Some gals who work at AMPs just give massages.  At others, they will want to see you a couple of times before offering any sexual services.

Here's how to improve your odds:

When you flip over, attempt eye contact and smile broadly.  Never ask for any sexual services and for heaven sakes, don't move her hands over to your crotch.

If she reciprocates the smile then lead to some flitratious conversation like complimenting how nice she looks.  If she is interested, she will say something like:  "Is there anything else you'd like?"  If you get this question, you should be in like Flynn.

The next step is ask about "extras", if she nods, then make an offer (They will not bring up money.)  She will either nod or shake her head.  If she shakes her head, up the ante by a $ if you want.  If you want to play hard ball, that's OK too.  It's a regualar Turkish bazaar at this point.

Be sure you bring your wallet into the room with you.

I've had some wonderful AMP experiences.

Also, keep in mind, AMPs are big targets of LE these days, so keep your ear to the ground and don't go to one if there are busts going on.

Hi All,
I am sure this has been covered some where on here, but I have not found it yet. Help!

There are a few new AMP that have popped up in my city. One of them in particular I noticed began advertising on Backpage. The massages and services offered seem to be the legit kind you would get if you were not hobbying but I don't trust my judgement and there's no way to tell.

My question is, how do I tell if this AMP offers services for a hobbyist?

Also, now that I think of it what IS the proper protocol for an AMP? Do I hint at what I want in the beginning? During the massage? After the massage is over? Do I tell the girl actually doing the massage or do I try to speak with her manager, etc.? During the massage do I place the girl's hand where I want it to go? Are provider services extra or is that covered in the initial amount? Is there any risk at all of a raid or LE showing up?

For some reason, I have always wanted my first foray into the hobby to be at an AMP. The few that have popped up here seem like a great way to do it, but I honestly do not know what I am doing. I am ignorant, so I am turning to you guys.

HELP!

RR

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That sounds complicated. As a complete newbie I would just book a reviewed provider for sure thing. You'll end up anyways spending about as much.

there is a certain thrill of the chase to it that I used to find quite exciting.

The AMPs that give the showers (table or standing) will give you a better idea where you stand, when you see how well you get scrubbed and where.

You will also know, sometimes, by how they dress. If they're dressed in massage/spa outfits, you know nothing. If they're dressed in sexy little dresses with things or no panties...

During the massage, if they come to the head of the table you can lightly brush/rub her thigh and gauge her reaction. Use one hand so she can easily move to one side if she objects. If there is no objection keep your and moving to give her butt a nice gentle squeeze.

Sometimes it help to give Mamasan a tip when you pay the house fee... I also make sure to leave a nice tip on the table with my watch, etc. so that it is easily visible. She may as (up front) if that's for her, so just say yes, as it will make her more comfortable. Decent tips can vary for your area. Minimum should be $60 or $70 (or about the same as the house fee for an hour). Around here (Washington DC / Baltimore) it's 80-100.

I only know about NYC, but from reading reviews and comments here I get the impression that there are regional or city by city differences. NYC has many kinds of spas, but the ones reviewed the most involve a single all inclusive fee. You don't have to beat around the bush - in fact, most of them are shaved anyway. There's an SOP that is almost joked about: the mysterious 3 minute disappearing act after the shower but before other things happen.

In RI, it seems that most reviews describe spas that involve some maneuvering to go from basic fee massage to various tips for a higher level of service. That makes me nervous, too.

Where are you? Search reviews ("Ethnicity", "Incall", etc.) in your local area and see what they say. (VIP to read the important stuff that you seem to want.)  Also, ask on your closest regional board about how AMPs work in your area.

I RI ,, ,
I got asked every single time in FS places - What do you want ? I smiled , nodded by head and girls gladly went all the way, even when I said i never been here.

In non FS places I never had to ask for anything . Extras came automagicallly. I just kept my cool. Did not even extend a finger.


In summary, be nice and smiling . They really want to serve you and make to happy , comfortable and almost never to cut you short. Yes , there could be annoyances like last time I went to non FS well known place, the girl came forward took me inside the room and then started talking and texting on andriod. I was pissed but kept my cool. Later she really made it out for her misbehaviour without uttering a word.