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Many times hobbyists are asked if they prefer the longer sessions...
mrfisher 108 Reviews 1820 reads
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to the shorter sessions, especially overnights and multiday.

I don't think I've seen the provider's take on this.

I suppose the answer is to look at the provider's fee structure.

While $250-350 is fairly standard for an hour, I have seen overnight prices range from under a thousand to three thousand dollars.

I guess that answers the question, or does it?

Any providers want to chime in?

RinaTakami809 reads

I like longer sessions because I can relax more.  On the other hand, if a first time client requests a long session such as overnight, I go more carefully with screening because I want to make sure we are compatible.  Most of the times they didn't turn out to be real.

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Adrianna Azzure428 reads

My take as a companion is that I prefer to be relaxed and comfortable with new friends and often request that upon our very first introduction that they make time for a min of 1.5hrs so that we can get acquainted.

However this is not the case with old friends or someone who has been highly recommended by a trusted friend.  

As far as overnights or multi days go. These are quite extended events. Those events are completely the gents choice to either book them, or extend our original time if we are enjoying each others company and want to extend.

Many ladies set a min time requirement but I dont know too many that would require a min longer than 4hr dinner date.

but thats just my $0.25 ;)

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lilli326 reads

...and what feels most comfortable and natural with that particular person. with some gents, an hour is just perfect and any longer would start to take away from the experience, with others 2 or 3 hours is ideal, and with a very few overnights and multi-day appointments are best. there are certainly people that i would happily see for one hour but never for an overnight, and people i would happily spend a weekend with but never one hour. so it really is relative.

for instance, there are some men who enjoy a very intense GFE...meaning that perhaps we'll spend a night out on the town, or hang out with his friends, do lots of hand-holding, cuddling and smooching, and typically 4 or 5 hours will go by before anything even remotely sexual begins to take place. with such a client, one or two hours just doesn't work, because they need all that extra time to relax and get really fired up. likewise, other gents may wish to step in the door and instantly drop their pants and be serviced...i won't do any more than an hour with such a client because the flow just won't be relaxed or natural.



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greatrush717 reads

The provider who claims that 1.5 hours is indeed enough time to get to know someone depends on our stupidity. A half hour in a phone booth maybe. For those providers who want to get to know us, donate the time, because I am usually there to throw down, nothing more. A 4 or 5 hour session would be a different animal, but chemistry better be in play or it's going to be a long day.

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conman007486 reads

Personally an hour is not enough for me. 90 minutes works out perfect because you get to spend the first half hour having a cocktail and talking and then you get a FULL HOUR of activities without interuption.  Many guys agree with me that an hour is simply too short of a time to do all that needs to be done. If you need to take a shower when you get there because you just came form work and another shower afterwards to wash before you go home, you have spent a good 20-30 minutes of your hour just doing that. It is not fair to the provider if WE are the ones needing the extra time....if so they should be able to charge for that extra time, and we wouldn't want that now would we!!

Half hours and hours in my opinion are for nothing more than a blow and go or sex on a hotel room basis.  Certainly there is no time to relax at the bar before or after.

Some guys can't even get off in an hour and so the extra time is needed, but it should be compensated for. If every girl in this business made an hour and hour and a half than they may as well just wear a sign that says " I have nothing better to do, please take advantage of me."

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Adrianna Azzure375 reads

There are diff types of providers and diff types clients with different wants and needs. Thats all.

I would never see a client who thought that a bit of warm up, conversation, and flirty tasty foreplay is "stupid" or a waste of their time. I dont do the open the door and "throw down" and those arent the type of clients who seek my services either.

My clients dont think its "stupid" and they request extended appointments because they know the type of sensual jouney ride that lays ahead and thats what they are looking for. We both enjoy laughs,conversation, and fun make out time. They want to enjoy company as well as  sensuality. not "throw down"

I hope you enjoy your next WWF throwdown.

I'll def. enjoy my next sensual, seductive, mutually enjoyable jam session :)

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greatrush422 reads

My only objection to someone asking for 1.5 hours as a "get to know me" rate is ludicrous. When two people get together even in the P4P area, an extra half hour goes to the provider for usually no less than 1/2 her hourly rate (sometimes more) and I don't think an extra 30 minutes is going to make a difference... I'd much rather a provider require 1.5 for first dates as a "premium" for the hassle of the unknown... That I can handle than the pretense that I will know you better. First, I don't know you at all. You don't give me your first and last name, your employer, your W2, DL or any other requirement. I can't be sure you just slept with Tom, Dick, Harry, or Mary either... Let's face it... it's mostly free money and I rather have it straight, no chaser...

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mrfisher448 reads

If a provider can see six guys for an hour a piece at $300 each, that's $300 more than if she sees one guy for 12 hours for $1500.

On the other hand, she is spending less time screening, getting ready, etc.

I'm just wondering at what point providers take the "hassle" factor into account.

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RinaTakami496 reads

I much prefer seeing one instead of two.  More clients, more risks.  And I'm not high volume.

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Adrianna Azzure624 reads

I only speak for myself. I know that other providers do think in a diff. way. With that said.

I set my rates at whats profitable and comfortable to me and according to what my time is worth.

Therefore Its not always what will make you the most money. Its what will make me happier. Id rather see one regular client with great chemistry and know that Ill be at my best at $500, then a new client with questionable chemistry at $600.

And In fact I decline meetings with clients that I felt we had no chemistry while chatting and getting to know each other on the phone.--Some consider it a loss. I consider it a bad decision to make an appointment If I feel its not there. and so far its worked out quite well.

Its not always money. Its the quality of the experience for both of us.

 


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GaGambler657 reads

I know some providers, and some hobbyists for that matter, don't like to talk on the phone except for scheduling, but I like to get a feel for who I am going to see. I have rarely had a bad session with a woman that I connected with over the phone, and I have never had a great session with a woman that I felt rushed with or didn't have chemistry with on the phone.

I am with you Adrianna, if it doesn't feel right over the phone, I usually won't book  the appointment.

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