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Re: just as important as...red_smile
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Thanks, TrulyMsMocha.  I've researched DATE-CHECK and P411, but I don't want two referral areas.  I'm figuring the combination of my glowing reviews and WHITE LIST REFERRALS on TER will be great references that all providers would appreciate.

Hiya Everyone!

As a new TER VIP here who is expecting to meet my first provider in October, I'm thinking that WHITE LIST REFERRALS are important to providers.  Anyone I meet through TER, I will ask if she will vouch for me on the WHITE LIST REFERRALS.  I'm figuring it will make meeting any new provider way easier in that she would know I'm a good guy through my referrals.

Any provider I meet through TER will get a glowing and detailed review from me.  It's our job as men to stimulate the minds of all the women we interact with so they can be the passionate nurturers that this world sorely needs!

I would appreciate any feedback from TER VIP members on the importance of WHITE LIST REFERRALS.

Thanks!

A good recommendation from date-check or an okay from P411... they all show your "safeness" and/or reliability imo. So pretty important.

Thanks, TrulyMsMocha.  I've researched DATE-CHECK and P411, but I don't want two referral areas.  I'm figuring the combination of my glowing reviews and WHITE LIST REFERRALS on TER will be great references that all providers would appreciate.

Lol just Mocha but yeah in my eyes TER whitelist, date-check good rec's & p411 okay's are equal in my eyes.

Great, Ms. Mocha.  I was thinking of that song TRULY SCRUMPTIOUS from the film CHITTY CHITTY BANG BANG which in my head so easily translates to TITTY TITTY BANG BANG!  LOL

guy2010351293 reads

probably a good strategy.  I'm new also and want to ensure I meet with good trusting providers.  Like anything once you make it past the first, it just easier!

That's right guy.  If we do a bit of our homework and treat the ladies right, we will be white nights to them and they will show their appreciation to us for treating them right.

Al.to_the.Rescue601 reads

That being called a white knight is like being called a tool?

steenaman639 reads

What is a Whitelist and where can it be found?

Not all ladies use or trust them. Some ladies have been known to offer whitelisting in exchange for fake reviews of sessions that never happened.

Being whitelisted can be handy, but is not the end-all-be-all of verification. What if you're verified by a lady that got banned???

Whitelisting is one piece of a complex verification puzzle.

Finally, TER IS NOT about giving a glowing referral to every lady you meet. Give a fair and honest representation. PERIOD. Anything less is buying their approval which makes you an ass-hat.

No, hound_dog69, writing a glowing review is because of how she was because I screen providers very carefully.  Agree, the white list is one aspect of trust and genuine reviews are the other.  I would never write a fake review.  If on the small chance I had a bad experience, I probably wouldn't write the bad review.  A woman can have an off-day and writing a bad review can destroy her self-esteem and ruin her future prospects for good and generous men.

As HD69 mentioned white list referrals are just part of a ladies reference check of you. Many escorts take white list refs with a grain of salt. Also you will not click with every escort you see,that is reviewed on TER or advertise on the local board. To assume you will give them a glowing review before you even see them? Well you know the old saying about the word "assume"  ass - u - me.  Just relax,, and knock off the bs about "stimulating the minds of all the women we interact with" This is a P4P web site, not match.com

Hiddenhills, I'm waitng for a provider to arrive in DC in October.  Writing a glowing review is not an "assumption" and would never be written if it wasn't genuine.  Sorry, I will always stimulate the minds of the women I interact with because it results in the most erotic experience I could ever have.  I'm speaking from past experiences with women.  Women want to be treated like women should be treated, regardless of whether or not they are being paid for it.

Not all reviews are glowing. And that whole thing about stimulating the minds of all the women is way over the top.

Most TER ladies will say get the donation right, be on time, be clean, be polite, and get the donation right.

BTW white list referrals are over rated. Ladies want to hear from other ladies that you're cool.

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