As a new hobbiest, I was hoping for tips on how to pick someone from SDX when there isn't a TER review. Most providers there don't have a review, and many providers reviewed here aren't on SDX. I've noticed that many of the girls reviewed as "rip-offs" tended to be younger and prettier. Catch more fish with good bait, I guess.

I have connected with 1 provider reviewed here, and other then her appearance, I was quite happy. (I didn't bother to submit a review since I would have been a small voice in the chorus). I have emailed and left messages with several reviewed providers with little sucess. I would like to fish from a bigger pond.

When selecting a new provider to try, what do YOU look for?

TIA