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This is why you don't give personal information
John_Laroche 1515 reads
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almost 10 years later and the dirty details are still fresh.

Where is said personal information you are protesting? I don't see name, email, phone. She said he was bald and that they met at a Ramada. How does that narrow anything down?

All I see is a guy trying to challenge providers integrity and she clapped back because her reputation is key to her income on this discussion board. Could she have been more gentle? Sure but don't mess with someone's money.

John_Laroche3 reads

Just the implication. After +10 years, she has clear memory of prices and locations, not to mention an over the top response to (IMHO) a relatively light jab at something that occurred a decade ago.

 
To be fair, a provider that I trusted told a very big and important lie to me recently, so my trust level towards providers, even those around for many years, is at a low point. So when I see a provider flame a guy over ancient history it strikes a nerve.

I’ve been a provider for over two decades and if you look at my lack of reviews here I have been pretty selective on whom I cater to, since becoming a Mom. The fact that you’re jaded about a personal relationship with a provider has nothing to do with me. Sorry, but I’m not sorry for being well aware of who I share my time with and your attempting to bash all providers because of your personal issues is sad. I’ve grown dramatically as a provider & person over the years.

I think the implication is pretty clear. After 10 years, this guy was an asshole then and an asshole now. He was cleared to meet based on a referral, and she gave him a discount. You don't think a provider would remember who she gave discounts to? Especially if the appointment turns out to be as disastrous as it sounds, for both parties? I think the better question would be, why don't YOU think she would remember these details?

I certainly remember any providers who have given me a discount over my years of seeing escorts. I don't remember every girl that I've met but definitely ones who do sometime out of the ordinary.

And while you may think it was a light jab, as an example how would you like it if your ex employee from 10 years ago showed up to your current employment and told your current boss that they should withhold your next paycheck or recommend firing because years ago one time you let your employee bill 40 hours of work but only work 20 hours because they couldn't come in but needed the cash. You did your ex employee a solid and then they come back years later trying to get you fired.

agreed I don't see anything personal listed aside from being bald but that's like saying he had hair lol its very vague.  

You see "he looked like a man"  
Quoting Ms.Swan from MADtv

Have you actually ever dated anyone on this site. Wher is the proof thay you did. Am waiting.

Laroche has been on this site at least 10 years. Plenty of posts to support he is real. As for reviews, I cannot check but if IIRC he is one of the guys here that posts under his alias and reviews under his TER handle. But you can also, if you have VIP, search the reviews to see if there are reviews under the alias.

420Smoka4Eva3 reads

Everyone here has something to hide. Some choose to post with an Alias for that reason, others don't.

More than that, no one here is posting without an alias. Who uses their real name?

 
But Laroche's point about bringing up specific details from10 years ago still stands for anyone that is concerned about exposure (forget LE and getting arrested, just personal complications for those that would not enjoy the experience of publicity). Was there something that might have outed the person? No, but clearly there was was preserved information and one doesn't know how much more might be preserved. And someone was willing to point out they remembered details from a decade ago.

 
Again, those who have high concerns about this type of things should pay attention. That was the point of the OP.

Buddy, if you are that concerned with a provider knowing who you are and remembering who you are your best bet going forward is just to get services from a glory hole.

Agree. If I was a provider ,I wouldn't date anyone who obviously have a lot to hide.

and you'd cut your potential clientele list dramatically.  Most married dudes obviously have a lot to hide and there's a hell of a lot of married dudes on here and in this hobby.

Rafl2 reads

Exactly. For all these sws screaming for info and deposits you have 10s that don’t need that.

Posted By: snafu929
Re: Personal information  
and you'd cut your potential clientele list dramatically.  Most married dudes obviously have a lot to hide and there's a hell of a lot of married dudes on here and in this hobby.

written on this subject, there seems to be very little glory in using a glory hole.  Lol

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