certain lingerie, there being no laws against weaaring same; but don't cross the line and mention removing it and certainly not a HJ.  Suggestions of sexual activity make gals worry that you are LE trying to set them up.

They'll know what kinds of things you have in mind.

I just joined TER, and have never engaged services of an escort, but the whole idea of being to quench a forbidden natural thirst, easily and without risking current relationship is intriguing.

my idea of the perfect time and ideal girl is very specific. Busty, beautiful, 25-40, wearing several different sexy outfits, lingerie, bustier, bras, body stocking, etc., we make out, I slowly remover her top for some breast play  and go no farther than a HJ,or 3.

Seems reasonable to me. or What?
Any east coast/.Vegas suggestions?

Thanks

Chestnut

I hope you've done your homework and read the Self-Help center, etc.  You'll also need to pass screening, which is tough if you've never seen anyone who'll recommend you.  So you may want to join a screening service like P411 or DateCheck.  You can also find "newbie friendly" providers through these sites.  As for lingerie, don't ask about it until she's agreed to see you and you've made a date.  Once that's done, you can text or-e-mail her to see if she'll take a clothing request.  Almost all will.  But why stop at a hand-job?  You'll be paying  for the full menu anyway, and most girls will do BBBJ as well as FS.  Anyway, do it your way and have fun!
PS:  Don't kid yourself.  If you don't do your homework (and even if you do) you are definitely "risking current relationship."  There are lots of ways to screw up.  I know, having done several of them.

There's nothing wrong with what you seek. The only problem I can see is any kind of discussion ahead of time. IN GENERAL, most providers will not discuss anything explicit in phone or email or text. I don't think "can you bring multiple outfits" is explicit but I'll let others chime in on that.

There are quite a few exceptions who will ask you what sort of session you have in mind and stuff like that but you might get more outs than hits before finding someone who will talk explicitly.

There are MANY providers who will entertain your fantasy once you're in the room and comfortable. They might arrive prepared for FS (full service) but will happily adjust according to your preference and try to fulfill your fantasies. (At least the good ones will.)

You'll should definitely read the reviews (get VIP) to see if your chosen date sounds like someone you'll click with.

If you post the same question to your regional board, you might get some specific suggestions for providers who do exactly what you ask. There are plenty of providers who reply to the boards and someone might chime in with her own suggestions. Interestingly, explicit discussions on the boards seem to be OK, at least in the context of the forums. When someone posts "I love to put on all kinds of outfits and show off in them" it doesn't sound like a description of a service; it's more like expressing a personal preference.

I appreciate the education, fellas.

just keep in mind that the donation will be the same as if you went all the way, because you are paying for her time and companionship. But lots of girls would be okay with this, I know I would! I like to dress sexy.

XOXO