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Gentlemen…Does attention to detail matter?
racheltrophyrdhd 4105 reads
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In other words have you ever felt that when a woman pays attention to the details in her incall, hotel room or even with what she brings to an outcall, that it is indicative of the attention she will pay to you? I ask because I am visiting from Denver and my gentlemen callers seem surprised at the fresh flowers, candles, real wine glasses and water goblets as well as a great selection of red wines. In my mind, if this is how I do it in Denver, why would I change things while I’m here in Dallas?

So, how do you feel about details? Do you notice them? Do you feel it adds to or detracts from your time together? Or in fact do you find such attention indicative of how the play session will be…as well as the feeling you’ll take with you? Any other reactions are welcome and of course any and all comments.

-- Modified on 4/14/2005 2:05:50 PM

I would have to say that yes, the little details matter but they have to be the little details that apply specifically to me.  For example, you have the wine, goblets, and candles.  I don't drink, and candles bother me because I'm asthmatic.  If I had told you that information and walked in and found the wine chilled and the candles lit in preparation for our meeting, it would be a major turnoff because it's clear you're not paying attention to the details.

In fact, that happened to me.  I specifically told a woman that I knew normally filled her hotel room with lit candles that I was asthmatic and not to have lit candles during our meeting.  I walked in, and found about 20 candles lit in preparation for the meeting and the room filled with smoke and smells.  I left.

Now, if I walked into your place and found you had my favorite drink(s) chilled and ready and no candles then I would certainly be impressed that you paid attention to the details.

Hope this helps...

... And you DO take care, you naughty redheaded sex-bomb.  And you can take care of ME any time on any horizontal surface, babe.  As you know.

when she turns arround. In your case I would notice De tatas first.......

Have we met? Lex. Lex Luethor. Limp as a noodle and easily pleased.

Trust me -- I'll remember every single detail.

I usually only pay attention to three, two of which are in your pic

Sounds like you go all out! I know that I appreciate these types of things, but what's most important is that it makes YOU feel good and contributes to putting you in the mood.

I don't necessarily want to see how hard someone is trying--it should look effortless.  Having said that, a woman who hasn't bothered to tidy her room, brush her hair or dress alluringly for my appointment makes me feel as though I'm on an assembly line.  To me, these are all parts of the ultimate detail:  Treating me as if I'm the only thing that matters for the hour we spend together.

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