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LFK vs. DFK
Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 4532 reads
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I'm still not totally sure that I understand the difference. Can someone please explain?

I would assume LFK just means kissing with tongue...but does that mean that DFK involves licking each other's uvulas?

ShakingtheSheets506 reads

me LFK would be gentle soft pecks on the lips with occasional expansion to "light" (i.e. not ramming your tongue down her throat) kissing with tongue. Very soft, very non-aggressive kissing. Your prob. caressing her neck and head as you do it. Very light and innocent. I would describe it as sweet.  

DFK is much more passionate. Here you are both ramming tongues down the throat. Hands are prob. roaming everywhere on each other's body as you kiss. Much more aggressive and intense. I would describe it as true hunger and desire.  

That's how I see the distinction...

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Tobi Telford486 reads

However, I have literally never "rammed" my tongue down anyone's throat (or even delicately placed it down someone's throat) and I don't intend to, simply because I HATE IT when someone does that to me. Does that mean I don't DFK?

Posted By: ShakingtheSheets
 
 To me LFK would be gentle soft pecks on the lips with occasional expansion to "light" (i.e. not ramming your tongue down her throat) kissing with tongue. Very soft, very non-aggressive kissing. Your prob. caressing her neck and head as you do it. Very light and innocent. I would describe it as sweet.  
   
 DFK is much more passionate. Here you are both ramming tongues down the throat. Hands are prob. roaming everywhere on each other's body as you kiss. Much more aggressive and intense. I would describe it as true hunger and desire.  
   
 That's how I see the distinction...  

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JoeBanzai419 reads

Deep is one thing, into the mouth, literally down someones throat? I didn't think tongues were generally long enough to go down the other person's throat. I would say if you are putting your tongue halfway into the others mouth that's DFK. If you barely stick your tongue out and not very often that's more like LFk

Posted By: BadCollegeGirl
However, I have literally never "rammed" my tongue down anyone's throat (or even delicately placed it down someone's throat) and I don't intend to, simply because I HATE IT when someone does that to me. Does that mean I don't DFK?  
   
Posted By: ShakingtheSheets
 
  To me LFK would be gentle soft pecks on the lips with occasional expansion to "light" (i.e. not ramming your tongue down her throat) kissing with tongue. Very soft, very non-aggressive kissing. Your prob. caressing her neck and head as you do it. Very light and innocent. I would describe it as sweet.    
     
  DFK is much more passionate. Here you are both ramming tongues down the throat. Hands are prob. roaming everywhere on each other's body as you kiss. Much more aggressive and intense. I would describe it as true hunger and desire.    
     
  That's how I see the distinction...  

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London Rayne717 reads

down my fkin throat and just wiggle it around, never moving your damn lips, I might consider saying I offer this. Until then, I offer LFK which is akin to the kiss that Reese Witherspoon gave Mark Walberg in "Fear." If his ENTIRE tongue is in my mouth, I am going to back off, and gently show him how to kiss. It amazes me how truly clueless some men are when it comes to kissing.  

It also only describes the kiss, not what you are doing with your hands. It is what you do with your tongue, hence why it's called FRENCH KISSING. You can be just as passionate or intense with your hands, and not jam your tongue down her throat in the process.  



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Tobi Telford581 reads

My orthodontist was less invasive than some of these guys' techniques.  

Posted By: London Rayne
down my fkin throat and just wiggle it around, never moving your damn lips, I might consider saying I offer this. Until then, I offer LFK which is akin to the kiss that Reese Witherspoon gave Mark Walberg in "Fear." If his ENTIRE toungue is in my mouth, I am going to back off, and gently show him how to kiss. It amazes me how truly clueless some men are when it comes to kissing.  
   
 It also only describes the kiss, not what you are doing with your hands. It is what you do with your tongue, hence why it's called FRENCH KISSING. You can be just as passionate or intense with your hands, and not jam your tongue down her throat in the process.  

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1192967492 reads

...in this world and civie land. So it goes both ways. The tonsilectomy is no fun. Some of the ladies in question were in their 20's.

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Tabu380 reads

and suck my tongue into her mouth so hard, I screamed in pain and literally shoved her off me with both hands.  

She couldn't understand why I wasn't interested in a little girl-girl after that.  

Don't do that.

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harborview494 reads

a lot of tongue is just not helpful.  My 2 cents.

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swimtrekr343 reads

don't really need it crammed down my throat.  However, I do expect some tongue in my mouth, but gentle caressing is expected.

Swim

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Tobi Telford365 reads

If DFK really does mean having someone's entire tongue in my mouth, then I'm so not down with DFK

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SinCitySinner517 reads

LFK is just small pecks with no tongue and saliva..  Ramming down the tongue down one's throat is not ideal way of kissing, although I've enjoyed that too. A good DFK has proper amount of saliva, tongue action and pressure, and then again individual tastes are different so everyone's perception of good DFK is different than the next guy's . Its really hard to put in words. Its like asking someone what sugar tastes. Yeah try describing that beyond, "it tastes sweet...

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Tobi Telford459 reads

But kissing without tongue isn't French kissing, so the LFK acronym doesn't really apply to the action you described. So wouldn't it make more sense to just say "FK" vs. "no FK?"  

Or maybe we can't do that since that's how London spells "fuck." :D

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
LFK is just small pecks with no tongue and saliva..  Ramming down the tongue down one's throat is not ideal way of kissing, although I've enjoyed that too. A good DFK has proper amount of saliva, tongue action and pressure, and then again individual tastes are different so everyone's perception of good DFK is different than the next guy's . Its really hard to put in words. Its like asking someone what sugar tastes. Yeah try describing that beyond, "it tastes sweet..."  
 

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SinCitySinner396 reads

and French should be dropped.  

Its just another misnomer. My favorite sport of baseball has its share of misnomers as well...

Foul Tip - The ball is very much in play and foul tip is very much a strike..  

How about Foul Pole..  Now, London, that's not a guy with more then 6 inch dick.. May be in your world... But in baseball they are two poles, one in left field and one in right field. The ball touching the foul pole is fair and considered a home run... :D

The world is full of misnomers..

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3!turtle3396 reads

I would associate it as a certain level of intensity and passion.  I think most just view it as "licking uvulas".  We can practice my definition though!

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Tobi Telford385 reads

No acronym will ever apply to that hotness.  

Posted By: 3!turtle3
I would associate it as a certain level of intensity and passion.  I think most just view it as "licking uvulas".  We can practice my definition though!

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Light French Kissing - using the tongue is a given or it isn't French Kissing. Light means some use of the tongue mainly the tip. This can be very sensuous. Soft, light kisses with the tongues lightly touching without going much beyond the teeth. Each person explores the softness of the lips and the sweetness of desire. This is the beginning of the journey to what comes next.

Deep French Kissing - more intense and passionate version of the above. The tongue goes further into the mouth and the tongues touch further beyond the tip. This is Not just one person attempting to pierce the tonsils of the other with a stiff tongue poked down the throat. The tongues touch one another in a sensual urgent way. The lips are pressed together more tightly than LFK.

Both of these involve head movement not just lips and tongue. Opening and closing the mouth is also involved.

 In my opinion kissing is half the "dance" if you will. If there is no kissing there won't be any excitement. It's the kissing that gets things started. The touching one another warms things up. The Light french kissing turns the key and the Deep french kissing gets the motor running.

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London Rayne381 reads

Yup, what you described is how it SHOULD be done, but because so many think it's my description, I refuse to say I offer this. Deep does not mean 'down your fkin throat' except with a bj. :)

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