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Are BBBJ safe or how many hobbyist or providers prefer BBBJ?
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Looking for feedback. Currently, I try to avoid them because of paranoia. Feel like I'm missing out. How many out there do it or receive BBBJ? Anyone know someone who got a STD?

souls_harbor107 reads

The answer is that there is a risk.  The question is what risk you are willing to take.  I'd prefer cbj, but actually most providers seem to prefer bbbj.  I'm kind of hesitant to suggest it, as I always worry they'll take it as implying I consider them a disease vector.

...... the first and the last one.
I will not play with a woman that will not do a BBBJ.  
And yes, I lick, suck and nibble pussy. Mmmm, mmmm, mmmm.  

I've never had an STD in my life. I get tested 4 times a year.

CBJ is a deal breaker for me. Don't really care about CIM but if you want to put a condom on me to suck me off ,  forget it, just use your hand and some lube.

Never had an STD but did get the crabs at camp when I was about 11 y/o.

we got lobsters.

(ba-doom)

 
But seriously, to the OP:

The idea of this whole hobby is to have fun, so if the idea of doing anything uncovered gives you the willies, then just don't do it.  There are a lot of ways to have fun with a gal that are very safe and don't involve a cover.   Look into them.

Escort.Monger91 reads

BBJ/CIM for me. Fucking is fun, but a long blowjob with a skilled lady nursing my orgasm in her mouth...hmmm

Just my kinda man!!!!!  I hate putting a condom on a beautiful penis to suck it! It’s gross! I want you to feel my big lips slide up and down your cock!    You can see more pics and read my reviews at eccie.net.  

I love to suck cock BBBJ DT NSNQ kinda gal!  

I prefer my candy sans wrapper.......much more tasty, besides I do 0 while so engaged I don't want to ruin it for myself either

I've been getting them for decades and performing DATY also.   I pick my partners carefully and have never had a problem.   You gotta go with your gut on this

Paranoia is psychological condition. So, you answered your own question.

180 an hour. I've been in the hobby for years and have never caught anything, always getting bbbj's and daty. Higher end providers are sticklers about cleanliness and also make sure you use BT (Blue Toast). Alcohol in there helps kill germs too. If there are some pungent odors in certain places, run away.

my-0.02-cents73 reads

I also, avoid ladies that charge a high fee but have no problem seeing guys that visit many "15min special" providers.  I passed on 2 highly rated ladies that were coming to my city because I looked at the other clients she had seen and whitelisted. Some of the clients she had seen were seeing mostly discounted BP sketchy girls and no mention of condoms in the reviews.

CIM is preferred but I don't care if you spit or swallow  as long as you let me finish cumming before you run away to spit.  Seeing providers is always a risk but I have been doing this since the 1980s and get tested a few times a year.  Always been clean.
...oh, and I LOVE to DATY uncovered (as long as it ain't stanky).  I used a dental dam once back in the early 90's with a gal I had eaten out raw previously.  She got paranoid towards the end of her career.  I Hated it.  Took all the fun away.  Never called her again.  Heard she retired a few months after that.

Unfortunately most CBJ only girls "suck" at giving head. Probably do to the fact they do not like the taste of the condom who would? Like the others have said if you do not like the idea of a BBBJ then don,t do it but I think if you get with a high quality girl your odds of getting anything will be minimal but of course not 100% safe.

Unprotected Sex... That's just the deal...

BBBJ but cbj is ok. I don't care about cim because I like seeing my cum go flying! Lol!. I read on another site that a guy contracted Gonorrhea from bbbj. I did not realize that was possible until I did some research. Don't get me wrong, I love bbbj but I am also very happy to get a hj with dirty talk.

I've spoken with an HIV-specialty doctor at length on this topic.  He felt that the HIV-transmission risk for a blow job was infinitesimally small; likewise for DATY.  If that was a concern, your risk is mild at most.

...there is no safe sex, only safer sex. Do what you are comfortable with and minimize the risk and much as possible.

For me, I've been in p4p (off & on) since 1992 and had one provider attempt a CBJ with me. My fault, I didn't do enough research and I've made up for it since; CBJ is a deal breaker for me. CIM is preferred and I repeat with those lovelies who provide what I'm looking for. They are also the providers who enjoy DATY and some backdoor play -- again, I make sure we're on the same page re: hygiene.

i also make sure I get tested regularly and play with others who do so, as well. I'm also a big fan of the female condom (FC2) and it seems the providers who meet the above description also use the FC2.

Whatever you decide to do, be happy with your decision and have a good time.

BBBJ/CIM and her loving DATY is a must for me!

CaptAwesome81 reads

I came across this post from an sexual health forum.  The poster is a doctor who ran the forum and stated that he had decades of experience with STDs through his clinic.  I do  not vouch for his qualifications or the accuracy of his info.  Just posting it for discussion.  He was asked about the risks assosicated with BBBJs

"We get frequent questions about STD/HIV risks associated with oral sex.  The consistent answer is that oral sex can be considered safe sex, because of generally low risks for all STDs and zero risk for some. Sometimes this seems to conflict with other advice, perhaps especially in settings where social or religious conservatism influence school based and other education that tend to inflate the risks associated with sex of any kind.  But the fact is that even among the most sexually active people with multiple partners (including sex workers), most have no transmissible oral STDs; and that the vast majority of oral sex events do not lead to any STD.  Accordingly, we almost never recommend STD testing after any single oral sex exposure unless there are symptoms, or sometimes if the partner is known to be infected.  We also generally recommend that people with such exposures can safely continue their normal sexual practices with their regular partners.  While of course there can be no guarantees along these lines, in general the risk is low enough that it shouldn't be a serious worry."

