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If BBBJ is on the menu, is it safe to assume CBJ is?
noway30333 1570 reads
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As I explore the hobby, I am one that would like to enjoy the services of ladies that are higher end FS, but without receiving gential-to-genital or mouth-to-genital contact.  I understand that BBBJ is somewhat low risk, but still risky.

I also understand that CBJ is probably a very very very low risk activity, and would more than likely eliminate much of the risk of BBBJ.  Ladies, if BBBJ is on the menu, are we safe in assuming CBJ is too?

I have heard some ladies say they hate the taste of certain condoms, and do not like to do CBJ. But certain condoms can be used to eliminate that issue.   Before visiting with you, what is the best way to address this issue?  And, do you feel safer performing CBJ?   And, would you ever perform BBBJ but refuse CBJ

jaydalee636 reads

While I have no issue doing a CBJ if a gent is more comfortable with it.
That is how I started out on ter before upgrading my services to bbbj so I have no issue if a gent wants to do that instead.I know some providers do not like to do it because of the taste but there are flavored condoms.
Addressing this issue prior to an appt is going to be tricky.Many providers do not want to discuss things like that prior to a date and some will discuss it after you are screened.You are going to have to try to figure out how to approach the subject without scaring a provider off.
Good luck!

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noway30333510 reads

That is what I was afraid of.  Thanks for the advice.

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The_Lies_We_Tell470 reads

I suspect you're not going to have as much trouble as you think on this. Bring some flavored condoms with you.  
If you happen to encounter an escort who isn't into a CBJ (by the way, read the reviews,  seems to be CBJ is so more common than bbbj) break out your flavored ones,  she'll at least give it a try.

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hiddenhills509 reads

Don't bring them loose. Many providers will not use your single condom for safety concerns.  There's also no guarantee they'll agree to use your condom  

Posted By: The_Lies_We_Tell
I suspect you're not going to have as much trouble as you think on this. Bring some flavored condoms with you.  
 If you happen to encounter an escort who isn't into a CBJ (by the way, read the reviews,  seems to be CBJ is so more common than bbbj) break out your flavored ones,  she'll at least give it a try.

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The_Lies_We_Tell559 reads

Important tip from Hills. Bring the box. Just a small one, like the 3 pack. If it's unopened most escorts should not have any issue with it.

Obviously there's no guarantee, but I always bring my own condoms and have yet to encounter any resistance to a fresh unopened 3 pack.

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Posted By: Novice_hobbyist
That is what I was afraid of....
Seems as if you are afraid of a lot.  If you have a spouse or live-in GF, perhaps you had better limit your activity to ladies who do gloved HJ's.

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noway30333516 reads

As Andy Grove, former CEO of Intel said, "Only the Paranoid Survive."  It was actually a very good book he wrote about the rise of Intel under his leadership.

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Milamassage69531 reads

This is wonderful, thank you for the giggles!

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swimtrekr566 reads

do CBJ if you request it.  I have read many reviews that mentioned this topic.  However, I agree with the above comments about bringing flavored, or any condoms, in sealed boxes that obviously have not been opened.  After all, it's for the safety of  
both of you.  

If you prefer CBJ, I think you can tell her when you are BCD with her since it is a sexual activity it's not something you want to discuss in open conversation.  Most providers will go with your wishes, even if they do not like the taste of condoms.  As mentioned above, you might bring some flavored condoms, just make sure the box is sealed.

LLAP,
Swim

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Bobrubble505 reads

If BBBJ is on the menu and a provider is willing to do CBJ, why would the condoms need to be in a box? What is the provider going to be worried about, that the customer poked a hole in it?  

Early on I did bring my own covers. Funny story happened when a provider wanted to use her own, which I didn't care  I just wanted to make sure some where available. Anyhow, hers broke! We finished using one of mine.  

Another time a provider was late because she had to run out to get "supplies". She told me some customers didn't see her for FS and she offered BBBJ, but since it was our first meeting she wasn't sure what I had in mind. I pulled out my covers from my shirt pocket and grinned. Great session followed. I don't remember who's condoms we used ;

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The_Lies_We_Tell522 reads

Yes of course you're right.  
IF the escort provides BBBJ, she wouldn't care about the wrappers being loose or what.

I think in general all the advise given in this thread are simply "Best Practices"
For me, I don't want to think too hard about an upcoming date. Also it can be difficult to lose a bad vibe if you start off on the wrong foot.
Money in the white unsealed envelope, freshly showered, unopened pack of my favorite condoms, polite and friendly, while also understanding what I want from the encounter. Just easy habits to develop that greatly diminish your chances of having a bad date.
 

Posted By: Bobrubble
If BBBJ is on the menu and a provider is willing to do CBJ, why would the condoms need to be in a box? What is the provider going to be worried about, that the customer poked a hole in it?  
   
 Early on I did bring my own covers. Funny story happened when a provider wanted to use her own, which I didn't care  I just wanted to make sure some where available. Anyhow, hers broke! We finished using one of mine.  
   
 Another time a provider was late because she had to run out to get "supplies". She told me some customers didn't see her for FS and she offered BBBJ, but since it was our first meeting she wasn't sure what I had in mind. I pulled out my covers from my shirt pocket and grinned. Great session followed. I don't remember who's condoms we used ;)  
   
 

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