Hello, have any of you done BBFS before and if so how to go about that or ask that or if that's even a thing really?
sorry I am new and looking to get my first meeting but would like ot see if this is an option

Asking publicly for it means you've probably already done it. You should have done your research under the radar. For example, you could have done a search for posts discussing BBFS. Oh well...too late now.

im sorry but what are you saying?

See, for example, this recent thread:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/new-york-2/ladies-that-provide-bbfs-with-testing--266724?page=
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That's ridiculous. I don't know any sex workers who have a do not see list because someone posted a question about bbfs. I have been to many sex workers who don't do bbfs and I know they don't because I ask them respectfully and they answer respectfully and we carry on.

He makes it clear he is actually SEEKING BBFS. So a reasonably intelligent girl will assume he's engaged in BBFS before and is therefore a risk. So, yes, he's now on numerous DNS lists.
You are terminally naive.

If we're going off what was written in the OP then he has not engaged in BBFS so that is not what might put him on any DNS list. I would agree, that if he is looking to go bare and not interested in covered service that a lot of providers are going to say they don't provide that service and send him on his way. But I don't think just for asking and being honest about his goal is going to put him on a DNS list as that is generally understood (i.e., this bridge is now burned).

At the end of his question he wrote he  "would like ot see if this is an option." If that's not seeking BBFS I don't know what is. As for tone, my admittedly snarky response was not to the OP but to another poster named "debsoc." My reply to the OP was fairly vanilla. So I think you're off base on both your points. Be well,

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and see my reply missed the mark about what the OP was looking for.  Your distinction about him seeking but not necessarily having already received BBFS is correct. Sorry about that!
Though I still believe just asking the way he did will result in DNS's from a number of girls.

Well then if I may...you're on the right track and seeing KGirls will make your new found transition easier. Ask the booker who's game, or check out their ads. Most have a up-charge of about $100 for BBFS
Asking a non- KGirl is tricky. I'm sure you've heard of YMMV?
New, huh??

He's not a risk if he wears a condom, I mean no more risk than someone else wearing a condom. Sex workers ask for condoms because they want as little risk as possible so for their own safety,   they assume every client has had sex without a condom. Again, I have asked several times (not always), using a respectful tone and most times I get a no and I carry on (and most of the women I see are quite intelligent) and we have a great time. No one has ever asked me to leave for asking. Terminally naive? I've been at this for 25 years.  Use your head. If you don't ask for for bbfs, doesn't mean you haven't done it. I mean who hasn't? We all have on the non-professional side of life, if not within the profession. Geez.