His full answer includes links to other forum threads where similar topics were discussed.  

The forum thread is here : https://www.medhelp.org/posts/STDs/oral-sex-question/show/2159728

I am curious if people here agree or disagree with his opinions.  

Another thing I'm curious about.  I've seen a lot of people post on this board about how they hobby for years and years and have never caught anything.  I wonder why that is.  Is the risk overstated...particularly with professional escorts who are serious about their health?  Is there a skewed sample because people who caught something won't admit it or got scared out of the hobby and aren't here to talk about it?

Mimesis2104 reads

Certainly there is some risk of STDs from bbbj's, as the CDC site makes clear:  https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/stdfact-stdriskandoralsex.htm  But there is little in the way of information out there about the probability of getting an STD this way.  The doc quoted above appears (based on looking up his bio) to be a leading STD specialist at a major university, so I think significant weight should be given to his view about the matter -- especially as I have yet to find any similarly well qualified person who contradicts his view.

They always remind me of cigarettes.  There's always a but when it's over.

As in But it could be better.

zarq2009111 reads

have gotten a STD from a bbbj ?

They're ok, and I've cummed from CBJ's, but that's nothing compared to a girl sucking my dick off with no protection on and then gulping down my semen after I burst my load down her throat. And I prefer the whole package too, BBBJ with CIM and swallow, I won't even bother repeating if they don't offer those services.

CBJ just don't  cut it.No sensation no satisfaction.

OK, that's not true.  

I've received (and given) uncovered oral from/to several dozen providers over the years and have never caught anything, and from what providers I've become friendly with have told me, the consensus is that bbbj and daty are safe enough not to worry about.  I think you can use the reviews on here to figure out which providers and agencies you'd feel safe getting bbbj from if you decide to give it a shot.

Your decision on your comfort with sexual acts should not come from a review board. I appreciate the fact that folks have cited actual science in this thread but ultimately your decision should come from your own comfort that is based on research you've done.

Providers won't be offended if you ask for covered services. I see cbj as a  package in discretion, not as a commentary on their health status.

Yes, you can contract a STD through BBBJ.  That said, you can contract at least 5 different STD's through sex properly using a condom!  HPV, Syphilis, Crabs, Herpes.... all are not prevented by condoms.

It all comes down to #!)  using comon sense  (avoid sex with a girl who is obviously shooting up) and #2) what risks are you willing to accept.

The ONLY way to be 100% assured of not being infected by a STD is abstience

When I started on another site which was Aug of 2016, I initially offered CBJ only  

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So,  I offered BBBJ, and became very popular. My reasoning was and is sound, but the market doesn't support it and we're in lawlessness so it's what's happening.

There are legitimate reasons to be more than a little concerned. LA is an epicenter for an epidemic of  extremely antibiotic resistant pharyngeal gonorrhea. I've attached one link but a cursory Google search will pull up a ton of info about it. It's the main reason that while I do offer bbbj I do not as a standard practice offer CIM and definitely not swallow.  

Not that i don't like to do those things and certainly I'd have a few more appointments  here and there if I did offer it but it's beyond what I feel comfortable doing given the current reality.

But in all my years and all the dicks I've sucked I have never gotten anything lol and I get my throat swabbed every 2 months. And with all the providers I know, only 1 sw has ever mentioned getting an oral std (1 time in 8 plus years of her working) so to my knowledge it can happen yes, but it is pretty low risk.

I prefer bbbj if I'm going to suck a cock the right way. Tip of the condom makes me gag and tastes disgusting so I def prefer bbbj

For paranoia. There may be treatment available. I was may be because the treatment is not 100%.  

It is one of those Ouroboros!

If your that scared of contracting an STD, maybe this just isn't a feasible option for you. Go to church, find a virgin, then wait 6 yrs for her to turn 18!🤣

Arden_James99 reads

I prefer BBBJ 1,000% more than CBJ. Just adds to the intimacy, pleasure, and fun. And of course it's less hassle. I purposely maintain a small clientele, and I trust them. Part of the success is in who I choose to be intimate with.

... so far so good and still disease-free.  
Get tested often and thoroughly.
Btw most "bbbj providers" will happily do cbj at your request.

I lose lots of clients who want bare bj really badly but it doesn't really effect my business dramaticly, if you don't want to play everything safe then have a nice day. I've been relying on this job full time since I was 19 years old in 2014 and I have been doing strictly CBJ and no kissing. I love this job and I love meeting men but I do not want to even risk getting herpes or other diseases that transfer by body fluids like saliva when your kissing or the Precum when you're performing oral on him. Just a no no. I can't charge more then 250 though that's the problem with not being GFE is the price of the service goes down a bit.

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