any of the sex dating sites legit ? anyone with experiance please respond.

Back when I didn't know better, I joined one of them. I got a steady stream of messages from supposed female members. None of them turned out to be real.

I hear that Grindr have or are working on a launch aimed at attracting straight women. I predict failure. Women don't seem to want to hook up with random guys, even hot ones. It's something to do with 'feelings' or 'chemistry', whatever the hell they are.

I used adultfriendfinder and it worked ok.  I went through the chat rooms and went to some of the mixers.  Mainly overweight, 40yr olds who were swingers.  They were nice, but not my cup of tea. I didnt get much out of the ad postings.