I've been in this hobby for 17 years and have never had a wish list.  It just never felt right to see a gentleman who chose to see me, pay my rate and enjoy time together for more. I have never left a meeting wanting more out of anyone. I don't see those who bless me with their patronage as dollar signs or someone to get more out of.  I leave each meeting with a sense of appreciation and gratitude.  No one has to see any of us.  

This past year I've received multiple requests for a wish list...I've never received this request before. After many requests, I put one up on Throne.  It started as a place to pay deposits which is great.  It keeps me from using other merchant services that may not be adult friendly or using an app that steals my info.  I don't have my life on my phone like most people do and I don't use a lot of apps. Most of the time I don't have my phone, hobby or personal, on me. I don't carry them everywhere I go. After a while I started receiving actual gifts.  It felt weird at first as that is not what is expected from me.  

Lesson learned...I shared my thoughts with a client who so generously bought me something off my wish list. He said it's a pleasure to send me a gift and it was something we wanted to do.  He understands that it's not expected and when I leave our meeting I'm just as happy without anything extra..  He felt I deserved it and wanted to do something nice for me.  This made me smile and the weird feelings started to melt away. I also learned a lesson...I did not receive gifts because it was expected.  I received them because the gentleman thought enough of me to send me one. It's what he wanted to do.  I'm working on the mindset change as I still don't expect a thing outside of my rate and us having a great time together. I never will expect more.

I have to admit...being a single woman, it's nice to receive a gift from an gentleman I've enjoyed time with.

Another thing that can come out of with list is the opportunity for gentlemen to get to know their chosen provider on a more personal level.  I've had comments about my wish list. I don't have the typical things on there many other providers do.  I'm not into expensive name brands as far as clothes, shoes, jewelry, perfume, etc.  I find those things to be empty and boring.  The things on my with list are things I truly like and can use...some expensive, some not.  None of it is expected.  For me it's the thought of the gift that matters, not how expensive it is or what tag is on it.  

At the end of the day, I'm grateful, gift or not gift, I'm grateful for everyone who chooses to spend time with me.  

Becca Blossoms