TER General Board
Attention Hobbyists
Hobbyists,
Look when I email you about my services in Jersey and you are not interested then please say that you are not interested. I'm not the type who is hurt. I will just put you on my blacklist where I can't serve you at all.
Why would you put someone on the blacklist for not accepting your solicited services? Why are you emailing anyone about your service if they’re not contacting you?
I’m baffled.😕 Just block & ignore people it’s that simple.
I might be wrong ,but what I think she means is a blocklist to herself,
I hope she’s not talking about some national blacklist.
Kitty…. Sound right?
that is my question too, why are you emailing folks?
Our industry is more of they search for us kind of deal; so if the responses you are getting seem rude it maybe that many people keep this part of their lives a secret for one reason or another and they don't appreciate potential deviations in their process.
I imagine there will be a line forming near Kitty's car door!!! Go Kitty!!!! I predict a top 100 spot and a Ms TER by spring.
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Is to tell them if they reply they will be put on a blacklist.
Brilliant!
You should not blacklist clients just because they don’t want your services….? Like whatttt?!
She's really talking about her own Do Not See list. She's not alone in getting the two confused. But thanks for pointing that out./
I'll go one step further than that. I think she is sending unsolicited email or PMs to guys. I think she means, "If you reply that you don't want unsolicited email / PM, I will remove you from my mailing list."
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I think Kitty's use of "blacklist" means "removed from my send-to mailing list."
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I think that unsolicited email / PM is a bad idea to begin with, but I don't think she is referring to "blacklist" in the more commonly used sense.
What if his wife is monitoring his cell phone? Many do.
Funny enough, Kitty sent me a solicitation email this morning. She’s in South Jersey, and I’m in SoCal. Does this mean she’s going to be touring SoCal soon? Or does she think I’m going to drive or fly to Jersey for a $15 an hour date? Or lastly, is she just spamming guys on TER? Pretty weird if you ask me?
I've heard of some girls doing this though. They treat the national blacklist like it's just a casual place to complain about clients for unimportant things like being late or rude or ghosting. Sure those are inconveniences but a blacklist should be for dangerous clients.
AGREED!!! Dangerous, weird, gross, really nast hygiene...
I got put on a blacklist somewhere/someplace because the parking situation appeared to ONLY be valet, and I only use valet if I AM the person staying at the hotel.
Told the lady I was circling and looking for parking. Getting towed is not an ideal situation for most hobbyist..... So, I got on the interstate to make my way to my biz appointment. I texted the lady, completely apologetic and offering some compensation. I get a mean response of only 2 options..... turn around and come give me my money, or get blacklisted.
I don't think this has been too big of a problem, but I do suspect it has lead to several instances of me being ghosted after what appeared to be pleasant and promising initial contact(s).
Anyhow.... Blacklisting should be used for protection for the ladies, and a "reasonably applied" threat for weirdos, overly physical or EXTREME time wasters.
I'm unsure as to why, but I received one of Kitty's invitations. I immediately replied that she needn't bother to contact me in the future, because her location is too far for me to travel.
I sure hope that I don't end up on some shared blacklist, simply because I don't her location is inconvenient.
Did I hurt your feelings by not responding to your unsolicited PM offering cheap BBFS ? I sure hope not.. LOL.. Now, I have been in the business for a minute here and occasionally I get PMed someone wanting to see me, but never I have seen someone butt hurt over not getting responses - not unlike people applying for job never hearing back from prospective employer.
I am just curious how many more got your PMS.. LOL.
Dammit I thought I was special
i guess that I thought i was special too !!!! but when i saw that she was messaging from across the country, and I looked at her ad, maybe it was my response that got me blacklisted, when i told her as a 'Shallow Hal' kind of guy...... she might not want to include her photo when she blasts her pr campaign out to the masses expecting any takers no matter how far away they were. But in my defense I did wish her well and told her good luck.
a lot of PM's would be spamming, which is against TER rules. Kitty is too selective to be involved in something like that. It takes a special kind of customer to draw individual attention from Kitty. You should be flattered, . . . . or not. Lol
... before all the facts are in.
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But I don't think you're doing marketing quite right.
Great topic.
Kitty 🐈⬛ you could benefit from a professional photo shoot, creating a website & paying to advertise on escort websites. If you have been in this industry for decades and never evolved that’s sad. You need to invest in yourself & build your brand.
told her to get some help with hair, makeup and wardrobe before spending any money on photos.
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