Ozymandias,
You have special wisdom concerning Asian Pornstars, I can see, and I'm hoping you can offer more clues to the mystery of Leanni Lei. Clearly, you also have a distinct voice and intelligent insight into the complex world of Asian Pornstar providers. As a personal request, I'd like you to expand your thoughts on Leanni, her career, her fade from the Porn scene, and her (seemingly, hopefully) idyllic life in small-town New England.
I started searching for the Loch Ness monster, I guess, when I went after Leanni. I had known a few local Big Name Asian Pornstars here in L.A., and I figured Leanni might be as easily "accessible" in NE. My quest turned into a two-day "Champagne Room" binge at Leanni's strip club, Mardi Gras #1, in western Massachusetts. I was never able to arrange any "private" time away from The Gras with Leanni, but I had a pretty good time while I was there!
I think I made a reasonable offer (Miko Lee's rates), and I showed her the cash each time I tipped her VIP dances. It's haunted me for months, however, that maybe I approached it the wrong way. I'd appreciate your view!
Thanks, Ozy!
---------- Dukethedog
Duke,
I respect your tastes and intentions, but this sounds like it's getting a little too "obsessive" (you used the word "haunted"). You've already asked her and tried to induce her with a significant amount of money, and she's turned it down. It's seems she wants to be anonymous and make a break from her past. That should be respected. Save your money for those who really want to do it.
I'm with Gromit on this one. Sounds like she has a life that she enjoys and is very comfortable in it. Sure you might have a chance to persuade a star to private meetings with cash, but it is always their choice. Money isn't everything. She said no or didn't sound interested. Just move on, it's more healthy for you.
I can't say I have any "special wisdom", but I was always a fan on L. Lei and have seen interviews, etc. which lead me to have a sense of her personality I suppose... I think she is basically a "good girl" and would probably regard escorting as morally wrong.
There really is a difference in some people's minds between escorting and porn: porn is less personal than escorting. I think L. Lei regarded porn as "acting" where she would regard escorting as "prostitution". Big difference, mentally.
Unfortunately for her, she has a very singular look... she is going to have a hard time working in the mainstream world completely incognito after she finishes college.
I agree that your grail quest probably isn't going to end to your satisfaction. She just isn't "that type of girl".
O.