper" in a manners-and-rudeness sort of way, rather than merely as an opposing opinion, is very very PC. Yuck.