Most ladies will accomodate, some might even find it a turn on.

Word of advice, you're 19 -- plenty of things to yet experience, civvie life may be more suitable

I mean if that's how you feel go ahead. I've seen 2 virgins myself ^_^ well they aren't anymore haha. And they let me know they were beforehand...it's cool if you want to tell her. She might even take extra extra special care of you.

Re: Losing virginity to an escort?

I just lost my virginity to an escort in vegas a month ago.  Im 21.  It was a great experience and lots of fun. I learned alot. The lady was so helpful. Sex was just not happening to me in the real world. If i were you, I would do it.

I don't see a problem with it personally, but then I don't buy into that "the first time is special" mentality. The only thing special about the first time for a guy is that you've finally done it and you're no longer thinking about your virginity all the time.

and it was a good experience both times.  I took my time and played teacher as well as lover.  

The first guy was big into watdhing porn and he had some bad approaches which I taught him to correct.

 The second guy was so sweet; he was visiting NYC from Oxford University and an older friend had given him my name and number.  

 So I think there are definate advantages in taking this route.  choose someone who seems kind to you and then explain why you are contacting her.
 Happy hunting!  xoClair

I can't think of a reason not to.  Choose a provider a bit older...  an attractive MILF maybe 10 years older than you.  Wiling to teach & take some extra time.
Just don't fall in love with her!
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I'm now old enough to be your grandfather and then some.  I certainly wish that I'd lost my virginity to an experienced provider before I met my first wife.  If so I doubt she would have become my wife, first or otherwise.

I'm a bit concerned by your admission to being "antisocial," and "a pussy when it comes to talking to women." Finding it difficult to talk to women can involve feeling like the woman has all the power, and hence resentment. You may just be using the term antisocial loosely, and if that's the case ignore what I have to say. The woman you'll be with needs to feel safe, and if she picks up on any hostility from you, things could go very badly. If you are just wanting to pop your cherry, then it might be best to have a VIP membership, read the reviews, and find a lady that has a set routine, and follow her lead. Less chance of misunderstandings. If you are just talking about feeling socially awkward around women, the same advice applies, but you could also go with some of the previous recommendations, regarding seeing a more mature lady who will gladly help you through your first time. Good luck!