For some background context, I'm pretty new to this. I've seen a few FBSM independent providers in the US, where I live, on my own and I had one really great couples experience in Germany (more on this below). I've never been to an AMP.

On a trip to Germany, my wife and I had a couples FBSM with two mid-level-attractive providers at the same time. It was fully nude with body slides, mutual touch allowed, they switched back and forth between us, they watched/touched while I fucked my wife to help her finish, and then they helped me finish with a HE.

I'm trying to recreate as much of that as I can in the US but without breaking the bank. The massage in Germany was 300 EUR total (150 for each provider), which I know is way cheaper than anything I'll find with independent providers in the US, so I was thinking about maybe trying an AMP.

In my (inexperienced) mind, our attempt would be to:

- Find a reputable hobbyist-friendly AMP and book a couples massage
- Hope for the best in terms of masseuse attractiveness
- Do all of the usual posturing to signal that we're there for extras
- When the time comes, tell them what we're looking for i.e. they get naked and let us touch, my wife and I have sex with each other, and they finish me with a HE

For those of you with experience, does that sound remotely achievable? What's the ballpark for how much we should offer to tip for that?

Very open to any and all advice. At the end of the day, my wife just wants some awesome boobs to play with while I fuck her, and I'll be happy with whatever I can get.

Instead, I recommend you find a well-reviewed massage-plus provider who by reviews and/or ads offers four-hands sessions with a friend. Since you don’t need FS, it shouldn’t be a lot more than what you paid in Europe, depending where you live.

 
You may spend more than you would at an AMP, but I think you’ll have a more enjoyable, and safer, experience.

I think you might run into a lot of disappointment at an AMP for a few reasons

1) AMPS are high volume, revolving door type operations. They are all about getting people in/out as fast as possible and bespoke, customized experiences aren't the norm.  

2) They might not have tables set up for couples massages. Usually its one massage table in a closed room for obvious reasons.

3) The massage usually sucks, not sure if a good massage is important. If you care about the massage you will be disappointed.

4) Not sure how bisexual the girls will be.

5) seems like you require a lot of communication to make this happen, there's a good chance the girls you meet won't speak English so good luck with all of that.

You can probably find something but... good luck with all that. Instead of going to random AMPs it might be best to just search for an independent sensual masseuse.

..what you're looking for in an AMP will be very very hard to find without some previous investment of time and money. I visit both FS and HJ places regularly and I'm often hit up for recommendations from guys looking for a great couples experience with their gf. I'll offer up the advice that I tell them - if you want to stick with the AMP route rather than the escort route, it's best if you alone visit a shop and build up a rapport with a masseuse. From there you can begin hinting about bringing in your gf see where it goes. But just heading into a shop cold will not usually work. Most extras places are shy/sus with women coming in. When I first started visiting AMP's, it took time to learn how to play the game and to read the signs so that I had a better chance at  success. Good luck!

Thanks for making me laugh. It’s impossible to get a couples massage, like that at a parlor, unless you’re a regular. No one is going to feel comfortable with you & your wife the first, or second time. Escorts here on TER will offer couples massages. Why not ask your wife to choose the provider of her choice? Fun for everyone.

Where in the US do you live? I adore couples!

Hey all, thanks for the advice, I'm glad I posted here.

I'm going to scrap the AMP idea and instead look for independent FBSM providers who are well-reviewed and advertise that they work with couples.

I'm looking in San Diego, so it seems like it will cost considerably more than what I paid in Europe, but I guess literally everything here costs more than in most other places, so that is no surprise.

One follow-up question — do you think I'd have any luck approaching providers who quote rates that include VIP/FS, and asking them if they'd consider a lower rate if we don't need FS and just want a FBSM?

It does seem like the providers who say they do *not* offer FS typically advertise lower rates than the ones who do, but I'm seeing considerably fewer options when I filter for that.

Not sure if the mentality is mostly that it's still 60-90 minutes of their time, so they'd want the same minimum rate regardless of the type of service, or if perhaps some would be open to it if it's lower stress and/or they're looking to book more volume. Curious if anyone has any experience or insight around that question.

San Diego!

I wouldn’t ask a FS provider who doesn’t advertise lower rates for FBSM if she’d do FBSM for less, up front. Instead, look for FBSM providers and FS providers who publish lower rates for FBSM (I know some, but none in San Diego). And if you find a FS provider you think would be perfect, you could schedule a session with her (even a “get to know you” session if she offers it) and ask your question at the end of that session.

Many FS providers offer "social time' at a significantly lower rate than their FS private time rates.  

 
Maybe you should book some social time with a FS provider that you and your wife find attractive, and then you and your wife can get to know her during that social time together.  If things go well, you may want to broach the subject near the end of that meet and greet time.  If the provider you choose is into women, and hits it off with both you and your wife, some really good times should be coming soon!

 
Seems like this may resolve many of your questions and also set the stage for an amazing time BCD once you book the time with her.

 
Please be sure to update us as things progress.  Sounds like an amazing time once your homework is done.