I would also take it a step further by asserting your information and utilizing the reference options that TER has provided… to do this, I would recommend that you:
1- First post a review about the provider...… Then Request that this provider submit herself to your white list as a reference.

Because you have already spent time with her, you can also check a reference site known as date-check. If she is listed on that site then you can engage your option there of selecting the “I have met this provider” link which will entitle you to a trial membership that can also be used as a secondary screening (*especially for Newbies*)

I definitely would not “buy into” the …… “you are so different I will make an exception and charge you a premium rate to offer FS”…  BAD, bad business behavior!! (*I am not saying she is practicing this I am just saying I wouldn’t participate nor encourage it*)

Move along with your preferred list and chalk it up as an experience...…

Just make sure you keep enjoying the hobby that is what it is about... enjoyment……

Know your provider (*and her reputation*)
Kisses ~Tori